let's say you are in a relationship with somone and they want to have a threesome...is that technically considered cheating?
2007-10-24 07:26:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess not if you are both involved in it. I personally couldn't do it.
2007-10-24 07:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by ~irish~moon~star~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is having sex with someone other than your partner, but I don't think I would call it cheating..."Cheating" suggests something done on the sly, without wanting anyone else to know about it. With a threesome, all 3 people know about it, and everybody is getting something out of it. This is a one of the tougher questions I've tried to answer today!
2007-10-24 07:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, dishonest takes position once you do some thing without your spouse understanding about and they could be disenchanted in the experience that they chanced on out. if you're secretly seeing someone that you're drawn to, even if you do not have sexual relations individuals with them, then it truly is dishonest. you have to be dishonest your better 0.5 out of the interest that you're giving to this different man or woman. If the guy you're in touch with thoroughly accepts having a 0.33 man or woman in touch with you if you're having sexual relations individuals then you definately have not deprived them of a few thing. They understand what is going on besides as your intentions. in case your intentions are diverse than what you advised your better 0.5 then i ought to assert it truly is a few type of dishonest. A threesome, if executed for the right reason, is an unselfish indulgence. What I recommend is that the threesome should be about getting became on at how a lot relaxing your better 0.5 is having besides as doing the failings that excites your better 0.5 at the same time. in case your concentration is on having sex with the 0.33 man or woman or in simple terms getting excited at gazing your better 0.5 have sex with someone then you definately are not to any extent further fairly having the threesome journey. if you're in a courting and also you go with to ask somebody else to hitch you and your better 0.5 in a sexual act, then you definately might want to guage the 0.33 man or woman, for lack of a more suitable suitable observe, a residing respiratory toy. That way you do not get emotionally connected to that man or woman and also you concentration more suitable on your better 0.5's amusement. it truly is likewise why i do not evaluate it to be dishonest. If I did then each and every time we used a toy should be considered dishonest.
2016-10-22 22:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by kelln 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is. The definition of cheating is:
Cheat:
-verb (used with object)
1. to defraud; swindle
2. to deceive; influence by fraud
3. to elude; deprive of something expected
–verb (used without object)
4. to practice fraud or deceit
5. to violate rules or regulations
–noun
6. a person who acts dishonestly, deceives, or defrauds
7. a fraud; swindle; deception
8. Law. the fraudulent obtaining of another's property by a pretense or trick.
9. an impostor
So you can see, according to Websters to "cheat" is to defraud, swindle or deceive someone. If a married or otherwise committed couple both have a sexual fantasy that requires another person to accomplish, and both are in agreement on it, then there is no deception involved, therefore how can they be "cheating" on each other?
Cheating is when a husband or wife does something deceptively without their spouse's knowledge.
2007-10-24 07:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not really, as long as the other is involved in the threesome. if all parties are ok with the situation then how could it be considered cheating.
2007-10-24 07:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not cheating if all 3 people are fully aware of what's happening and they all 3 agree to take part in it.
However, I personally think it's a recipe for relationship disaster!
2007-10-24 07:31:54 · answer #6 · answered by Beth 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the rules you have established in the relationship. If you both agree, it is not cheating in my opinion, since cheating means you are doing something you wouldn't want the other one to know about.
2007-10-24 07:31:50 · answer #7 · answered by soelo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is when the other person has no idea what is going on behind their back. If both of you are involved in the 3some that is not cheating because you both of that consent of the other.
2007-10-24 07:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is a disgrace to yourself! Yes it is kinky, but it is cheating! Do you want some diseases too. It is bad enough that who ever he has sleept with, adds up to who ever they all have slept with, and the same for ourselves. Now do you want to add another odd ball in there and everyone they have had. Let's see how many diseases we can come up with this time... To me if my mate wants to have a threesome then he can go find the one to take my place cause what I have between my legs is my gold mine, and I only share it with one mate! The thought ticks me off!
2007-10-24 07:36:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If your SO is one of the others and all parties fully agree on what is about to happen, then I would say, "What happens in your bedroom is your business and no one elses!".
2007-10-24 07:30:28 · answer #10 · answered by Dan H 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
would depend on whether or not she wanted to have a threesome with two other guys and not you.
2007-10-24 07:31:40 · answer #11 · answered by Uncle Tim 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋