well am 22 and single, i was with few ppl just 1 was serious, and he cheeted.
so now am such a ***** with guys i like hurting them, i like when they look at me so i look back is if (i like u too), just to hurt them.
please dont be harsh to me as am not having sex or promising any thing, but i dont know why
how can i trust again
2007-10-26 07:11:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why should people go gentle on you?
you seem harsh enough. what you give is what you get.
2007-10-26 07:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes der is a problem, take professional help, nothing wrong or weak in it.
I hope wht I say will do u good. Be ready for a good guy to come by, if u like him and so does he like u, and things go fine, carry on, have an affair, be optimistic about the both of u, but if he cheats , he cheats, u cant do nething, Worrying bout it will take u nowhere.
Were u ever to scared to fall, so much tht u never tried walking.
2007-10-26 14:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LilyRose when the right fella comes into your life you will know instinctively that you can trust him. After being burnt we all need time to grieve the loss and as such it takes time to gain trust in a relationship again.
2007-10-26 14:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are punishing men in general becuase you're still hurt and angry at how you were treated. You need to move on from these feelings and realise the difference between This man and Men in general. Lots are cheaters but lots aren't. If you finally found a decent trustworthy man that you could love but you treated him like this then he'd no doubt move on so you'd lose a good chance of happiness.
YOu need to learn from this experience instead of perpetuating the effects of it by your behaviour.
Learn to guard your own heart...and to treat other's hearts with the tenderness they deserve
2007-10-26 14:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like all bad things that happen to us, it will take time to get over. Your still hurt so you get pleasure from hurting others.
Don't let this jerk who cheated on you destroy who you were as a person before you met him.
Learn from the pain your feeling and turn it into a positive not a negative. It will make you a better, stronger person if you do.
2007-10-26 14:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by Evol 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way to trust again is to have a relationship with someone trustworthy who doesn't cheat on you. This won't happen as long as you retain all this anger and bitchiness. Let go of your anger and fear and find someone to be with. THIS time pick someone who's good for you. Use wisdom instead of just your eyes.
2007-10-26 14:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all to do with self respect, yours hit a low when the guy you liked cheated. They really are NOT all the same, so stop giving yourself a name and them broken hearts and try trust again. Just go carefully ok? x x
2007-10-26 14:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by milly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop being such a biytch and accept you got hurt and that all men are not the same...let go of your anger and get on with your life.....be harsh with you...tsk...then please dont post such easy targeted questions...
2007-10-26 14:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if this will help you but you might need to have time with yourself without a man until you know what you want from a relationship untill then be you and dont worry about trusting men the right one will help you get over it my lover did
2007-10-26 14:29:08 · answer #9 · answered by criss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to quit being mean before it is too late. Okay, guys and girls cheat. Its freaking human nature. Same sh** happen to me but im living and trusting. You just have to realize life is too short to be complaining and whining and bitoching. Im sure you are a sweet girl.
2007-10-26 14:26:29 · answer #10 · answered by Water 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop taking it out on Innocent guy's, you have plenty of time to find someone who will want you and won't cheat on you. A lovely girl like you should not find it difficult to find a decent loving boyfriend.
2007-10-26 16:35:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋