I have been asked out by a really good-looking guy. I don't know him well but he seems really nice. I assumed he was 25ish, I've found out he's just turned 20! He looks and acts older than his age and I always get told that I look younger than my 32 years so we'll look okay together but is it a bit sad to go out with a guy 12 years younger? If he wae 25 and I was 37 I wouldn't bat an eyelid, but the guy was a teenager not so long ago!
HELP! No nasty comments please.....
2007-10-26 07:17:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you INSANE?!?!!!! Go out with him!!!! That is an order!!! I am living my life vicariously through my younger sister who is in a similar situation and I am totally all for older women younger men scenarios. After all, we out live men (usually) so I say if we want a partner that will be with us in our twilight years we as women need to start considering younger men for partners. Stop thinking about what someone else will say or think. If you've got it like that then GO FOR IT!!! All I can say is get your groove on, and don't worry about anything else. YOU ROCK!!! ;-)
2007-10-26 07:25:35 · answer #1 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know most of the time the girl is younger, but let's ignore that right now. I am 20, and my boyfriend is 32. What a coincidence since that's the same ages as the two of you. I just want you to know, me and my boyfriend are very serious. We have only been together for 6 months (I've liked him for several years). I love him, and hope to marry him by this time next year. I will mention I have always been told I act mature for my age.
I'm telling you this to tell you, It is working great for me, so if you like him, you should give him a try. It might work great for you too. Good luck
2007-10-26 14:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by wingedstrider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people say "Age is nothing but a number" Sometimes this statement is true and other times it is not. If you feel like you two will mix well together and if you think he is mature and responsible enough then you should go for it. I know people who have had age differences and they are still a good fit.
2007-10-26 14:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is but a number, darling. I would go for it if you are attracted to him, and if he is intelligent enough to hold a good conversation, why not? You have nothing to lose, and you only live once. If it doesn't work out, you can always look back and laugh with your girlfriends. "Remember that time....?" I am 25 and am dating a 39 year old. (He's not rich!) we get along fine. 6 months and counting!!!
2007-10-26 14:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by babiemere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 26 when I married my 19 year old bride. Now it's 16 years later, and sometimes I forget about out age difference. Most days I don't even thin about it. Only when one of us has a birthday am I reminded of it.
Don't let society's "rules" stand in the way of true love. Go for it.
2007-10-26 14:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i recently split with my bf who was 12 years younger than me , im 32 he was 20 , it was great at 1st , then futher down the line we wanted different things
but was a good 10 months and wouldnt change a thing , i enjoyed every minute been with him
age is just a number and if u are both happy go for it
sex was great lol
go for it girl !!!!
2007-10-26 14:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by misskitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't be I mean some women that are like in their 20's and marry men in there 60's so what's the big deal if he likes you and you like him the age difference shouldn't be a problem. And who cares what other people think if ur happy and he's happy then people should be happy for you even if they don't approve.
2007-10-26 14:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by nessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but I think that would just be a little too young. He cannot even drink in public yet. The heart wants what the heart wants though. Only you can really decide that. Good luck with this!
2007-10-26 14:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by vaya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt sound all that bad to be honest, aslong as he knows your 32 then go for it, he obviously isnt bothered by age, so you shouldnt shouldnt be either!
enjoy life! live it to the full!
dont worry what others think and most younger guys like the mature woman! =]
good luck
2007-10-26 14:24:50 · answer #9 · answered by Miss S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a mature 20 years of age go for it
2007-10-26 14:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by roost2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋