It seems like the more we are married the less sex there is, and I know stresses from kids and money and every day life are factors, but its just seems like we just can't connect like we did before.
2007-10-26 11:48:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When ever my husband wants to,I have never said no to my husband but he has said no to me. We been married 28 years.
2007-10-26 12:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married with a 6 year old child, another on the way. Daily stresses from everyday life is normal and we handle it quite well, we still manage to get busy at least 3-4 times a week. The fire we have for each other is still burning and won't die down for a while.
2007-10-26 18:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by Flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I do it everyday!!
Yes there is alot to deal with. The kids, work, the house, but you have to make time for that connection.
My hubby and I went through a phase were we cooled down and I could feel him pushing away as well as my self. I still wanted to have sex and so did he but we just had so much to do.
So we made a deal to make time every evening no matter what and it has made our marriage stronger. Make the time!!! Like you do for other important stuff. Record you favorite show or don't watch it all. If there is a will there is a way. Tired or not you will wake up when your sense are aroused!!!
Find the time.
2007-10-26 19:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by rockn75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married 20 years . When are 3 children were little maybe 1 time every week or two. Now that they are older once , twice sometimes three times a week.
2007-10-26 19:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 times a week. 1 child. married 3 years.
2007-10-26 19:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by ☆miss☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it varies from couple to couple. some couples are still VERY sexually active. my hub and i average 2 times a week. i know some couples that haven't done it in months. try to remedy the obstacles in your way. maybe send the kids to grandma's house every saturday and pick them up sunday morning. if both sets of grandparents live in the nearby, then rotate which house you send them to so that neither feels that every weekend is obligated to your kids. it's only one day a week and it will give you and your wife time to unwind and relax. also, if housework is getting in the way, consider hiring a cleaning company. you can get a cleaner for about $50 per visit. if your budget can afford it, have someone come in regularly to ease the burden on both of you. remember, it's not about who does the housework it's about freeing up your time to spend it together.
2007-10-26 19:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, am in the same boat as you we hardly have sex my baby is 1 of 4 but she is now 18 months old and i would say we have twice since her birth married 5yr, I try so hard and he just chooses to ignore us.
2007-10-30 18:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by bumpa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there is no textbook number of time that you are supposed to do it. My husband and i dont do it often and we are newly weds. But we know we still have that connection. we have more than sex.
However if you feel there is no connection, you have to make it happen. get a babysitter, do stuff together without the kids. You dont have to feel guilty enjoying yourself without your kids. spend more time talking.
2007-10-26 19:03:45 · answer #8 · answered by kira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 times a week
2007-10-26 18:51:31 · answer #9 · answered by LivingMyLife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine's measured in number of times per month !!!!
Maybe 2-3/ month if I'm lucky, or if I pout / whine to get a pity f*ck.
It doesn't get better..... at least not while the kids are in the house !!! I'll let you know if it gets better after they move out - IF we make it that far !
2007-10-26 18:56:01 · answer #10 · answered by aa889d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋