most of the member of our basketball varsity..we know each other since 4th grade being member of the midget team, then jr. team now sr. team..weve been comfortable with each other naked in the shower since we see each other way back when were not circumcised yet until now that we all have pubic hair except me which i only have very few pubic hair and none in my legs and armpit. all of them had sex already that according to them, of course i know some may be lying but it seems that they descirbe it very accurately whats the feeling of having sex. it leaves me the only one who is still a virgin. my GF since i was 14 we plan to have sex when we're ready and this time we thoughts its not the right time, i dont know when. though there are other girls who want me to have sex with them i thought i will not cheat my GF coz i love her. life is good for our team and we have won some championship and defeat as well. should i freak out being a virgin at 16...whats your thoughts..thanks
2007-10-26 13:59:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
lol i'm 18 and i'm still a virgin and will be until after i get married :). i've had a bf who broke up with me because i wouldn't have sex with him and i don't feel bad. i think that it's his loss because he loses a girl who has absolute selft control.
and yes, most of the people in your team are probably lying.
besides, being a virgin means you'll not catch any sexually transmitted diseases, and you'll not get a girl pregnant. weigh up the consequences of you having sex...if something goes wrong and yo get a girl pregnant, are you able to deal with it?
and i don't think that not having sex at 16 is "delayed development". you're actually still developing who you are as a person. i think it's more important that you figure out who you are before you start having sex and make mistakes.
"sex is a beautiful gift. don't mishandle it"
2007-10-26 16:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by 1080 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! All of my friends instructed me that they had intercourse as quickly as we've been all approximately 14, and that i became into pretty truthful with reference to the undeniable fact that I hadn't yet. I had intercourse for the 1st time while i became into approximately 3 months faraway from being 19. Now, jointly as we are in our late 20's early 30's all yet approximately 3 of them have admitted they did not have intercourse till closer the tip, if not after intense college... do not freak out. lots of them are mendacity, and those that are actually not have not executed something that is going to alter the international in basic terms by using fact they beat you by utilising some years. have not got intercourse out of presure! in basic terms hold close on, you would be attentive to while your waiting :)
2016-09-27 23:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you think some may be lying? I've got news for you - 90 percent are lying. Just having a GF, you're already doing better than most of them.
You feel self-conscious about your delayed development. For every year that your development is delayed relative to them, your deterioration will be delayed by five years when you get into your "senior" years. When you get to about 50, you'll start to notice. You'll see other 50-year-olds and think they're 70.
2007-10-26 15:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by Jed 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex until you are ready. It's okay to be a virgin, even until you get married at 30. That is your decision to make, not some one else's. Most of the guys you are around will say anything if they think they will be made fun of, so don't believe everything you hear.
2007-10-26 14:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is there a race to NOT be a virgin? When I was your age I was a virgin. To heck with the guys at your school trust me most of them are all talk! Maybe act like them and tell them your not a virgin if it comes up HOW would they know?
2007-10-26 14:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by Hmmm... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you are doing good. You havent had sex. Dont forget its a good thing sometimes like your not ready thats smart your to young to have babies thats another one and I betch ya there lying and dont be worried about your hair problem you will get it sooner or lator. and also remember they will probley screw there life up and you wont because you think whats good for you wait for the perfect time
2007-10-26 14:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one on your team SMART ENOUGH to be abstaining from sex while you're not prepared to provide for a family. Unless you are ready to be a parent (best in a married relationship), don't get involved in the baby-making process!
2007-10-26 14:06:50 · answer #7 · answered by Esther D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
praise god thank you for waiting... there is no hurry.. you have a long life ahead of you.. dont rush it on by just to compeate. you sound like a well ajusted young adult and you are our future so thanks for also respecting your girlfriend... some are in the fast lane.. and belive me it's not worth it. i got pregneat at 16 1/2 yrs old. thank the lord i'm still married to the same man for 32 yrs. our oldest is 30 with a 13 yr old son, our son who is 27 who has a 10 month old son.. yes we are young grandparents ..i'm 47 grandpa 51 .... but i didnt get to do what a kid in high school should be doing... so thanks for staying in school also... BLESS YOU for staying a virgin !!!!
2007-10-26 14:24:36 · answer #8 · answered by dounut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was jounger we had a saying that went something like this
Those who talk don't
those who don't talk keep your mouth shut because what happens or does not happen is no one else buisness!
2007-10-26 14:55:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its good your still a virgin. girls like that at least i know i do. because i well know for sure you dont have any type of disease.
2007-10-26 14:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by ............ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋