2007-10-26 17:00:37 · 26 answers · asked by mike f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes!!!!!!!!! fight for her and your marriage, before she falls emotionally for someone else, but be prepared for the worst just in case.
she maybe crying out for your attention, and if your quick you can win her back. Give it a chance but if you feel your not getting anywhere or the cheating as advanced then get out, dont be afraid to let go and hold your head high, because you tried.
2007-10-27 18:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to have a reason 2 fight 4 a marriage and the reason as sumone else said kids is not the answer, just because u have kids doesnt mean u should stay 2gether, wouldnt it be better 4 the kids 2 have 2 happy parents apart rather than 2 unhappy parents 2gether?? an unhappy marriage and partners cheating will just let the kids think thats this is ok 2 do and its not, you should fight for ur marriage only if u believe its worth fightin 4 and u love ur partner, ask them y they feel they need 2 cheat, maybe they dont feel love frm u enough, there could be all different reasons, im not sayin cheatin is ok, cuz its NOT!! i have had it done on me and there was a 1 yr old involved so i ended my relationship but its entirely ur decision!! how about councelling?? hope this helps and u work it out!
2007-10-27 05:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by kelz_jojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's still love in the picture, then in my opinion, it's never too late to save a marriage. People often stray for many reasons. Some are just habitual cheaters, some do it because they feel the attention and affection is lacking at home.
It's up to you if you think it's worth fighting for. But in my book, you should never walk away until all avenues have been crossed. Communication, counseling..ect.
2007-10-27 04:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by BeLLa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes yes, think about the benefits if you do fight for the marriage what would you accomplish? when the person goes to stray then they don't really care about the marriage anymore, why would want to save something they don't want in the first place. I say is a waste of time and move on to bigger better things out there that can appreciate yor company. good luck
2007-10-27 00:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
starting to stray..hmmmmmmmm
stop him. The marriage is always worth fighting for but make sure that the person is all worth it.
Get counselling and therapy and make sure that you are not being aprehensive about things.
Set up a dorect and good communication and start building on the marriage, one step at a time.
Pick up from where the two of you left it.
patience, building trust and doing lil good things for each other each day will be a good place to start.
Get counselling. Please !!
2007-10-27 00:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by Romi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your marriage is worth fighting for, unless you don't think so? I think you sit your wife down and ask her, if she does'nt want to give it another try, then it's time to give up as you can't make somebody love you, no matter how much you try, I'm sorry to say!! But if your wife does think your marriage is worth saving then i think you both need to go to counselling to find out where your marriage went wrong in the first place. Well best of luck.
2007-10-27 03:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can speak from experience here and I will say this.....If the other person is starting to stray or has lost interest in your marriage then let them go. It causes heartache for the person trying to hold on. When I tried to talk to my wife to try and work it out she had already set her mind to what she wanted and who she wanted to be with. So, what was the point in trying? I can also say say that it is even tougher when there are children involved.
2007-10-27 00:10:47 · answer #7 · answered by Scott R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does "starting to stray" mean?
Do you have kids? Marriage is always worth fighting for when it involves kids.
Marriage counselors are always cheaper than divorce. And easier psychologically.
2007-10-27 00:06:36 · answer #8 · answered by angrygramma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have found that in any relationship including marriage that when one side stops fighting for it is when it's the most complicated. Its only worth fighting for as long as you want to fight.
2007-10-27 03:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the Q. should be "Are you, yourself, willing to fight for your marriage even though your spouse is starting to stray" b/c you gave your life to that person and vise versa.
There is always hope!
Don't give up and yes marriage is always worth fighting for
2007-10-27 00:21:25 · answer #10 · answered by ¿Where is Wonderland? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋