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I found his myspace by chance. He acts pretty innocent and respectful. A very sexy guy but i was surprised at his myspace.
He says hes addicted to Porn, porn stars, and his hobbie is fornicating,sex, is a swinger and does not list his sexual orientation, has tons of girls leaving him messages on there.

Is this a red flag?

2007-10-26 21:06:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

he told me hes single cause he hasnt found the right girl..

2007-10-26 21:07:36 · update #1

i do feel jealous because i thought he really liked me but i see he likes alot of girls

2007-10-26 21:12:09 · update #2

21 answers

This is a giant red flag. Have you dumped him yet?

2007-10-26 21:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by Bob Dylan ♪ 7 · 1 0

Don't get me wrong, a lot of guys do love porn but i think that a guy shouldn't really talk about it so much on his myspace or any other blog for that matter in the way that he does. In my "personal opinion" this is definitely a red flag and you may want to consider a break up unless of course you don't have a problem with it. I wish you good luck on this issue.

2007-10-27 04:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by Orion 2 · 1 0

Yeah that's a big alert. The main thing that got my attention was that he claims he's a swinger. He might not be a true swinger to say. But the fact that he claims it means he's willing to act upon it. So if you want a relationship that's monogamist I'd say ditch the guy. And plus it takes two to swing.

2007-10-27 04:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by b_solrac 2 · 1 0

haha, YEAH it is (a red flag). most guys actually do look at porn a little bit, but he sounds kind of like a deep-down douchebag.

i'd advise you not to get too close to him, just have fun and take advantage of his hobby. i imagine he'd be pretty good if he has all that experience.

2007-10-27 04:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by Mikezilla 2 · 1 0

i think if he says he likes u and if he is honest to say that then may be he likes u and may be for something else other then sex.watching porn and getting addicted to them are two different things alltogetehr.If he is really adicted then i guess he need help.As far as ur relationship is concernned it depends upom how u guys think about it and what all plans u have.Insted of taking to whole lot of idiots and missleading persons here talk to him directly.

2007-10-27 04:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It is a red flag if you aren't looking to be part of a swinger group.
If that's what he likes, why would he change because he found someone who doesn't want him to do it?

2007-10-27 04:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

A lot of guys like porn and he is honest to admit it. But the rest of the stuff sounds like you should be careful until you get to know him better.

2007-10-27 04:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 0 0

Sounds like he is imature. Check out his male friend's space, theyre probably the same type of kid brains. these guys tend to cheat more cause they dont understand commitment. Also remeber the chinese proverb " if u cant tell a man's character, look at his friends"

2007-10-27 04:10:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First Myspace isn't REALLY the window to our soul is it?

Second, I'd ask him. You can tell him straight out you know guys like porn but isn't he into ANYTHING else?

2007-10-27 04:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by mkt 5 · 1 0

Sounds like the typical guy. sorry..every guy I've ever met. Hes just honest about it. It sounds like you are already jealous. Find someone else.. Believe me..you will

2007-10-27 04:10:00 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0 0

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