2007-10-26 04:48:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, sounds like most posters here are ready to start a witchhunt.
I guess married men arent allowed to make compliments to other women in their books.
I will say this. If its sexual compliments he's making, and the comments are beyond innocent or just cracking lighthearted jokes, then yes, he shouldnt be doing this.
As for just an occasional compliment, i wouldnt be so appalled at it. I mean we are all men, married or not, and we notice pretty woman. A married man should never act on it, but an occasional compliment, as long as its not too much or too often, and tasteful, should be OK in my books.
Sexually though, should be taboo.
And for the record, i get compliments from amrried women all the time, and i don't read tons into it, and they are not doing anything wrong.
we're all still human...
2007-10-26 05:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by Kaboom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wise thing to do would be to let him know that you are not interested in his advances and sexual harassment. But if you play along with him and attempt to state that it is all in fun and jest than it most certainly not stop. You might also want to tell him to use these lines with his wife as she would appreciate them more then you.
2007-10-26 11:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You leave him alone. He's married. You don't want to get mixed up with a married guy. They usually don't leave their wives for the other woman, they just want them for playthings. You don't want to mess with a jealous wife either. Sometimes people get shot over things like that. Besides, if he left the wife for you, who's to say he wouldn't leave you for someone else?
2007-10-26 11:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by D C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell his wife! Pervert. That is so nasty and cruel at the same time. He has a wife who may or may not satify all his needs but i guess men will be men.
Beware of his intentions you will be a SIDELINE HO!!! Don't get involved your feelings will just get hurt
23 weeks it's a girl
2007-10-26 11:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by Natalie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You not not listen to him ignore his is disrecpecting his wife and you do not need to get involved in this situation. So ingnore him and don't talk to him again that is my best advice. Or tell his wife maybe he will stop flirting with women and get in big trouble.
2007-10-26 11:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by Lost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You remind him that he's married and made a vow to be faithful. You also tell him you're not interested in being a homewrecker.
He's a jerk.
2007-10-26 11:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him, "Thanks for the compliments, but out of all respect; I'm not that type of a woman. I have total respect for your marriage, and I wouldn't want my husband (if I was married) to do that to me. So, if you still would like to remain mutual friends, then please keep your comment to yourself."
Good luck!
2007-10-26 11:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by Cherry_Blossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you arent into married men and that you find it highly disrespectful to his wife that he would make advances toward you.
2007-10-26 11:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol become good friends with his wife so he will feel like you two talk to much for him to risk it.
2007-10-26 11:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by Kaela C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
politely say "thank you" but remember that he has a wife and if hes gonna cheat on her, he will cheat on you if you get involved with him.
2007-10-26 11:51:26 · answer #10 · answered by shanamoakler 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋