So my bf is mad at me right now, I didnt do anything bad, just left him an emotional voicemail that for him was dramatic and he says he hates drama and doesnt put up with it. I felt bad and called him two days later and left another voicemail apologizing for my behavior and explained I am really emotional right now because we are in a temporary long distance relationship ever since he left for California 3 months ago. I asked for his forgiveness and told him I just feel really depressed and hope he is not mad. He has not called me for a week now. I will also note he suffers from on and off again depression for years and he is depressed right now.
My question: Do guys ignore you when you have created drama/made them mad? Or is he breaking up with me without telling me directly?
Thank you everyone :)
2007-10-26 08:50:43 · 8 answers · asked by Sad Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, they are not ignoring you. Most guys either don't know what to say, or just figure if they say anything it will cause more drama, better to just not say anything.
2007-10-26 09:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Pixie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suffer from frequent depression. When it comes to relationships dealing with a person who suffers from depression can be very trying. I know when I'm depressed all I want to do is cut those people closest to me out of my life. I know it is irrational but that's how I feel. I don't believe he wants to break up with you but if he is depressed he's not thinking straight right now. Or perhaps he's too caught up in his own problems or depression to be considerate of others and their feelings. The question to ask are you willing to be patient with him? It's going to take a whole lot of patients.
2007-10-26 09:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by Ducky Jackal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this great article:
Long Distance Relationships: Tips For Making Them Work
http://www.hearts-and-kisses.com/relationshipadvice-long-distance-relationships.html
2007-10-26 09:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by lovehealer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He dosen't have the nerve or courage to tell you it over> Don't call or talk to him> If he is interested in you than let him make the next move>No 1 like drama so>
2007-10-26 08:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...could be all of the above here possibly sister...who knows for sure though without actually having a really good sit down calmly attituded face to face conversation with this person directly though otherwise?.......agreed?
2007-10-26 08:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do, but not for that long. Even if he isn't breaking up with you, you don't deserve to be "punished" by being ingnored whenever you inadvertently annoy him and may want to rethink your relationship anyway.
2007-10-26 09:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by Leah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its her fault for doing it with somebody she fairly knows, how could she not word hes donning a condom?..... in any case im fantastically advantageous identity ignore approximately him if i substitute into in that subject, except if i knew hed help me help the youngster.
2016-10-02 21:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by ghil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know, my guy does that too.....but he eventually has to talk to me cuz i ignore him back for like 3 hours then hes all like....im so sorry, stop ignoring me
2007-10-26 09:01:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋