if i marry at the age of 22 will it effect me?

Question

iam a man of 22 years.....do u think in general if i marry at the age of 22 can it be more advantages or disadvantages for me..

Answer 1

I married at 21 then again the second time at 29. Looking back there is so much to do and accomplish in the early and middle 20's. It is different for everyone so tough to tell you what is best. I think it is a little young but it is the right thing for many people. Let your heart and your head direct you. God bless and good luck

Answer 2

the disadvantage would be that before you are thirty you have an ex-wife that you hate and child support. Take advantage of the situation now. Sex on a regular basis with no strings attached. There seems to be an ingredient in wedding cakes that takes the steam out of the sex. The women just don't want to do it much anymore. Enjoy your freedom without the chains.

Answer 3

well for men ( and i dont really mean all men) its more of a disadvantage.

i married when i was 18 and he was 22, and he soemtimes wishes that we had waited a lil longer(we got married after 5 days of knowing each other). he really is very mature, and i love him to death. but theres guy's like my lil bro, he has a kid and 1 on the way, and he still wants to wait till he is 45 (he's 21). i personally think that he will never grow up.

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Answer 4

That depends. Are you mature enough? Do you have a job and does she have a job? If she doesn't, can you financially afford both of you and in the event that she may become pregnant? Do you have a place to live? Do she and you have transportation to get from point A to point B? So really it all depends on how prepared are you. Marriage anybody can do that, but living is for the mature.

Answer 5

IMO, when it comes to getting married, age is NOT just a number. Grow up. Live life. Be sure the woman you marry is the only one you want to be with. Right now, you don't know that, cause you haven't experienced life.

Answer 6

It depends on the relationship. Can you see yourself with her in the next 50-60 years? 70 years? 80 years? There are so many people divorcing nowadays, myself included, that I'd make completely sure she was the one before I jumped the broom again. And divorce ain't cheap, buddy.

Answer 7

Depends on your goals in life, her goals in life and how supportive you are of each other. Marriage doesn't have to stiffle dreams. Just don't get her pregnant too early. Use condoms and/or make sure she is using some form of birth control properly! Some women like to get pregnant by 'accident', trust me birth control used properly is not likely to fail.

Answer 8

as a male, id say its too young. i got married at 20 and im a woman. im doin great. but really it all depends on the maturity level. no offense but, men dont really mature at 22. it is VERY rare. what i would suggest you to do is go to PREmarriage counseling. it should help

Answer 9

You dont sound american, so your culture may be different. In the US, you would be a fool to be married so young. Excellent chance that it is a divorce in the making or at least many years of misery. sorry to be so negative, but that is very young to commit yourself to one person.

Answer 10

this is a personal choice, and you really need to look at the pros and cons of marriage vs. no marriage.

and also discuss your ambitions, goals, finances, with your future wife.

this takes thought and planning. can't jump into something like marriage without talking, and setting goals.

take care.