Does a married man ever leaves his wife for the woman he's been cheating with? If so, does that relationship last? What if the woman that he's cheating with leaves him alone, but he still chases her? What if the woman that he's been cheating with moves across town away from him, but he tries to get her to move back? Does he really care for her or what?
2007-10-26 04:05:32 · 26 answers · asked by W.O.W. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes a married man sometimes does leave his wife for the woman he's been cheating with. (Donald Trump did it, of course it didn't last.) If the married man chases the gal he has been cheating with he is in love with the chase. Does the man care for the woman who he is cheating with: no.
Here is my reasoning: the man is in love with the chase and not the woman herself. For whatever reason he is still married and wants to cheat on his wife. You are probably not the first woman he has cheated with and probably not the last. I suggest you get busy living life and eventually he is lose interest and move on to the next woman; or hopefully, his wife.
2007-10-26 04:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by avid_rafter765 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to trust a man who cheats. He will do or say whatever to keep the relationship convenient. Does calling, or asking to move back actually show anything except that he can use a phone and talk? He's married, he may say he's going to leave his wife, but you don't need to worry about if he cares for her because the way he is showing you how he cares, shouldn't be good enough. You can find yourself a 'real man' who treats you with respect.
2007-10-26 04:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't base a relationship on someone that you cheat with. The old saying goes once a cheat always a cheat! If you leave your wife for her she will just find another married man to be with! Well he has left his wife to be with her and she wants nothing more to do with him leaving his wife took the thrill out of cheating!! Does that make since??
2007-10-26 04:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by one_redneckmom 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a man cheats on his wife and she finds out of course she will leave him. if a woman he is with cheats on him, and she had a enough, then she wants to move and and try with another married men. if he wants her back then it is up to her to decide if she want to go back with him,. he does care for her,
i hope that helps.
2007-10-26 04:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally do not believe in divorce, and if the woman you married wasnt who you wanted to be with why did you cheat to begin with? why didnt you just split up? im not completely sure how much you care about the woman you are involved with outside your marriage or if you just want her around because she is used to this backseat lifestyle and you starting something new with someone else would be a waste of time that you have spent trying to build with this other woman. ask yourself, is this woman constantly living in dissatisfaction because she is not strong enough to stay away from a married man? ask yourself if you trully care for her, will you let her go try and start a real life for herself, and possibly become someone elses wife and not just a mistress. if you have to ask if its ok for you to leave your wife then you obviously have mixed emotions about it
and if you are second guessing yourself then your feelings cant be that strong for the other woman.
2007-10-26 04:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by brittmore07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation i had a ex that got married but we had an affair 8 years later and now he won't leave me alone i have tried everything moving, changing #'s, and he tells me loves me and wants to be with me... but i really think he is full of it... he is confuse about what he wants... he is the only one that can answer that... if he cares or not??.. but if he didn't care he would not keep coming back...
2007-10-26 04:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by lettie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A married man usually does not leave his wife for his mistress. I am not saying that it does not happen, but it is rare. If the mistress is trying to get away from the married man and he still wants her back it is usually because he wants his cake and he wants to eat it, too. Which means he justs wants you both. It is something that is lacking in his marriage and he has found it in you. That is why most men cheat because something is missing in their marriage. The mistress needs to stay away from the married man. Even if he does leave his wife for you he may cheat on you, too.
2007-10-26 04:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Sabrina T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of your first question: There is a big possibility that he will leave his wife for the other. He might have found true love to the other woman.
2nd question: Yeah! i have known a couple that stayed together for more than 10 years now and still happily in love.
and to your other questions. He's persistent to take her back means that she really cared and loved her. No contest to that.
Hope the above will clarify your anxities.
2007-10-26 04:34:23 · answer #8 · answered by poorguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's a lot of questions...yes, men do leave their wives for other women, no, it usually doesn't work out because the grass usually isn't greener on the other side, it just looks like it from a distance. If he still chases her after it's over, it's probably an infatuation and he won't realize that...he'll keep chasing.
2007-10-26 04:16:01 · answer #9 · answered by D C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
W.O.W. this guy sounds pretty confused if he is messing around to begin with. And to not realize that the woman he left his wife for doesn't want anything to do with him by her actions of moving away to get away from him. Does he really care for her who knows. He may feel that he left his wife for this woman and so she owes him, but this is false. She will probably tire of him eventually and/or he her as their relationship certainly doesn't sound like it began on very solid ground to begin with.
2007-10-26 04:12:51 · answer #10 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋