This girl has sent me mixed signals for awhile. I helped her w/ career stuff (we're in b-school) & she asked me to dinner. At dinner she flirted heavily, but suddenly talked about her BF in a diff city, then asked about my situation. I said I'm single but she said I should go after girls who even have BFs, it's fair game. Then, she sent me a card from spring brk, but ignored my email when I asked her out. Wks later, she was flirty/asked me to dinner. I refused (I hate games) & we stopped talking. 4wks later, I gave in/said hi. Later that wk, at a party, she asked me to dance, we rubbed up on the dance flr, she said "I'd like to get to know you". But next day, at dinner she again talks about BF, says she's in love, but then says she falls out of love easily, acts disinterested & says "I'm a ball of sexual tension" - WTF? I got sick of it & didn't contact her for 2 mnths. Suddenly, she calls again, but when the phone tag ends, says her BF's in town. We haven't even kissed yet. Help!
2007-10-26 06:56:29 · 16 answers · asked by riddler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's playing games, if you're up for that then play along. But if you're looking for something serious, the girl is not the right one. You already know she can't stay loyal to a BF...
2007-10-26 07:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by ruby_alabar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. A person can't have their cake and eat it too.
Ask her point blank what she wants, her answer will let you know how you should proceed. No matter how stunning this girl is unless you find out for a fact where you stand with her and what else is going on.; and if you proceed you may be getting yourself into trouble that you don't bargain for.
Being flirty and playing games amounts to nothing unless it's gonna lead to something you both want....so why play games?
2007-10-26 07:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by dymps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore this girl, she has serious issues. She may or may not be lying about boyfriend, but the fact that she would even use such a ploy or encourage cheating is a really bad sign.
She may be stunning on the outside, but she's messed up on the inside. Don't waste your time!
2007-10-26 07:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude I can understand you..........Well I know what you're thinking.."she's a biatch..."
Anyway, she's playing some sorta games with you and doesn't seem like she all serious....
Well it's complicated...
I guess u gotta talk to her and tell her how u feel...
If she's not going toward a friendship and she's all about annoying u, then just forget about her and say goodbye to her.
Just explain to her!
Good Luck!
2007-10-26 07:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by Pro90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's full of insecurities.... stay away. And for the guys suggesting to have a one night stand and leave...sounds amazing. Man I love syphillis.
2007-10-26 07:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not interested, she just wants you to be interested in her. She obviously very much enjoys male attention and likes to gather as many 'admirers' as possible so she can feel secure and at ease with herself. Get away from her she just likes to be liked she doesn't want to like back.
2007-10-26 07:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by Jen . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't speak with her, she lives off drama and wants to create it everywhere she goes, she's immature, irresponsible, and very very loose from what it sounds like. You'd be smart to steer clear and DON'T get involved with someone like that. You're better than that, because you can already see that she's not worth it and she's trouble.
2007-10-26 07:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like she wants a back up bf to keep her company and have sex when her regular bf is not around. if you don't want to do that, then stay away.
2007-10-26 06:59:27 · answer #8 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You been Used !!! You going back and forth of Love Net!!
or you been had..... get girl who don't have a boyfriend...... good luck
2007-10-26 07:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by Afro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE IS A PLAYER!! DONT GO OUT WITH HER ANYMORE SHELL JUST BREAK YOUR HEART IN THE FUTURE BETTER PULL OUT BEFORE ITS TOOO LATE!! SHES STRINGING YOU ON... A BF IN ANOTHER CITY?? MAYBE SHES JUST TRYING TO MAKE YOU JEALOUS..??
2007-10-26 07:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋