I am looking for a relationship but the hunt is not going good...should i just not try and see what comes my way??
2007-10-26 16:00:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm...i think as long as you look at it as "getting one" , you are gonna have a hard time whether you are "hunting" or not!
:)
2007-10-26 16:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by stcroixalta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. It could be that when you are looking, you are more aware of your situation. When you aren't looking, your situation could be the same, but you don't notice as much because your focus and attention aren't on it so much. Whether or not you were searching, you would still have met that girl, so it doesn't even matter what you do : ) It could also be that when you aren't trying so hard to seek and get a girl, you are more relaxed & yourself, and that tends to attract people.....
2007-10-26 23:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by Miss.Understanding 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats leaving you love life up to fate. Do you believe in fate? I hold to the idea that you should date for fun until something develops into a relationship. Just have fun. As people say "It just happened...." Is fate. Take charge of your interactions with the date and make them happen but do it with creativity or moxie. Don't force love...make it a priority to enjoy yourself and try to help the other person to enjoy your interaction.
2007-10-26 23:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by breadmayker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually yes because you may seem like your desperatly searching. So heres what you do, you act like you dont care, uninterested. Maybe if you have a good female friend, start hanging out with her alot , it will make women think you arent available and will add to the mystique lol.
Good Luck!!
2007-10-26 23:07:29 · answer #4 · answered by amythys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to me all the time ( used to ) when you try too hard it is easily read by women. Lighten up, be natural, and they will "pick" you up. Take my word!!
2007-10-26 23:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by Ace Archer THE Michigan Madman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly idk maybe it just seems like that ....i mean look at it this way you know how if your having fun and enjoying yourself time flys but when ur watching the clock it takes forever.....i think its the same thing if your waiting for that girl it will seem like she will never come(or guy) but if you just enjoy life and being young she may show up!:) or he haha depends on who is reading my answer!!
2007-10-26 23:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
faint heart ne'er won fair maiden. GO OUT AND GET HER--except on Sadie Hawkins Day--every Feb 29th---on that day she can get you.
2007-10-26 23:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When your single, you see couples holding hands.
When your with someone, you wanna be a free man.
Yea, thats life.
2007-10-26 23:03:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when you aren't looking for love, you find it, and in the oddest places
2007-10-26 23:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tried both. Neither has worked for me.
2007-10-26 23:05:23 · answer #10 · answered by gone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋