.a girl i have known for more than half my life and ex girl is dating a guy. i have lived in washington for the past two years and could do nothing about it.i moved up back a couple of weeks ago and the tension between us was huge.we would give soft and delicate rubs to the each others sides when no one looks and other things.one night it was just me and her on the couch and things started off buy just tickleing each other then it led to massageing then before i knew it all i could see feel or touch was her her lips her neck everyhting whent white except for her face and i was fine with that.i love this girl more than i love anyhting i would live without everything just for a night with her.before i moved away and we were dating i told her every night in her ear i would wait for her if we ever got seperated.for two years i never touch another girl never kissed another girl.and now i seem to be to late becouse of this new guy what do i do.do i say somthing at the wedding please help!
2007-10-26 15:36:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Speak now or forever hold your peace.
Peace.
2007-10-26 15:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by Music♫Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are in a tough spot for sure. No before the wedding. You need to find out what is upsetting her so much about loving you and him at the same time. She seems to not want to let go of you, because of hurting you deeply I am presuming. She is in deep with this other guy, wedding plans and all, but it isn't too late for her to tell him it's over. She needs to come clean with this for your sake and his, and to clear her own mind. Try just talking with her, and spill all the beans. Are you ready, financially, etc to marry her....?? If so tell her....again. If it is over for you...then you have to move on with your life. Tough as it is....
2007-10-26 22:46:17 · answer #2 · answered by Toffy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go to the wedding. Obviously she didnt wait for you because she developed enough of a relationship to be getting married to another guy right now. Don't stop your life for someone who is not being truthful OR fair to you, move on to someone who will TRULY return your feelings, there IS someone out there, it just might take a lil time.
2007-10-26 22:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by Tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she also loves you, why is she marrying someone else? go and speak to her and tell her about your feelings, ask her how she feels, before she gets married.
2007-10-26 22:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is not only cheating on him she is cheating on you. has that registered to you yet?
Try reading this.http://www.wikihow.com/Understand-a-Cheating-Girlfriend
http://www.wikihow.com/Deal-With-a-Cheater
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-over-a-Relationship-Less-Than-a-Week
2007-10-26 22:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋