my relationship always end and be blame for it! they always accused me of doing something behind their back....but god knows i never did....
on my last relationship, i never show this guy that i'm so needy...i follow all those rules in terms of relationship...i did try my best not to make any mistakes that i did in my past relationship. but still here i am ALONE AGAIN :(
this time what did i do wrong?
*info* his mad cz of my ex...
2007-10-26 11:41:52 · 22 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont wry. If someone blames u for doing something behind ur back than they arent the one for u. The person u want to be with is someone that will allow u to say ur side of the story. Dont wry cuz i think that u will find someone u just havent found anyone yet. Hope this helps :)
2007-10-26 11:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by Avery 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying so hard! Forget guys and concentrate on yourself
you need to be confident Get a hobby do your school work
learn everything there is to know about what you really want to do in life and believe me when you least expect it the right one will come along! If you are as needy as you say try talking to a councelor to help you get over that sounds like you have had some bad times that made you unsure but the last person that is going to fix that is some guy
Work on yourself first and it will all fall into place
Good luck
2007-10-26 11:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just for the sake of clarity, it is possible to do nothing wrong and still wind up losing a relationship. Each person in a relationship brings their own unique personality and issues to the table with them, and as folks react to their own internal compass they tend to assess and reassess things based on how secure they feel from one moment to the next. Exes tend to cause a great deal of insecurities in people (males and females alike); in some cases this happens automatically, and in some cases the things you do (or appear to do) make the situation worse. And I have no way of knowing which of these instances apply here. But if he broke up with you without the benefit of discussion, and you're reasonably sure you did nothing to exacerbate his angst over your ex, then you're well rid of him because he wasn't reliable enough to weather the smallest of personal storms....and life is full of them. Sometimes "alone" is just a growth state we visit during intervals between our connections with others. This is neither bad nor good...it's just life. There's a better fit out there for you. Good luck.
2007-10-26 12:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're constantly being accused of doing something behind their back, then there must be something that is causing them to assume suspicious behavior.
Such as: Talking to exes a lot?
Forming multiple male friends?
Being kind of sketchy? (i.e. Being vague when they are asking questions, etc.)
If that's the case, it might be in your best interest to consider how valuable the relationship is, and how much you'd we willing to sacrifice to keep the flame.
2007-10-26 11:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to find a good companion. Jealousy issues are common. You didn't do anything wrong, I'm sure. It's possible they are doing things behind your back and are feeling guilty. Or they have cheated in past relationships and worry someone will do it to them. Or have been cheated on. It's not fair, but hang in there, someone good will come around.
Here's a good quote: "When you live your life, good things happen to you".
If you are someone who likes having companionship as much as I do, I know it can be hard, but focus on yourself and only yourself and good people will come out of nowhere.
2007-10-26 11:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by fotophrk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear your situation. Sounds like the guys you have been with haven't treated you all that well. There trying to blame you for it ending all the time. More or less its them that causes the trouble but they can't come up with a better excuse to end it. Hopefully the next guy will treat you with a lot more respect. It's not your fault.
2007-10-26 11:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by hurley59gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question with your last sentence.
General rule. EX's cause problems 9/10.
Good luck. Next time, try to keep those EX's in the past.
2007-10-26 11:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by ridewithgdotcom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAybe ur trying 2 hard next relationship don't think about it. Just go with the flow. If u think or he thinks somehting is wrong then make sure u both talk it out together.
2007-10-26 11:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't you , it's them not wanting to take the blame . Just shake it off , girl you got a long way to go and alot of guys out there to dump !
2007-10-26 11:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you've just not been in the right relationship it sounds like your constantly trying to please the guy in your life my advice to you would be to be yourself sooner or later the right guy will come along and trust me your not on your own I'm single myself and for ages i asked the same question but now I've decided to be myself and if they cant handle it then they are not the right person for me maybe you should try the same
2007-10-26 11:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋