He constantly winking at me and has this freakish grin, he called me a sexy stud soccer player, does that mean anything? Please give me some kind of help. thanks
2007-10-26 08:59:38 · 21 answers · asked by Cassie G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he really makes you uncomfortable, or if he ever touches you, you need to talk to a teacher or guidance counselor.
2007-10-26 09:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by nene111782 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well on the surface, it's not very appropriate to call a girl a stud. (even if she is a soccer player, LOL)
But I also think it is somewhat innapropriate for any teacher to tell a student she's sexy.
Even though his behaviour is innapropriate, he is still a long way from qualifying as a pedophile.
I have seen plenty of adults who wink at children, and although I agree it can get a bit creepy, it doesn't necessarily mean that the person who is doing the winking has any wrong intentions.
I have also seen my share of people who have a freakish grin as well, & again there's no crime in that.
So all we really have to go on is a borderline innapropriate comment. It could be that he is trying to give your self-esteem a boost, but there are still more appropriate comments that he could use than "sexy stud soccer player".
I suggest that you discuss your concerns about your gym teacher with your mom or dad. Also individually ask some of your classmates if any of them feel that he's been innappropriate with them too.
I hope that he turns out to be just a guy that takes some getting used to, & nothing more. ;-)
2007-10-26 16:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cassie this is certainly inappropriate behaviour from a professional teacher. You should be informing both your parents and the principal at the school if he is making these remarks and making you feel uncomfortable. You may not only be helping yourself become a victim of abuse but other young gals also.
2007-10-26 16:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah report him to a teacher or principle... or better yet... TELL YOUR DAD! lol omfg your dad will want blood ^_^ LOL oh man I would like to see that. Ummm or you could go up to your principle and tell him what you just told us. ok ok and in the rare occassion that the principle doesn't believe you or doesn't think the situation is anything to worry about... threaten him to go to the news or that you'll get a lawyer to sue the school. So I would recommend you telling a parent that way the principle doesn't think the situation isn't that bad(I've been in alot of different schools and sometimes... the principles... just... SUX.... so I would recommend telling a parent to talk to the school)
2007-10-26 16:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by Aubrey C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask other girls how they feel, get some backup, for example, has this happened to them by him as well. If not, get one of those recorder thingies, activated with voice, when he does that to you, say outloud "when you do such and such to me, it makes me feel uncomfortable", see what he says and catch it on tape. Got some evidence - get to the Police!! Bypass Principal and other school staff who may warn or cover for this idiot!! You can also go to your doctor and explain how depressed you are lately and need some help! Then you have it documented that you needed to go for help because of this wanker! Creep. Stay strong and be tough about it. Sometimes you need to just speak up for yourself. Be wise so you can catch him by the you-know-whats!!! ;)
2007-10-26 16:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are under the age of consent, e.g. in New York State 17, then yolu should report him to the police and concerned parents.
However, if you are amongst and are all adults, tell others to be weary.
2007-10-26 16:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by Slick98 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me too for a long period of time, then in my sophmore year, he began groping me and what I understand now as "conditioning" me.
Just be careful...document everything...don't fall for him because he is so much older than you that by the time you get a clue as to what he is doing, and the fact that you aren't his "crush" or "girlfriend" you will have already been used.
2007-10-26 16:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by FavoredbyU 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there how gross is that I could talk with your parents or someone you trust about it because that is not something he should be saying and at all that is what you call sexual harassment gross he is the adult he knows better.Talk with your mom about it because if it makes you uncomfortable then there is a issue.He might be joking or something but needs to understand you do not do that.I hope this helps you sweetie god bless please talk with someone soon.
2007-10-26 16:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by kutiepye28 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he makes you feel uncomfortable and you feel he is inappropriate, then you need to let your parent, guardian, a Principal, School Nurse or some other trusted adult know.
Do your best to never be alone with him and keep a distance.
2007-10-26 16:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by wondermom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are a kid, yes, I think he's a pedophile. Report to your principal about this. It's called sexual harrasment, and it's inappropriate. I wouldn't want that creep near my kids if I had kids.
2007-10-26 18:06:27 · answer #10 · answered by Think Richly™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋