there this lad who has fancied me for the last 3 years i was friends with him but he knew i wouldnt go out with him then aguements came and now we dont talk .i dont like him anyways but hes been slitting himself and writing about me in his blogs he use to stalk me and everything and ive talked to him about it but he kinda ignores it he wrote in his blog for halloween hes gonna pretend im with him! wat can i do!!!!
2007-10-26 11:14:33 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ignore it and don't give that any attention.
2007-10-26 11:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by Victoria. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow and he's just in time for halloween to, he doesnt even have to dress up (jk)
well, waht were the arguements about??if it was anything innapropriate that made u uncomfortable, then u can blame him.was it a subject u were sensitive on[kinda what ive been trying to ask frum the last Q.]then he needs to know bcuz friends learn new things about each other every day.
however if u dont wanna be friends with him anymore.......hmmm......sry*is thinking*...well it would be kinda nice to make him stop slitting even if u dont wanna be friends anymore so ask him to plz stop if he doesnt then ask him "if u dont like me then why are u slitting urself bcuz of me if im not worth anything to u, if i were worth anything to u then maybe u would like to be friends with me again"
I feel rly stupid rite now, u might've arugued bcuz of the date thing, well, u need to explain that what u had before [as friends] is sumthing u miss alot, the friend that doesnt slit himself, the friend that didnt make situations uncomfortable.
Talking is the first step of trying to resolve sumthing like this, usually i guess. But if he just keeps doing what he's doing then threaten for the law to *** after him or sumthing.
2007-10-26 11:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by Hodgeyhog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Your in the US, Not much If He doesn't start harassing You again. Unless You know some really big blokes who have no issues with convinvcing him to let even the fantasy go...
Your best bet would be to avoid him, don't read his Blog anymore, delete his e-mails, etc...Sounds cruel, but If He's a real freak & He's scaring & He won't be JUST FRIENDS, then there's not much else to do.
Did I mention the option of finding some really big blokes to help out?
2007-10-26 11:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by Capt Crasher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh! this geezer sounds like a nut short of a bag of bolts!
have you ever thought of reversing the situation, like many of the suggestie's have mentioned
the big,tough strapping male boyfriend ( or just friend if you don't want it to be that heavy) will work
and if none of the above works, you can allways try the fall back plan, introduce him to my EX,
completely mad in such a charming way with skills of a seductive politician in the way she just gets under your skin, leaveing a big fat dose of venom
hope things work out, if not I'll happily do the honors with a frying pan!
haw haw take care
2007-10-26 11:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you talk kinda funny.
Anyway, he sounds like a creepy stalker so you should complain to the police and show them his blog. They will just talk to him but that should scare the bejeezus out of this "lad" and maybe he'll leave you alone after that.
2007-10-26 11:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by amansscientiae 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, i think you should pretend that you got a boyfriend and that would make him mad and he may still write about you but, he'll leave you alone.If he don't stop you can make a police report because he's not aloud to stalk.No ones aloud to stalk someone.
2007-10-26 11:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by dzyre l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't care---the best thing to do is ignore him--if you feed into his stalking he will keep it up--if you ignore it and just tell anyone that ask that he is crazy--then you will be fine..I know this from a past stalker...he would not leave me alone until I ignored him. Good luck--I do know it is tough to keep quiet--but he is feeding off of it.
2007-10-26 11:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by eeyoree rocks2003 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents and show them his blog. Maybe they will be able to talk to his parents about it. Also ignore his behavior and don't react to him. If necessary contact the Police.
2007-10-26 11:25:32 · answer #8 · answered by xoɟ ʍous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police or come on to him very strongly and bring pictures of wedding bands and talk about the wonderful honeymoon you want in Paris, how you are going to quite his job and show him pictures of houses you want and then talk about the 10 kids you want to birth and have the names written down for him. And tell him where he is going to work.
He will run like all hell broke lose. Trust me. I did it and it worked!
2007-10-26 11:18:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he allows commenting on his blog, go there and put a comment saying that you are NOT with him and say he should let you alone! If he deletes the comment, then leave his url to us, and we'll teach this boy a lesson (by commenting)!
:)
2007-10-26 11:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
the best thing you can do ... ignore him .. stop reading his blog .. your fueling his desires .. the more you show interest the more he'll continue.
He's a sad little man ... let him have the fantasy and if he gets too freaky ... call the police!!!
2007-10-26 11:20:12 · answer #11 · answered by emnari 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋