I am barely a teen, but I have a deep passion for romance, but have no one to share it with... I'm constantly getting whistled at, or called 'hot' but that's just shallow guys looking to get an attractive girl to ay attention to them...
How do i find a guy who's respectful, kind, and caring?
My perfect guy has to be out there somewhere, but how do I find him?
Please don't reply telling me that I'm young, that I have my whole life to look..
I need advice, not telling me what i know already...
Help is appreciated...
thankyou so much!
2007-10-26 16:50:03 · 21 answers · asked by asdfjkl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you obviously haven't met me
2007-10-26 16:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right, when you're not looking. . .he'll be there. And you'll know, you'll just know he's the one. And he'll be everything you ever imagined, respectful, kind, caring. And he won't even have to try, he'll do that automatically because he loves you. And that is what love is, I don't care what anyone else says. Don't worry, one day you'll find that perfect man for you. Just be patient, and he WILL come knocking on your door out of the blue. It happened to me, I'm 20 yrs. old but I had the same exact thoughts starting when I was 12. I thought I'd never find someone to love. And I did just last year, and he's perfectly perfect. God blessed me beyond measure and he'll do the same for you.
2007-10-26 16:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to agree with the other person........ romance is still there and the kind of guy u want (caring, respectful, kind, etc...) are usually goofy, and weird at first, but when u get to know them, they won't seem as goofy and weird. don't worry, u'll find a guy. it takes time, trust me, i've been looking for guy when i was ur age and i'm still not sure that if i have found him or not. i don't know if the guy i'm dating is the one i was looking for or not. it's confusing but as time will pass by, i'll know if he's the one. so don't worry, even if u find the guy, to really know if he's the one will also take longggggggggggg time (at least, it did for me). anyways, just try to hang out with the guys that have personality that u want in ur man. anyways, goodluck
2007-10-26 17:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to tell you all those things that you don't want to hear. I truly couldn't tell you the formula to finding the perfect guy. If I knew that I think I would have written a book. What I can tell you is to keep your eyes open as well as your heart. Sometimes the one that you want is not the one that you thought that you would end up with. I hope that you get what you want.
2007-10-26 17:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by nena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romance isn't dead, but we do tend to romantisise the past.
Just let go and live your life to the fullest: if you're having fun in your life, you tend to attract people.
Do things you enjoy. It's going to be a fun ride: and I know we all ache for our true love. I ached at twelve, and I ache eight years later. I did have my first love at 16, but that ended not so good, even though I still love him.
And I know that the big true beautiful love is still in front of me! Be an optimist:))
2007-10-26 18:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romance has become unfashionable in this world of ready-made things.
The quicker you take someone to bed the COOLER it is.
In reality, the longer you keep yourself from taking someone to bed the more you enjoy it because then you build a crescendo of pleasure that will knock you out of your feet when the RIGHT time comes.
Romance, physical or otherwise, is essential to build a perfect beggining of a perfect relationship.
2007-10-26 17:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by Luís Santos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean I'm 15 and I have asked myself that question alot,but you know what your best guy friend will always make the best boyfriend because you both know each other's flaws but you still like eachother. So if you find a guy compare him to your best guy friend and you'll know if they're good enough or not. Hope I helped.
2007-10-26 16:57:17 · answer #7 · answered by The best Love is our Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not dead ---- i think young guys dont know what to do with all those hormones ---- once they do learn to control them a lot of romance becomes attractive ---- when do guys learn to control the hormones??? if depends in may case it took many many years --- my beard is nearly 3 times older than you but i like to think im getting better ---- there will be someone for you that will romance you off your feet --- dont get too eager it will be worth the wait ---- have fun
2007-10-26 16:56:28 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cliche as it sounds, you'll find the right guy when he comes. As you have said, guys our age who whistle when they see hot girls are SHALLOW guys. Just wait when they grow old and understand what's it like to respect girls.
2007-10-26 16:53:07 · answer #9 · answered by :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was once in your boat. But now, and I mean RIGHT now my sexy husband is rubbing my feet.
My advice is to stop looking. Don't forget what you want in a man and stay true to yourself. Just hold on to your dream of "The Perfect Man" because I guarantee he is out there.
2007-10-26 16:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the guys you are looking for are a bit depressed that there are so few girls like you so kind of gave up and stay home. And I am not talking about emos.
2007-10-26 16:53:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋