I was with my ex 4, 4 years. we had a little girl, n that seemed to change how we was, always on, off. then i discovered i was pregnant again, n planned to get rid {sorry i know that sounds cold} He begged me not 2, saying that we'd make as a family. as soon as my son was born, he left me saying he needed space. He hasnt made no effort since, never calls, texts. he hasnt 1ce spent ne'time with his son, my little girl never got a 2nd birthday card. but then i get texts saying that him n his horrible mother wanna c my babies. This as happened so many times on n off 4 the past 8 months. My babies need consistency. There not toys u can play with when it suits. n i've told them this. Now xmas is cuming up n i know all the s**ts guna start again.. Wat do i do. bcoz its about my babies not me. I can just c them hurting them, Well my girl, coz my boy has only had me 4m birth. But my little girl asks 4 daddy. i seriously don't no wat 2 do...?
2007-10-26 14:34:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yes you should let him see them. you have to. he has rights. if he takes it to court they will make you let him see them.
2007-10-26 15:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to court,if he's not paying child support he has no rights,you can make him pay support,you need a Lawyer first off,he can tell your legal opptions,different states can be a little different not much but some !!!
2007-10-26 22:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by Butch46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to suggest something, but you know what? Half as$ed das are just as bad as no as$ed dads. SCREW HIM. Screw his mom and whatever he expects. He is most not a dad or an father. Squash it while you can. Do not get that little girls hopes up and have him squash them. Its better for her that way.
2007-10-26 14:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to an attorney. get child support set up and a schedule of visitation in place.
that's the best thing you can do for your kids. they do deserve to see their father, and he needs to help raise them. this would be giving him a chance to do so, and to follow the LAW just like the rest of us have to.
2007-10-26 15:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Legally you can't withhold your children from their father. You may think he's unfit, but you will need a court to back you up before you can keep him away from them.
2007-10-26 14:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by Leah 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋