2007-10-26 06:58:59 · 24 answers · asked by The Lost Elf 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What can't be cured love,must be endured love.
Sorry, but sometimes things don't work out, you just have to deal with it and move on. So many books and songs ave been written about exactly that situation - it happens quite a bit. Love can be cruel, and closure is really just a myth; find a way to move on.
2007-10-26 09:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by slipstreamer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Are you in contact with this person? Are they married? Are they single? Do they know you still exist?
How long has it been since this childhood you speak of? More than 10 years? More than 20? If so, I'd say move on and consider them a long lost love.
If your still in contact with them and they are single, tell them your feelings. It's never too late to take a chance on love.
2007-10-26 07:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by Evol 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then go look for them. If you don't know where they are then look at Friends Reunited to see if they've left their profile. But be prepared for the fact that they might be in a permanent relationship. If so, I'm afraid you're going to have to move on and find someone else to love!
2007-10-26 07:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by Chucksey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there sometimes it is hard to get over someone when they mean so much to you but you have to move on life is short and worth living and there is someone special out there waiting for you all you need to do is live again we need to go forward or else what good is our life living in the past good luck mate.
2007-10-26 09:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some closure with this person.
Try to locate him/her and find out about the current situation and go from there. Whatever you do get some closure!
2007-10-26 07:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by the girl next door 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
make a journal and write lots of letters about it. honestly it's probably escapist behavior (like watching a movie so you don't think about your real life). join some clubs and get more interests in the present. make movies, write songs and poems and stuff about the lost sweetheart. grieve and mourn. and deal with your current life.
2007-10-26 07:02:30 · answer #6 · answered by Sufi 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try to reconnect with them. Either you've never had closure or your heart is screaming something to you. You'll never know unless you find out. If you've lost track of them, try using Myspace or Facebook to find and contact them.
I hope you the best! :)
2007-10-26 07:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by BeLLa 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well one how old are you? if your over 30 then im sorry thats obbsession. but if your still a teen or young adult itll come soon. dont worry. i would get out in the field and play ball! there are so many people in the world!
2007-10-26 07:02:50 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Barbie♥ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Then there's something wrong in your life. Not crazy wrong, or anything like that. Something unhappy or not satisfied. There's something unresolved that has you looking backward instead of moving forward.
2007-10-26 07:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is taking up a huge part of your life you need closure. i think you should try to find out his address or email or even meet up with him for dinner. just to see what he is up to now and how his life is. that way you wont play the "what if" game with yourself. good luck.
2007-10-26 07:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by sugarpie 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋