Ladies,would you ever want to get married to a man that wants a sexless marraige because he is shy?Like me myself,im 20years old, a virgin,never smoked or drinked,never went on a date,never done nothing with a girl never kissed or even hugged one,and im very shy,i mean very very shy,..and im about to become a mulit-millionare in few montsh because im gonna be a vice president of a company..anways would you want to marry someone like me that wants a sexless marraige but only hugging and kissing because im very very shy and i wud be very shy 2 get naked in front of a woman because ive never been with one..thanks and im serious are there any woman out there that would like a marriage like that?thanks
2007-10-26 14:01:06 · 21 answers · asked by ESPN NEWS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
This must be a prank post.
If you are serious, I'm sure some women would. But why are you letting your shyness run your life? You need help.
And the reason I don't think this is a true post is....."I am about to become a multi-millionaire in a few months because I'm gonna be a vice president of a company anyways..."
How did you rise to a vice-president of a multi-million dollar company if you are so shy? And at the age of 20? Are you inheriting this company? Your post is riddled with misspellings and no vice president of a company says things like: "I'm gonna" and "anyways".
2007-10-26 14:12:43 · answer #1 · answered by iloveweddings 7 · 15⤊ 1⤋
What you need to focus if that's what you want in your marriage, is to let your partner know as you are and the way you are, no playing games of showing something outside, and at home being someone else. All of these in order to acept both as you are.
My questions for you would be, why you want to get marry? (the sexless issue that doesn't have to do anything if you are marry or not)
Are you really sure that you want a wife that only cares about your money? (if you are rich or not that is a personal achievement not public matter)
If you are shy as you said, I don't think you're gonna be in business for too long, unless you own the company or something... your personality is reflected to all your life, perhaps is time to overcome shyness.
I really think that you have give personal information that you shouldn't if you want to have a life or a private one, (20y, never had sex, ...)
to hug and kiss you only need a girlfriend, to make a commitment you have to be aware of what are you doing. Remember to get marry is not a sport or a fashion...
2007-10-26 21:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by Dragonheart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure some woman wouldn't mind
but you also might find that if you find a woman you love
you wouldn't be shy
I personaly wouldnt marry someone I am shy in front of but thats just me.
I personally when I get married would want a relationship not soaly bassed on sex espicially since i will be a virgin when I get married I want a man who I can talk to be friends with but also have a sexual relationship with =]
Good luck and if your only 20 you have along time so dont be so worried
2007-10-26 22:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by prnszcrtny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well why would it be sexless? If you love someone enough to marry them then you should be willing to take that step. If you are shy cover up with the blankets! I am sure that once you do it once, you will NEVER think about having a sexless marriage ever again!
2007-10-26 21:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kayleigh 2 · 9⤊ 0⤋
No. Why would you not want to make love to your wife? Yes, I understand your shyness, but to think a woman would accept a sexless marriage, I don't think so. What you have to do is go to a sex therapist and find out what you can do to come out of your shell. Your shyness is over the top, and you have to overcome it, one way or the other. Go for help...that is the only solution to your problem.
2007-10-27 17:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would be difficult to imagine; I myself would not want it...if it turned out that way (accident, disease, etc) that would be one thing. How can you judge you'd want a marriage where you only want to kiss and hug if you haven't tried anything yet???
Surely, there'd be plenty of women agreeing to your proposal simply for your money but is that really what you'd want??? Why would you need to get married now? You might want to see a counselor trying to get more comfortable with yourself because there is no reason for you to let others take advantage of you because you are shy!
P.S. maybe you could try on-line services for dating, meaning just talking to someone on-line without talking about your shyness???
2007-10-26 22:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by avechm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be naked to have sex, and I don't see what being shy has to do with it. Stop worrying about getting married and just try to find someone that you enjoy being with...sex and marriage will sort of fall into place once you actually have a person in your life that makes you feel comfortable.
2007-10-26 22:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I would not marry you.
Sex is a big part of marriage; Being intimate and sharing your whole self, enjoying each other.
And I want children in the future.
Plus you are full of $hit, every question you post states that you are 'gonna be a multi-millionaire'. Why bring it up so much especially as it has no relevence to the question. Thats a lie and I would not marry you.
2007-10-26 22:45:07 · answer #8 · answered by Stiffler 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can tell you I wouldn't want it. But I can also tell you to not worry about it. When you meet the right woman, you won't be shy--you'll want to express your love to her physically as well as emotionally.
I'm sure, however, if you really are going to be as wealthy as you say you are going to be, you'll find no shortage of women willing to be married to you in name only, in exchange for the cash. You and she will both be very miserable though, so I would strongly discourage it.
2007-10-26 21:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure there are some women who wouldn't mind a sexless marriage if they got to spend all your money. But that degree of shyness isn't normal. You should see a shrink.
2007-10-26 21:04:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋