whydo you in aother words, have no committment status, like, going to the end of the relationship wether it be marital or just trying new things(women) persay. can you handle a woman in a steady relationship just like you would do your job, or are you a continous quitter, leaving babies to be raised alone, get my point.
2007-10-26 08:49:15 · 17 answers · asked by Shirleyann L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
AMEN!
And yes that fits all races.
2007-10-26 08:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by Queenie` 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When it comes to questions and creating them why can't you stay away from profiling stereotypes and creating bigot information?
Where does it say that only black men cheat or that men period cheat and women are the non-cheaters?
Women cheat. Men cheat. There is no colour because every race cheats and every gender cheats on each other. Just like women quit and men quit and women raise children alone and men raise children alone.
If you just read some of the questions posted you will begin to realize that this global community has "cheaters" and "quitters" in their midst struggling to find answers. If you're looking for answers - great! If you're looking for a soapbox - call the person you are angry at and vent on them.
It's a new millennium. Welcome to the 21st century my 18th century friend.
2007-10-27 00:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really sounds personal. I don't think it's necessarily black men that have this tendancy. Alot of men in today's generation were not raised to make commitments and their mother's did everything for them, with no healthy father figure to be an example. Of course, once you are grown, it is your responsibility to reach for maturity how ever far out of reach it may be, but it is more of a struggle for some men than others depending on the upbringing. My advice is to not allow "love" or feelings I should say blind you from the reality of the person's struggles and habits. Pray for the kind of husband you need, and work on becoming a great wife in the meantime.
2007-10-26 16:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, first off, if you think that this is limited to just Black men and not men in general, you're the purest form of an idiot that I've ever seen. Men in general have commitment issues...
This is because so many of us were left by our fathers and mothers, what you're feeling is nothing new to the world. Hell, people been cheating and leaving babies for a long time. So don't just hop on the internet with that crap about Black men. You need to check yourself.
You just haven't found the right person, but don't think that men of other races won't do the same thing to you.
2007-10-26 16:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are sterotyping there is no way for you to know every black man in the world and know they do this. I have a friend that has been with his girlfriend for 6 years and has a baby and never left her side. So sounds like you need stop being so ignorate.
Its not just black men that have committment issues and can be dead beat dads it is EVERY race!
2007-10-26 16:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by *~*love always*~* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually this kind of problem is not just confined to the african american people of the USA. It is widespread all across the world. Do not let any countries out there pretend only america or only black americans are having such problems. We all come out of Egypt.. remember? South america.. russia.. korea..japan.. iran.. syria.. etc..all countries have this problem.
To me..it seems mostly because men are seeming to be more and more cowardly as the world gets older..perhaps a nutritional problem.. I am not sure... All I know is that it isn't a problem mainly confined to african americans. It is a shift in laws.. in values.. If you examine the laws of the USA and other countires..remember MEN wrote them and enforce ( or do not ) them. The laws seem to be more and more lax as the years and centuries go by.. also if you notice..lawmakers rarely feel they need to comply with good laws concerning children or women themselves. .. and leave themselves out of the law enforcement . ( This is historical fact gentlemen,before anyone jumps on what I am saying. )
Think about it.
The lives of children mean more than just leaving them for someone else to take care of. All our lives have distinct and precious meaning or God would not have made us all.
Learn to truly love thy neighbor and .. just so we all understand this.. love is not sex. Love is far more than sex. It is the greatest emotion and takes practice and exercise for it to become greater than the sex act. We are not just cows or horses or kangaroos. We are a people made with the ability to change our surroundings and how we percieve what we need to do for others and for ourselves.
2007-10-26 21:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by BelieverinGod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you a dyke? If so don't worry about Black men then. The Black Male Bashing is so freaking old. So you picked a loser? Could it be that your lack of appreciation for the most beautiful, strong, sexiest men in the world caused him to leave your tail. There is a long history of Black men being separatred from families brought on by slavery first then lack of opportunities for our Black men. Stop the hatin on your own people. I hate that women do this. For the record my BLACK man works every day takes care of the children and cooks. Then I do appreciate him. Things to make you go HMMMMM. Jack***.
2007-10-26 16:13:16 · answer #7 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This statement is very negative towards black men of every color have a problem with commitment, When things don't go there way they are all ready to get up and take off running.
leaving there children behind that's why it is important before having babies to make sure that this is the person you want to father your child is he reliable and trust worthy. This is my opion you dont have to agree with it.
best of luck
2007-10-26 16:21:22 · answer #8 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of baby daddies out there. I know one guy that has three kids with three differnet women, no steady job, and is always complaining the "man" is holding him down!
When will these fools learn to use a rubber?
2007-10-26 15:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by Smooth Lyrics II 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are men like that in all races. My husband is black and we've been together since we were 16! We're 28 and on baby # 2 due any minute now! He hasn't gone anywhere! Oh yeah, and he's been at the same job for 9 years!!!!!
2007-10-26 15:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by Meichelle 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think they're men of many different creeds/cultures that don't take care of their children & leave women. You really shouldn't generalize.
2007-10-26 16:06:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋