ok, I'm having some relationship problems right now. my bf and i aren't fighting or anything, its just that lately i'm really territorial over him. there is this girl that touches his head and tossles his hair every time she sees him, and i don't really like it. he won't tell her to stop though, cuz he doesn't really care somehow. he tells me i shouldn't care either, but for some reason i just don't like that this other girl insists on touching him every time she sees him. she does other crap, like taking his stuff playfully, and to me it seems like flirting, but my bf insists she doesn't have a thing for him. she is just one of those people that i can't help but dislike. i asked him how he would feel if some guy touched me everytime he saw me, and he didn't really respond. i don't know why it bothers me so much. do you think i'm just insecure or something? i feel like i'm turning into a jealous b**** and i don't want to be like that. can anyone help? is there something wrong with me?
2007-10-24 08:40:41 · 4 answers · asked by c'est moi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope nothing wrong with you. This is something that you should tell her or have your bf tell her. Just explain that you really dont like her to do this. Hopefully she will understand. It wont stop all by its self. Something must be said.
2007-10-24 08:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by someone in Nebraska 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, nothing is wrong with you - you're normal. Just ignore this girl, remember that you have the guy not her. This girl is just trying to make you mad - I personally would call her out on this. But you're asking..."How do I do that?"...well when she does it...just say..."must you do that all the time John is around"...(ok John was a made up name)...but you get my drift don't you?
Don't be jealous, cause your boyfriend is sensing this, and he might try and make you jealous by doing something stupid. Just be strong and don't let her bother you...remember you have the guy.
Good Luck sweetie!
2007-10-24 08:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by Wanna-be-Dear-Abby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I'm not alone..... I have the same problem but mines with my best friend always flirting with my boyfriend......If somehow you could contact me I would ove to talk to you and compare notes to make sure im not going insane.....
2007-10-24 08:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by LostGal19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is wrong for her to do those things and he is not stopping her because he like it and/or her too. you should tell him to ask her to stop because it really bothers you.
2007-10-24 08:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋