OK, here's the situation. a girl marries a guy. She's based abroad, he's not. He's had prior "experience" she has not. They were together a week, then she goes back abroad, and he stays in India. When she gets home, she's advised to go back and stay with her husband. She doesn't care for India, but is willing to begrudgingly go for the sake of her marriage. Her husband says not to come. There's nothing wrong in the marriage, but he knows her distaste, and how bored she will be. She asks him how he'll deal with his "frustrations" she's looking for ideas. He says he'll just deal with them by himself. She asked how he dealt with them prior to marriage...he said he's had help. She asks how he can deal w/o her or anyone now in marriage, when before, he needed others. He just says he deals and is faithful. What should she make of this? Mature answers welcome. I'm just not sue how a guy who's had relations before marriage can go w/o after marriage. Any thoughts and input welcome. thankls.
2007-10-24
07:11:09
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Uncertain Soul
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Marriage & Divorce