Family & Relationships - 24 October 2007

In 2nd grade - 4th grade, I had a crush on a guy named Zach and we were good friends. In 5th grade (I'm a sophomore now...yeah I know, sad), we went to different schools, but would see each other from time to time. I feel really pathetic that I still think of him so much and what's worse is that I've had dreams with him in them, and that I doubt I'll ever see him again or recognize him. What is the best way for me to get over a stupid fourth grade crush and move on?

2007-10-24 09:14:00 · 2 answers · asked by Kate K 1 in Friends

my bf of 7 months claims he loves me and never wants to hurt me, but yet he keeps talking to a girl i seriously dont like. and for a good reason too. :/

he texts her everyother day and says she is only his friend, and i find that HARD to beleive... he tells me i shouldnt be worried and im dumb if i were to get mad at him having a friend.

should i just drop it, and stop being so jelouse? or should i drop him for being an asshole?

i tell him it bothers me and makes me feel uncomfortable but he still does it.

what would you do???

WHERE DO I DRAW THE LINE?!?!?!!!

2007-10-24 09:13:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you are married in your opinion does your partner and kids become your new family (as in the ones that come first) and do your parents, brothers, sisters etc then become your extended family?
what would you do if your mum hated your spouse and your spouse hated your mum but you have always been close to your mum and you are getting ultimatums from both sides???

2007-10-24 09:12:48 · 39 answers · asked by gemma r 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this boy in my math class... he's really cute and smart which is a drastic difference from the other guys I've seen at my school. I'm so shy, and I smile too much and am completely passive so I don't see myself approaching him. I'm also a complete dork because yesterday I was having trouble on a class assignment and he leaned over me to show me where to graph the equation on the chart and I broke out into this huge smile!
I wore that smile for maybe.. fifteen seconds, followed by random giggles...
I'm just too shy to do anything, but I'm trying to break out of this little shell I've been woven into.
Advice?

2007-10-24 09:12:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I slept with a married man 1 month after I attended his wedding. I am now married and having my husbands baby and the man I slept with is now having a baby with his wife. We both are due around 2 weeks apart and we have attended each others baby showers. We are not best friends and don't speak often but I do know she considers me a friend. Should I tell her or let it go?

2007-10-24 09:12:29 · 92 answers · asked by bambi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

they're 17, and can drive. but im only 15. i know its illegal but i told them i would. they said we'd just go as friends and that they wouldnt try and get w/ me but im not so sure because theyve all said that im really hot and also kind of associate me as being very into guys, if you know what i mean. idk, should i trust them? please don't be rude because i know this seems pretty stupid of me but i still would like to know. oh and i only really know like 1 of them, the rest i just met, and there will be about 5 guys going...i think.

2007-10-24 09:11:35 · 20 answers · asked by Madison. 1 in Singles & Dating

I am recently divorced and I am a Christian am I crazy to think a man will wait till marrage for sex?

2007-10-24 09:08:31 · 8 answers · asked by nikis 1 in Singles & Dating

this friend of mine likes me and we played with each other for a time but then like 3 weeks my friend comes and tells me that she likes me at first id dont believe him but then her friends say that she likes me this is like one of the most asked questions in dis situation but what do i do..??? i rly dont wanna hurt her and its kinda awkward if i go bac and say nothing

2007-10-24 09:07:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I split up 6 years ago, at that time we couldn't afford to get divorced. My wife has moved several times and now I have relocated to another state. I now have money to get divorced but I can't locate her. Any ideas what steps I need to take to proceed without her?

2007-10-24 09:06:15 · 9 answers · asked by Help4me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy but he dated my best friend he really liked her but she broke up with him not because of me but she really didn't like him he was just a rebound to get over her previous boyfriend now she moved on and goes with another dude she fell in love with but the guy I like still has feelings for my best friend but my best friend would never get back with him I didn't say there wasn't a chance between him and I but do you think i could get a chance?
sorry if I left any confusion but please help me

2007-10-24 09:05:34 · 12 answers · asked by nicole 2 in Singles & Dating

Please help me ,i donno what to do my father is cheating on my mom and she knows it they talked aout it she cryes every day . But she doesn't want to revorse because of me they don't know that i know about that. I would like to live like happy family again but i don't know what to do !

2007-10-24 09:04:41 · 17 answers · asked by Stefan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got marriage license in June and ceremony performed in July. But the license that was signed by priest and witness was not turned in and it expired in September. Is there anything we can do? Or do we have to go to courthouse and perform ceremony again, this time at courthouse so it can be signed and dated on the same date?

2007-10-24 09:04:37 · 12 answers · asked by royboy 1 in Weddings

I'm 42 years old and divorced the prob is that when I was 29 I was pressured in being sterilised or loose my kids by the state I haven't remarried since cos of this I feel so guilty any one help me with advice? I love my kids 2 bits but cos of this I am not able to start a relationship let alone marry the guy if I do!
Serious and non offensive answers please this is really hurting me.
Thanks

2007-10-24 09:04:21 · 12 answers · asked by mandy r 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband always try to make me agree for swapping with his best friend. I have doubt either it would ruin our relationship or make it stron? We love too much each other and our maried life is happy. He told me to agree for just a thrill and fun in life. If anybody has experience please guide me.

2007-10-24 09:03:08 · 11 answers · asked by asd l 1 in Friends

he is 30, already had a problem, but 'supposedly' got himself cleaned up without treatment. main issue, no proof, but i watch his 18 month child, his girlfriend prefers not to ask questions, he has quit many a job, where is he getting his money...is he selling now? when i ask questions he cusses alot, tells me its none of my business. parents are basically in denial and ticked that i even mention law enforcement. what can i do...my niece deserves better!

2007-10-24 09:00:31 · 8 answers · asked by tk5398 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-10-24 08:57:18 · 36 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

another town to spend it instead with her mother? Would you say she's unhappy with her marriage, or just that she needs an inordinate amount of time away from him. Just a sidenote to this question, I have heard her make some rather disparaging remarks about the man...

2007-10-24 08:56:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im getting married soon and we ask family members if they would like to be a part of it by giving us a lil $$$ to have a big wedding, but i dont know how to ask my family members i dont know when is the exact time to collect $$$ the wedding is in april and im not pretty sure of how many people i can count on? does anyone get my?

2007-10-24 08:54:14 · 30 answers · asked by jessyka_g 2 in Weddings

Is it true that women do not like to watch porn?

2007-10-24 08:53:57 · 12 answers · asked by Crooked Johnson 4 in Singles & Dating

What kind of personality does she need to have?

2007-10-24 08:53:01 · 15 answers · asked by missprissy1004 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 17 years old.
my partner is 18.
were engaged to be married and
couldn't be more loved up with each other.
he gets paid 20,000 a year (so were
quite financial stable). im still
studying and intend to carry on till
the end of my course next september.

I want to show him how much i love him
and that im going to be with him forever.
This baby will be so loved and cared for...

is it the wright thing to do?
am i too young?
what will my mum and dad think?

2007-10-24 08:51:57 · 72 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 08:51:12 · 10 answers · asked by amy p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 08:48:39 · 9 answers · asked by shalishaFirst Nameshalisha G 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 08:48:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 08:47:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 08:47:10 · 13 answers · asked by Kimbre 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm about to turn 17 but I'm very mature. I like this guy thats 24 & I'v known him for a while. He likes me and i like him. We have a lot of things in commen and i am really attracted to him. But he's afraid of what people will say and getting in trouble. What do i do!!

2007-10-24 08:46:25 · 76 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

People on here seem to get all high and mighty on their moral soap box regarding this issue. Why can’t a cheater ever be forgiven? Isn’t a person allowed to make a mistake? Aren’t there worse things in the world a person can do?

2007-10-24 08:43:13 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, I'm having some relationship problems right now. my bf and i aren't fighting or anything, its just that lately i'm really territorial over him. there is this girl that touches his head and tossles his hair every time she sees him, and i don't really like it. he won't tell her to stop though, cuz he doesn't really care somehow. he tells me i shouldn't care either, but for some reason i just don't like that this other girl insists on touching him every time she sees him. she does other crap, like taking his stuff playfully, and to me it seems like flirting, but my bf insists she doesn't have a thing for him. she is just one of those people that i can't help but dislike. i asked him how he would feel if some guy touched me everytime he saw me, and he didn't really respond. i don't know why it bothers me so much. do you think i'm just insecure or something? i feel like i'm turning into a jealous b**** and i don't want to be like that. can anyone help? is there something wrong with me?

2007-10-24 08:40:41 · 4 answers · asked by c'est moi 2 in Singles & Dating

A month ago I hosted a bridal shower and bachlorette party for my friend. Well a bunch of the girls in the bridal party and that sent gifts to the wedding or shower received thank you notes. I still have not received one and my "friend" (she's not acting like a good on in my opinion), rubbing in how much she enjoys some of the other gifts and how she DIDN'T receive gifts from some guests after she shelled out tons of money to have them at the reception. Well Since I was a bm in the wedding I shelled out tons of money for the dress & what not, plus all the money for the shower & bach. party...No one else paid. I gave her a small bath salt set at the shower, and a silky robe at the bach, so I thought a nice card and picture frame would be good enough for the wedding. I would have assumed the partys to be a good enough gift if it were me. Because I was in the bridal party should I send another gift. She keeps bringing up what items she didn't receive off her registry?

2007-10-24 08:39:32 · 21 answers · asked by !s@b3l@ 1 in Weddings