tonight was me and my boyfriend 1st year togetehr and we had a whole night planend out..well he ditched me to smoke weed with his friends..
should i forgive him?
should i stay with him?
is this even worth gettin mad over?
does he pick weed and his friends over me?
2007-10-26 16:55:38 · 12 answers · asked by SiMPly ME. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am truly sorry he has placed you last on his list of priorities --- what you do now is your decision no one can tell you what to do as you have to bear the responsibilty at the least you should let him know you are hurt by his lack of everything for you --- respect caring consideration the list goes on ---- if he does not respond in a positive manner you really know where you stand with him ---- best wishes
2007-10-26 17:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was your one year anniversary and he DITCHED YOU?!??!! sweetie, you should never EVER put up with a guy like that. You have every right to be mad and don't think differently. Your bf's a real jerk to do that, especially to go smoke weed with his friends?!?!?!?!
If you decide to stay with him, that's totally your choice. If you do, I would make sure that he finds a way to make it up to you. Either way, don't let that happen to you again. If your boyfriend keeps ditching you all the time to smoke weed, lose the guy and find someone better. you deserve that!
2007-10-27 00:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by happy14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...wow i'd be so pissed!
NO
NO
YES
Thats what it looks like!
i mean yea it's been a year and it would suck to break up after dating for so long, but what is wrong with you when you ditch on your YEAR anniversary to go smoke F***ing weed! You need to take the night to think about this...long and hard!
2007-10-27 00:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should be mad, if he does this now, he will do it if you get married and grow old together. He needs to learn right away that if he's going to be with a girl like you, he better shape up or ship out. Stop waiting for him to find the time to spend time with you...get rid of him...fast!
2007-10-27 00:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by sun day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him. He chose what was more important to him and that was weed and his friends, not you. I know how hard that is to believe, but he made the decision loud and clear.
You deserve better.
2007-10-26 23:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. His weed was more important than you or your relationship.
What happens if there is another girl with weed? Your history. Save yourself a lot of heartache.
2007-10-27 00:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by tigger1960jhv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh wow.. Sounds serious you should talk with him, obviously he doesn't have his priorities set. If he doesn't change leave he isn't worth it. Because if he doesn't change it can only get worse in the long run, because its just he beginning
2007-10-27 00:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by Jav 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously dump him now. or you'll be 22, stuck in BFE watching him spend all YOUR hard earned money on weed for himself ON your anniversary. and then look at you and say, "what? i don't have money to spend on you"
run, run, run, run, run!!!
don't you want someone that gives a hoot about you?
2007-10-26 23:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by crimsonsky_bleedingheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a mistress, her name is Mary Jane
2007-10-26 23:58:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would DUMP him and be like you showed me tonight what means more to you and sure it will hurt but that was so RUDE!
2007-10-26 23:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋