Family & Relationships - 26 October 2007

the cool freshman


We went out twice last year (around November, and then in February)

Both times she broke up with me saying that she "couldn't deal with the school difference" (she was a 8th grader then, she's a freshman now)


Ok, so I then asked her if we would ever go out again (after the second break up) and she said that she wanted to wait till she got to the high school


So a week before school starts I say this:

"Okay I was wondering our relationship status was? Are we just friends or are we friends with potential of being more? I really like you and I don't want to say anything or do anything more that will make our relationship awkward. I really like you, and you are the most funny, beautiful, nice, smart girl I know, and I would never do anything to hurt you."

She said that we were definitely friends with potential of more she just "wants to get through the first week of school first"


A week after school starts, I find out that she has

2007-10-26 17:31:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The boy is like 14.

2007-10-26 17:30:42 · 3 answers · asked by Josh 2 in Family

when a 18 year old female says to a 18 year old male "aww. Your so cute" does that show interest


if it helps she is 3 months older but i dont think she knows also she always seems nervous around me

2007-10-26 17:29:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm worried something is wrong with my marriage. here are the facts pls tell me what YOU think.
i'm 7 months pregnant and sex has been a once in two weeks affair because of my low-lying placenta. earlier it used to be regular and fun for both of us. lately he doesnt seem interested in initiating it. big red flag.
he's moody and distant lately, (since a week) not affectionate. is it because he just isnt attracted to me now i'm pregnant? :(
i read on the net about signs he's cheating and these are the ones that DO match:
he suddenly got three new shirts to wear to office. but it was from credit card points that he offered me first to spend on something in the store, when i said i didnt want to shop for anything, then he used them.
since the doctor advised me to start walking he has also joined me and the website says a man who's suddenly interested in working out/keeping fit is a sign of cheating.

2007-10-26 17:27:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

grandma bought my 2 kids teddy bears wife got upset and twisted bears neck and threw it against wall in front of kids her friend and wife interrogated 13yr old for 3 hrs then wife went into back room and harrassed my daughter she cried herself to sleep and told me the next morning what happend my wife and her friend made my 13 yr old apoligize to them in order for her to attend her jr high school concert

2007-10-26 17:24:53 · 10 answers · asked by ddddddddddd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For those answering and correcting my spelling of my original question. Tell me how do you suggest I input all that I have to say in 1000 characters or less. I didn't think you could. Thank You. The spelling or text terminolgy was done intentionally.

2007-10-26 17:22:55 · 6 answers · asked by gin 1 in Weddings

Which are not plagued by scamsters?
eg. Using stolen photos of beautiful women, etc - with details you know are false (inconsistent information) - who say, Oh I am in Africa at the moment - but I live in the USA. Oh sure - now pull the other leg, will you?

2007-10-26 17:21:21 · 1 answers · asked by TruthBox 5 in Singles & Dating

Well me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year or more. We just begun having sex, its are third time. I have not come close to giving her a orgasm? She swears it feels good but the reason for her not coming is due to pain. It feels better every time we have sex (says her). It is making me worry though because she has not had a orgasm in more then 5 months? That was by fingering her ( it was her first orgasm by any one), I can't even give her one by fingering her? I feel like i am failing her and it makes me not want to do any thing sexual because i love her and i am not doing a good enough job. She wants one i know she does, she tell me all the time its not the importent thing to her but it really is for me!
What can i do, what are some good ideas to make her have the "time of her life"?

Also should i get jealous if she likes to masturbate, she does not but she did once in front of me and i got really turned off because i thought she was doing a better job then me or some ..?

2007-10-26 17:15:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and hubby been together for over 3 years. We have a 4month old baby.

I feel very unappreciated and not loved. I was layed off from my job about a month ago and havent been able to find another job. and he rubs it in my face every day. We have a new house so that makes things worse. He constantly says things that put me down...because i dont pay for anything he says I dont care about my son or anything ( i take care of him while he practically does nothing, and when I ask he complains) He's only nice when he wants sex and then afterwards he's rude. Rude to me around his friends, is always "too busy" for me and the baby.


There are just so many things going on im tired of feeling not worthy and not good enough, what should I do?
I know this sounds petty, but Im not happy at all. Im miserable, I love him but im not sure why anymore. Please help.

2007-10-26 17:14:08 · 24 answers · asked by -----------n 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do you think its better to be born to a young single mother around maybee 19-23, still living with her parents, and no dad around? your always at school, but when your home she always pays attention to you. then when your about 8 she gets married to a man who doesnt like you, makes fun of you, hits you, etc.basically your whole life changes, you have new baby sisters, basically your the black sheep of the family, leteraly you even have dorker skin than the resst of the family.

or is better to be born to a mom whos happily maried to her husband then one day when your about 3 they get a divorce. so you live with you mom one week and your dad the next. both parents spoil you rotten.then one day when your about 8 your dad gets married to a women, your still the center of attention, and pretty soon have new baby sisters, and also a step sister, whom you get along with most of the time. and your step mom trys her hardest to get along with you, and pretty much does and spoils you also?

2007-10-26 17:13:43 · 5 answers · asked by failurebydesign 1 in Family

still drink out of someones drink if you really like the person?

2007-10-26 17:13:13 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I met my husband I thought he was not for me for many reasons, went from that to marrying him in 5 months.... that's all it took to fall in love with him.... anyone here married that quickly?

2007-10-26 17:10:41 · 21 answers · asked by Latin Princess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-26 17:09:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We all get a bit grouchy or grumpy sometimes; have bad days or feel blue. How do you help your spouse/partner get out of 'a mood' if they are in one?

2007-10-26 17:06:02 · 25 answers · asked by pussycat 5 in Marriage & Divorce

in between, my husband met this woman and is marrying her early next year. This will be his 4th marriage and walked out on each one. Don't you think it's too soon after he had 18 years with me? (the longest marriage)

2007-10-26 17:05:22 · 11 answers · asked by BFCP 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So many guys say they love them but once they can't satisfy them, they cheat! If you really loved them, why would you cheat? You would brake your heart just so you can get pleasure? You would kill your own mother so you can get pleasure that lasts probably 5 minutes! So tell me what's up!

2007-10-26 17:04:34 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-26 17:04:33 · 5 answers · asked by SweetBrunette 5 in Singles & Dating

This girl is family friends from decades.We are friends,few years back fell in love.When we have to meet she makes plans or asks me to make plans but i talk about everything except confirm our meeting.Ive seen her,i love her but i dig my heels in talk other things when time to confirm our meet.Shes no idea till day we meet if ill be there or not.Why do i act this way?I love her when i want to see her i go to place where shell be.We are both single,shes mid 20s,im mid 30s,live 2 different cities.We have to meet soon i love her.Whats going on with me please explain.

2007-10-26 17:04:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am a single father, i decided long ago to break knots with my wife who is a gambler, drug addict and gone pregnant with another man. Now, i take care of my 2 kids (2 boys, in fact) it is hard though, but still trying to be a good father and mom at the same time, sometimes i feel guilty not satisfactorically doing my responsibilities as both mom and dad at the same time. Was i commit sin against my kids when i decided to let go of it and at the same time knowing that never i could have both resposibilities? i am just being real with my self i cannot get with the kind of wife i had before.

2007-10-26 17:02:13 · 18 answers · asked by Charles Harn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-26 17:00:37 · 26 answers · asked by mike f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how bad do you think it is

2007-10-26 16:56:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tonight was me and my boyfriend 1st year togetehr and we had a whole night planend out..well he ditched me to smoke weed with his friends..

should i forgive him?
should i stay with him?
is this even worth gettin mad over?
does he pick weed and his friends over me?

2007-10-26 16:55:38 · 12 answers · asked by SiMPly ME. 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i asked a question and i found out the ring is Titanium .... will it turn the finger green?

2007-10-26 16:55:29 · 10 answers · asked by **Wishing For A 2010 Baby** 4 in Weddings

2007-10-26 16:53:06 · 14 answers · asked by Shanteria G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have opened up a business. We both invested our shares in it. I'm a bit younger than him and my parents have helped me out with an important amount of money to invest in the business. We are turning great numbers only our personal lives are suffering. No more time for each other, just work... We have an 8 year old daughter together. He is always to tired to do anything with her, so I'm the one who takes her around. Our relationship has suffered for a year whilst preparing the business as well. Sometimes he gets very uncontrolled and says things that hurt our feelings. If we don't agree he just turns his back and walks away. He doesn't want to listen to what I've to say and he leaves. I can't voice my opinion. The worst thing he said: I regret so much, that I have started this business with you. Myself, I have put so much in it & if my parents knew they would just "smack" me. With clients he is always nice. How can I end this relationship without hurting the business?

2007-10-26 16:52:11 · 8 answers · asked by samba 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone knows men fantasize about other women, I think women do it just as much, they say men think about sex every 3-7 seconds and women do at least once every 2 minutes, do women undress men with there eyes?, do women fantasize about men they see at the grocery store, gym, church, work with, etc?

2007-10-26 16:50:39 · 27 answers · asked by Gordito 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been with my bf for 7 months and we have great sex its long and he does it really rough( I dont mind) hes really big down there but sometimes hes to rough and I end up being sore how do I tell him to be more gentle? How do you tell your guy that you wanna try new things in the bedroom?

2007-10-26 16:50:16 · 3 answers · asked by septemberbaby 1 in Singles & Dating

I am barely a teen, but I have a deep passion for romance, but have no one to share it with... I'm constantly getting whistled at, or called 'hot' but that's just shallow guys looking to get an attractive girl to ay attention to them...
How do i find a guy who's respectful, kind, and caring?
My perfect guy has to be out there somewhere, but how do I find him?
Please don't reply telling me that I'm young, that I have my whole life to look..
I need advice, not telling me what i know already...
Help is appreciated...
thankyou so much!

2007-10-26 16:50:03 · 21 answers · asked by asdfjkl 2 in Singles & Dating

OKAY ITS THE LOVE OF MY LOVE BUT HE KEEP DOING ME WRONG THERS THIS OTHER GIRL AND WHENEVER WE BRAKE UP THEY ALWAYS GET BACK TOGETHER AND WHENEVER THEY BRAKE UP WE GET BACK TOGETHER AND NOW HE AINT WITH NIETHER OF US BUT HE WANT ME BACK AND I DNT KNO WAT TO DO I NEED ADVICE????????????????????????????????

2007-10-26 16:49:30 · 7 answers · asked by khrisyatta_c 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf gave his dad his old fone cuz he got a new one. it still has all of the pics of me on the old fone but his dad wont delete them. my pics still the freaking background to the fone it freaks me out. wat shuld i do w.o rasing to much alarm?

2007-10-26 16:48:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating