How can a father call his own daughter a stupid wh*re and useless because she will go into the real world and get pregnant and he will disown her. He's said so many manipulative and demeaning things to me throughout my life, and he thinks it's because he was trying to discipline me. When i finally stood up to him and told him to stop talking to me that way, he stoped talking to me and hasn't for the past 5 or 6 months. He wont even look at my face if he were to see me in a room. How can a father do that?!
2007-10-26 12:01:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he most probably feels guilty for what he said since you stood up for yourself.
or hes being passive aggressive switching to the other side to still control you with out saying a word to you in 6 mths. i think you should keep strong and know who you are regardless of how he treats you.
im not sure about the pregant thing you said, was this the result of becoming pregnant and him slanging off at you becasue of this?
or him fearing you will end up pregnant and so him trying to protect you by being mean to you?
some parents can be cruel i am in similar situation with my mum and havent spoken to her for over 2 yrs and she lives in the same suburb as me!!!
2007-10-26 12:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by dot 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have found in general, that children live up to the expectations that are exemplified by their parents. If the standards are high ,a kid who is rewarded by the love and encouragement of good parents, will usually try to deliver. If the expectations are low, or the kid isn't rewarded by the love of decent parents then frequently the kid doesn't give his best. Universally, we are all searching for love and affection. Only you know what your parents gave you for examples. There is an old saying that goes like this "The apple doesn't fall far from the tree".If you hate yourself, it is pretty hard to love anyone else and as much as we may hate it, most of us are a direct reflection of what has been put into our upbringing. Your father just may not like what he sees.
2007-10-26 19:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously has a poor view of women which is going to be quite damaging when you are grown. Not talking to you isn't that bad compared to when he IS talking to you which is demeaning and cruel. Where is your mother?
2007-10-26 19:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by spinster wife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow. tré harsh!
thats not fair at all.
2007-10-26 19:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by little.miss.woods*comma*elle❀ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋