Family & Relationships - 24 October 2007

y, do u think this is the right way to respond to a person who loves to befriend u?

2007-10-24 07:46:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've got heaps of kids in my family and I want them there at my wedding. I'm after some ideas on how to keep them entertained so they don't get bored but also so their parents can have a great time

2007-10-24 07:46:12 · 12 answers · asked by Aljo 1 in Weddings

2007-10-24 07:45:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

please dont say mean things in response to my question...

Okay, so i am a teenage girl. i have never even kissed a guy and i dont have a boyfriend...a school dance is coming up this friday and im really excited and im going with my 2 best friends. we r going to straighten our hair and put on makeup and stuff. I get really nervous around boys but people (including guys) always tell me im beautiful. i dont have enough confidence to talk to boys, i get sooo nervous. i really want a boyfriend....please will someone help me. (im in 8th grade, by the way, if that helps at all) HOW DO I FLIRT????

2007-10-24 07:44:33 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 07:41:37 · 1 answers · asked by Success 1 in Singles & Dating

after that all i can think about is what happen. but we have been going out for over a month do you think we are moving to fast?

2007-10-24 07:39:19 · 11 answers · asked by Rosa M 1 in Singles & Dating

okay my sister is married right. But the guy that she married is no good and I know this for a fact. He acts as though he does nothing but I know differently. He tries to keep things on the down low but he's cheating on his wife so should i tell her or stay out of it?????

2007-10-24 07:39:06 · 28 answers · asked by Realer_than_Reality 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Most of teh answers I read made sense but there are still some morons that swear that 9 inches is "average". Do you people even know what 9 inches is? Take out a ruler and look? Medical studies and surveys show that average errect size is between 4 (small side) and 6 inches. Anything above 7 inches is considered large and pretty rare.

Again, look at a ruler before commenting!

2007-10-24 07:38:38 · 29 answers · asked by Smooth Lyrics II 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is a really great person and he is always there for me but when it comes to talking about feelings he is always quiet. He says that I should already know how he feels about me and that he shouldn't have to put it into words. What is the reason behind guys not opening up and being able to discuss their feelings if they are truly happy?

2007-10-24 07:38:31 · 31 answers · asked by Nicole 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean this is my first wedding to be in and I am already freaking out! Is this normal for the maid of honor to feel? Don't get me wrong I am honored to have this postion. Please anybody help!!

2007-10-24 07:37:03 · 13 answers · asked by Melba E 1 in Weddings

I met this guy a month ago.
He was a gentleman and I ended up sleeping with him that first night.He then told me he wasnt over his ex and stopped kissing me and was awkward.A week later he says he has to end this.Hes getting attached and falling for me.(and got angry when I said we were just sex anyway)
We talk about it and we decided were gonna be ok and he tells me hes getting over his ex.This last time it was a complete change.He wanted to just cuddle (actually said it was ok if we didnt have sex)
and he kept kissing me and played around and we just lied in bed all day snuggling and watching movies and when we did have sex he was romantic about it,not like before.We havent talked about it and its only been 3 weeks since the first time.
But hes acting like he has fallen for me.
Im falling for him too but Im happy with the way things are right now.Hes been getting jealous of my friends though and wants me to move closer to him. We both voiced our fears of getting hurt.Is it just sex?

2007-10-24 07:34:57 · 25 answers · asked by punkie2005 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife doesnt take care of me as she was having an affair before our marriage n left him as his family was not ready, we r married for 6 years but now i have realised that she's not worth for me as she's only passing time with me as i am rich, we have a 4 years old son, my mom n dad are 65 n 70 years old, they still work for the house, mom prepares food for all day n night but she doesnt helps her in that, mom n dad are getting down day by day n i am worried, i want a divorce now so that i can marry someone else who can care for them n for me, we r prepared if she takes the kid with her, i asked her for a divorce but shes not ready to leave the house, i cant stay with her n i decided with my mom n dad that i shud leave the house n live separately from her, i am now living in the same colony but separate from her, how can i get a divorce? i know that living separately for 6 months can help me, what shud i do after 6 months n how much time after that it will take in getting me the decre

2007-10-24 07:32:59 · 27 answers · asked by rahul s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he has made a "female" friend (he's a truck driver and claims she is too) and that they only talk on the phone. He said it's never been a sexual thing, only friends talking but, I know/knew about all of his friends but her. I had asked him about the name in his cell phone before and he said that "HE'S jsut a friend". So he'd originally lied about it before saying she was a man. I asked him why he'd not tell me about her and he said that he didn't think anything of it, that he didn't think i'd take it the right way (he's had female friends before and I did'n't care...i understand it's possible to be friends with someone of the opposite sex) What I got from the whole thing is that he was using her as someone to listen to him use me as a punching bag for his frustrations. He's the type of man that blames everything on anyone but himself and he's very burnt out on work and I can't work because we have too many kids that would need child care. Can't afford it.

2007-10-24 07:32:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husbands grandparents said that they would pay for our wedding cake. Up to a certain amount. So I bought the cake up to that amount and was expecting a check or something after the wedding. They approached my husband during the wedding and asked how much the total came to. Instead of telling them the amount he said "dont bother." ERRRGGHHH. It was expensive for us and I am still hung up on it. I would like them to pay but dont know how to get my husband to ask them. If thats not an option, how do i deal with my husbands poor choice?

BTW: this was 2 months ago

2007-10-24 07:31:31 · 33 answers · asked by enriquelomasa 3 in Weddings

When were in school we talk, laugh make eye contact alot, touches arm e.t.c however were virtually never alone, I really like her and i want to ask her out... how should I ask her out in a way that is subtle and doesnt put pressure on either of us? ie i DONT want read comments saying just go up to her and ask her out!! Thanks for all help=)

2007-10-24 07:30:44 · 16 answers · asked by Ziggy 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a annoying younger brother who i fight and argue with all the time, i dislike my brother but everytime someone else messes with him i get pissed off and protective; what should i do?

2007-10-24 07:29:06 · 6 answers · asked by Nina Amethyst 1 in Family

here it goes we started being bf and gf last aug when i came back from abroad i stay for about 3 months everything went well for both of us and i left again for work in abroad last november when i was there im calling him everyday 3x a day but he never called me there even once it always has to be me i dont know why he always take me for granted but the hell i love him then i decided to go home here again after 1 yr working i went back here i was trying to call him but he didnt answer yet im still calling him until he answer me he told me that he was to busy so he never got to answer my call i was just wondering hes not working he just stay home anyway we talked we agreed to see each other and talked but no one came im waiting for nothing i hate him but on the other side of me i still love him i dont know maybe i was just hurt so much i just wanna know whats wrong with me why he kept on avoiding me i just want a closure i dont want to be left hanging with no answer. what should i do?

2007-10-24 07:28:59 · 1 answers · asked by jhoan_anne 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a girl in school ( not in my school ) that i really like and I know her for like 5 years but we've been only close friends . I want to tell her that i love her. And I don't know if she even has a boyfriend !! What should i do ??

2007-10-24 07:28:07 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband thinks our marriage is fine, but I want out and dont know how to tell him. Normally when I tell him something is wrong he blows up and walks out and cusses. I just want to leave. My mom says I can not leave until I tell him because he can get me for spousal support for walking out. I pay for everything in the house and give him money. He does not help out with anything and is in the military. He rather blow his money then help with bills and thinks I can cover it all which I cant. Someone please help me. I am not sure how to go about this, I have never done it before and I want to get all my things I paid for and get out FAST!!!!!!
I live in VA if it helps.

2007-10-24 07:27:14 · 9 answers · asked by kryddlez 1 in Marriage & Divorce

let's say you are in a relationship with somone and they want to have a threesome...is that technically considered cheating?

2007-10-24 07:26:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems as though many of the people of yahoo answers advocate divorce, but as a person who believes in the vows I took it is hard for me to take that step. I have been married five years, with a four year old and one due in two months. My husband and I have been through numerous problems; cheating on his part, financial strain, the list goes on and on. We are in our sixth session of marriage counseling and have moved away from his side of the family to another state where my family resides. We are still arguing everyday, nonstop and can't stand each other. We moved here for a fresh start, but even though all of the terrible things he did in the past have stopped and he is more responsible and acting like more of a man, we still can't stand each other. 5 years, two children, I'm interested in people's opinions on how long we should keep this up?

2007-10-24 07:26:22 · 26 answers · asked by allie s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy 3months ago and we have been seeing each other 1/2 a week. I find it weird that he sold his house and went travelling a couple of years ago and now lives with his mum. He says he cant afford to get onto the property ladder or to rent a place. I have had a mortgage for my house for years and my son is in his teens. This guy I am seeing is in his 30's and seems keen to stay at my place but I don't want to give up my independence. I know it sounds mean but I would feel more comfortable if he was trying to gain his own independence first before things got more serious between us. He seems to have lived with his last 3 long term g/f and doesnt see it as an issue. Am I wrong to expect my b/f to move on from his mother.....

2007-10-24 07:24:42 · 21 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, well I was wondering what is somthing that can get your sex drive going better. My husband works out of town Monday-Friday. So I only see him on the weekends, and sometimes it just seems like it takes to much to have sex, and I just dont "feel" like it. And that doesnt make him happy at all! I want to be a freak, I want to want sex! Anyone have any ideas?

2007-10-24 07:23:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 07:21:22 · 10 answers · asked by shnitle 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 07:19:54 · 25 answers · asked by Raenell S 1 in Singles & Dating

but now she never does. We have been together for 2 1/2 years, in the first 6 months literally all the time, since we got married a year and a half ago twice. What do I do to get her to do it more?

2007-10-24 07:19:37 · 42 answers · asked by samualadams88 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not sure what that means? I have been told I am being too picky, but I have 3 kids and need to look after them and not just me... I have gone to bars but I don't want to meet a bar girl because , I am more of a family guy... I do like adventure and I am always on the go, I work alot and I don't want to settle, I want my soulmate this time, Is that wrong?

2007-10-24 07:19:36 · 6 answers · asked by JEFFREY L 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for 4 yrs. Im 27 shes 24. At first she wanted space, I kept insisting every few days, even wrote a letter. She broke up with me over the phone after the letter, I told her to meet a few days later, and she did. I told her it was screwed up doing that over the phone. I thought it was over, and she said she never implied that. I told her how I felt when I saw her, she didnt say much, just thought - she said she felt like something was missing. She was still wearing my promise ring, thought that was odd. I told her we can work things out and I will change some of my ways to get the sparks we had before. She said she just needs time to think, and is not sure. She left, its been 4 days no contact. I dont know what to do. I think she loves me still, but I am not sure. She still lives at home, her whole family loves me and I have always done everything with them, they even tried talking with her. I dont think she has told any other family. What to do?

2007-10-24 07:19:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am almost 17, she is almost 18. Well we met at church. In February when we were just friends we kissed out of nowhere. then we started a relationship that lasted about a month and she cheated on me with a 22 year old. She then went out with this guy for two months and said she still loved me and that she didn't know how she felt about me. Into July she kept me waiting for her and then she chose the older guy over me. Well in late September she told me she was sorry for everything she did to me and she never wants to hurt me again, she broke up with the guy she cheated on me with, and says she still loves me. Now we are just friends and she won't go back out with me because she wants to get closer to God, which I would be fine with if it were true because God has called me to the ministry, Im in love with God and live for him.... but I think she is lying and likes this 26 year old guy in church now.

2007-10-24 07:17:19 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is about a girl I care about. Her parents got divorced when she was five, and there are these two things (she's 27 now).

(a) She can't sustain an interest in anything for too long, including hobbies or relationships, and that's her biggest problem in life. Any ideas? (She doesn't want psychiatric help - she just wants some kind of starting point she can work on.)

(b) She has this nightmare that finds her waking up sweating: a burglar makes his way to her house and to her room. She pretends to be asleep. The burglar doesn't do anything to her. But he doesn't go away either. At some point in that tension, she wakes (sweating and with her heart beating way too fast).

Any ideas from any women - or even men? Anything at all to go by? I'm not usually emotional on Y! Answers, but I really care about this girl and want to help her!

Thank you for reading -

Der Wolfenmann

2007-10-24 07:16:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce