Every guy I have ever dated turned out to be jerks is there any good ones left
2007-10-26 06:58:57 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes my sweet darling, there are some good guys left, we have the same problem with you ladies. we get married in good faith and try and live a decent life, only to be shafted by the woman who said she loved us. the thing to do is not to judge all men by one "burk". we try not to judge you ladies. but there are many decent people of both sexes, who have been hurt and are now defensive when it comes to relationships. its kinda hard, but my advice is, get back on the horse and finish the race. the winners are all those that finish by crossing the line at the end, doesn't matter if your last . the ones who go other ways, are often left behind and forgotten. good luck
2007-10-26 07:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by puzzeled UK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the same question many men ask about women. You might want to look at yourself as the primary source of your problem. Maybe you have set some requirements too high? Most guys will jump in the sack with a any decent looking woman, with no intention of making a commitment. For men, dating is a 10/90 deal, 10% of the men get 90% of the action. If your standards are too high, then you are setting yourself up for a lot of abuse.
Many women say, why should I settle for something less than what I want, but do not seem to think that men should have the same rights. If a guy has women coming at him from all directions, why should he settle for one girl, especially since he is hoping to find the perfect girl. The guy gives each girl a shot, and keeps moving on till he finds the right toe curler.
Those 90% of girls pursuing that top 10% of guys need to wake up and realize that if they really are looking for the right guy, they need to start looking in the lower 90%. The 10% of girls not pursuing the top 10% of guys are being pursued by the top 9% of guys, and are after the top 1%.
The lower 90% of guys are mainly looking for a date, although they too have their standards. If all your getting is drunken one nights stands, chances are you need to be more realistic.
2007-10-26 07:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by poet1b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes...it's a tedious process of separating the wheat from the chaff..or taking out the brown M&Ms..not rascist it could be green ones. Whatever. Be picky andd choosy but we are all imperfect don't turn your nose up at minor things we all have them or you will be a spinster. On the other hand if you meet a nice guy you have to be a nice girl.
2007-10-26 07:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are some good ones left, but you have to be looking in the "good places," and you have to be a "good one." A bar, nightclub, party or other late night hangout is NOT a good place to find a "good" one. The "good" ones go to church, do not drink, do drugs, have one night stands, etc, nor do they go out with girls that do. If you do those things or are looking at places where those things go on, it is likely you will not find a "good" one. If you live like this, clean up, start going to Church, give your live to God, and He will give you a "good" one.
2007-10-26 07:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by angel_nurse82 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm happy to say that yes the world still has a couple of great guys for us. Here is my biggest tip search for him in a church or school I learned that guys you meet at the bank, night club, bar or was with other guys turn out to be assholes. I met my bf at school and can't be happier.
2007-10-26 07:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by krixty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! There are loads! I'm sorry the guys you dated didn't treat you well. But ask yourself this question. Did you treat THEM well? Did you give them too much power over you?? If so, the problem might only PARTLY be the guys you are dating. Good luck!
2007-10-26 07:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE LOOKING IN THE WRONG PLACES THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU REALLY WANT AND WHERE YOU WOULD FIND THAT TYPE OF PERSON AT YOU WANT SOMEONE WHO IS FIT GO TO RUNNING PARKS OR THE GYM OR A GOLF COURSE. DON'T BE AFRAID TO ASK A MAN FOR HELP ON HOW TO DO SOMETHING JUST BECAUSE YOU ALL READY KNOW HOW TO DO IT THE BEST ADVICE,,,,
STAND UP FOR YOU SELF, DON'T BE A BI**H BUT DON'T BE A DOOR MAT EITHER
2007-10-26 07:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by mominpink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's actually true that most "good" men by the time they are 25 are usually already married or in a relationship that will end in marriage.
2007-10-26 07:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be someone out there but objected to be tied down or share in a relationship, But I am no atthority! It has taken me years upon years too to fine a woman to be with.
2007-10-26 07:14:22 · answer #9 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few good men are left on earth...just keep your head up and one of us will find you at the right time.
2007-10-26 07:01:55 · answer #10 · answered by none 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋