Ive been with my bf for 7 months and we have great sex its long and he does it really rough( I dont mind) hes really big down there but sometimes hes to rough and I end up being sore how do I tell him to be more gentle? How do you tell your guy that you wanna try new things in the bedroom?
2007-10-26 16:50:16 · 3 answers · asked by septemberbaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should tell him.. he should understand he's your bf. he would probably get excited by the whole trying new things deal... you should come up with a new position or something..
2007-10-26 17:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by aa... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your mood when you tell him.
Here's some option's for the first problem - roughness:
"Sweetie you're getting a little rough down there and that does not feel so good"
or
( Purr )"It would really make me feel so good if you made gentle sweet love to me"
or
"Baby I love making love with you but sometimes you're a little rough"
or
" Damn boy - what you trying to do - drive a nail with that thing either get off of me or ease up"
Problem 2 - try new things:
"you know what I'd like to try"
or
"I have a fantasy..."
or
"What's your fantasy? I'll do yours if you do mine"
or
"Look at what I bought for us to play with..."
or
" you know what would really turn me on.."
If you are comfortable enough to let him see you naked - then you should be comfortable enough to tell him what you want - what makes you feel good. He probably thinks he's doing the right thing - and if you have not told him, hows he to know better. Sometimes men need a little direction to know what makes a woman feel good. And sometimes we need a little direction from them to know what they like.
2007-10-27 00:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by Boots 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him, he's your bf.
2007-10-26 23:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋