in between, my husband met this woman and is marrying her early next year. This will be his 4th marriage and walked out on each one. Don't you think it's too soon after he had 18 years with me? (the longest marriage)
2007-10-26 17:05:22 · 11 answers · asked by BFCP 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this just shows how lucky you are to be rid of him!!
the fact that you are noticing all this makes me wonder if perhaps you are still in love with him and wishing it would have worked out. Ignore him and look around for someone who will be there for you and love you for the next 18+ years.
2007-10-26 17:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound cruel, but why does he marry every time?? I would say , "Why not just live with them"!! If he eventually leaves why waste the paper on a marriage license. I hope the 18yrs you had were good yrs. Getting married early next year is a bit soon but obviously he thinks he knows what he is doing.
2007-10-26 17:15:11 · answer #2 · answered by elizadoolittle4646 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am not sure if this is the best for him. It could be teh best for him and maybe he has gone through all the steps of pain since you have divorced. Also, maybe he is following his heart with this woman. Be happy for him even through I know you are not fully over your divorce of him.
2007-10-27 04:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by Katie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depend on the couple. but since he has a pattern of
walking out, then it a good plan that he will not stay in this
very long. but for you, move forward and let it go,
2007-10-26 17:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HIs next marriage will probaly fail. But the important thing is what YOU do with your life. Focus on you & let that fool go.
2007-10-26 17:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine Queen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only he can answer that but it is not your concern now. Put him in your past and move on and find someone to love you that will hang around forever.
Good Luck
2007-10-26 17:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by mn lady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is completely screwed.
Get him out out your minf and move on. Dont worry about what he is doing....the new wife will find out the truth...just as you did.
Stop worrying about him and his pattern and start taking care of yourself.
He is not even worth a minute of your time....you have spent enough with the jerk.
2007-10-26 17:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by Romi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless he works out what his problem is then yes this relationship will probably fail. Unfortunately you need to just let him go and let him work it out for himself.
2007-10-26 18:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by mrsdarth72au 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really has nothing to do with you. Get a hobby.
2007-10-26 17:13:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time worrying about it.
2007-10-26 17:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by October 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋