Family & Relationships - 24 October 2007

well im 15 and my family know's this family, we're very close, almost as close as we are to our normal relatives. Well one day we decided to go to a holiday resort together. Our family friend's daughter is my friend. She is about my age. One night we all went to sleep, all the kids in one room [me, my friend, my brother, my sister]. My friend is very close to her dad aka she's a daddy's girl anyway she's used to him patting her to sleep [normaly on the foot] and so he did that to me as well so that i'd go to sleep. He patted both of us but after 30 minutes he was only patting me, after awhile instead of just patting my foot he went a bit higher up my foot, and he went up to my thighs and started to feel them, he thought i was asleep, his wife came in and he quickly slipped his arm out from my thighs and said he was only putting us to sleep. I think he was a little bit drunk as well, he had drunk some beer with my dad earlier. Normally he is very nice but now im scared, what do i do?

2007-10-24 22:06:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Meaning the courts. I read that normally the husband loses the house, car, and kids. Although he is also the one who paid for all the materials in the first place. Is it fair?

2007-10-24 22:06:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 22:05:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i have known each other for a year now and we have a healthy relationship. The problem started when we started to make out and be involved in heavy petting. I feel really guilty about it as my family is strongly against pre-marital sex. This problem created a gap in our relationship as i'm always trying to pull away from my boyfriend. Is it wrong to have pre marital sex at the age of 20? My family has always taught me about being a pure woman with strong values and pride. My mother especially taught me to keep my virginity till i'm married but i do love my boyfriend. Help please, i'm in a dilemma.Thank you.

2007-10-24 22:02:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It’s my mistake that I consider her an innocent and noble girl.
I love her very much and of course too possessive for her.
After some time she tell me her past two love affairs and swears that nothing remains illegal in her life. After 3 year when I planned to marry her, she again clears herself by telling a horrible sex rap on her. Without knowing her involvement I just trust and forgive her past sins or mistakes bcz she also loves me very much.
But it’s too much.....
Being with me she again flirt a guy and accepted her guilty before me. It becomes a great shock for me when I prepared everything to marry her. I take it sensitively and explore her more and succeed to get 2 more love affairs.
She begging me for her life but I am too much careful and sorrowful now. It seems that she will die without me.
Just 2 months remains in our dream life.
But now I am scattered with tension. plz help me...

2007-10-24 22:01:39 · 7 answers · asked by aapkafaheem 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i`m the only single 16 years old girl, all my friends have their boyfriends , i missd the feeling of having a boyfriend. i`m so depressed & feeling lonely......... so what does the problem seem?

2007-10-24 21:55:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy. He keeps staring at me and when I look his way he pretends he is busy doing something. He always write notes to me, that says.. " Hi how was your weekend?" or "How have you been?". He always comes up to me and say hello. Sometimes when he see me, and I look at him he pretend that he didn't see me. Do you think he likes me? And what should I do?
Thanks for reading! xox

2007-10-24 21:53:50 · 15 answers · asked by Rochelle 1 in Singles & Dating

Have u cheated on your partner ????? If so did u tell them ,keep it quiet or tell them but make up some story why it happened

2007-10-24 21:46:55 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 21:46:26 · 24 answers · asked by yuyu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can not sleep, I work second shift part time and it is so hard to wind down. When I got home I looked in my 6 yr olds bag to make sure my husband helped him w/ his homework. What I saw really irritated me. I guess he has been seeing the school therapist cause there was a book they made together about what a councelor does. Last week the school took it on themselves to give our small town food bank our name and address, my husband gets $13 an hr doung road construction, I go to school part time and work part time. Money is tight as can be expected when buying a home and paying debt that my husband had before we met 5 yrs ago. My son gets reduced lunch so I was patcient w/ them for giving our name to charity, even though we will not take it. But they never told me he was going to see the therapist. Both my kids are great happy souls. They are well taken care of, clean, good manored and happy. They rarely give me trouble and think I walk on air. They know they are loved and tell me

2007-10-24 21:36:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

life, and more importantly, your future spouses life and make their dreams (job/kids/education/ etc) fairly impossible, would you still marry them (assuming they still would be willing to marry you), or would you release the person from the engagement?

2007-10-24 21:12:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband and I are trying to have a baby. We live on our own, and do not ask anyone for any kind of assistance. We have been together almost 7 years, married for 4 months now. My problem is, I have recently found out he does now want his mother to know we are trying. He lies to everyone who knows her when they ask when we are going to have a baby. I am so hurt by this. She and I have never gotten along, because she considered me trailer trash and to young. ( we are 3 years apart) I am afraid I may be over reacting to his not wanting to tell her, but I can't help it. He says he doesn't want to hear her complain about how we aren't ready when he doesn't care what she thinks. Am I over reacting, or does this seem like some kind of red flag? What would you do in this situation?

2007-10-24 21:11:42 · 7 answers · asked by Sammie Jo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She has an alarm clock radio, sets the alarms on two cellphones, and has me begging, pleading and threatening her. Whatever I do, however, it is still impossible to get her out of bed before 8 am. Help!

Please don't suggest throwing a bucket of water over her. She has a very powerful right hook ;-)

2007-10-24 21:09:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 20:49:33 · 33 answers · asked by Jeff J 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 20:47:00 · 61 answers · asked by hunni!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

Like, if you had a bf; would you mind that he looks at women on the TV(if they where naked)? Or if you where a guy and you had a gf, would it be approprate for her to look at other guys (on TV) and vise versa except about in real life?


Like, what are the boundries (especially for a womans perspective) in a relationship?

Could I get some really good feedback ;_; Any opinion is appreciated ^_^ /bow

2007-10-24 20:41:30 · 9 answers · asked by Aubrey C 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 20:40:11 · 3 answers · asked by PenalTomcat 2 in Singles & Dating

my husband doesnt see that his mom
is trying to make us get a divorce
he doesnt even want to talk about it
how can i get him to see the proublum?

2007-10-24 20:39:30 · 12 answers · asked by cher 5 in Marriage & Divorce

does anyone else have a crazy family member
who gets on your last nerve ?

2007-10-24 20:36:49 · 9 answers · asked by cher 5 in Family

I am thinking of giving up but I just love him so much and it is so painful thinking that I will lose him.We are living together now coz we are working abroad. The reason why I worked abroad is because I have a very irresponsible husband which gambles and drunk almost everyday. Our family does not know that we have committed an adultery. What will i do?

2007-10-24 20:34:17 · 21 answers · asked by charlo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 20:33:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 20:30:53 · 6 answers · asked by sunil a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

iam 22 years old and I've been with my husband since i was 16 years old, we have two kids 4 and 10 mnts old. i guess you can say are marriage is OK, well it is. my husband loves me soo much, so sweet to me, respects me. but for some reason iam not attracted to him any more, when he trys to kiss me, i push him away, when we have sax, i don't feel anything. the only way i can have an orgasm is if he goes down on me, and he does all the time, he doesn't mind. but its me, i don't know what i want. iam i just being selfish. or could it be that i don't love him anymore. iam always lusting for other men. its like i want a stable marriage, cause i know with him i have that, but i want to have sex with other men too. i know its wrong for me to think of this and worst to even do it. but what should i do, iam driving myself crazy. help me, what should i do, i really need help. i know this is wrong, but i want to be happy.

2007-10-24 20:27:08 · 10 answers · asked by una_pinche_culera 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I talk to fat girls?

2007-10-24 20:22:54 · 27 answers · asked by James J 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been together 1 1/2 yrs and he used to buy me flowers and do little things all the time. He also used to want to discuss big topics. About 6 months into our relationship his father died and since then had occassionaly done things but now he does nothing. When I told him I need these things as I am always doing little things for him and need to feel loved he said he loves me but he is scared. He admited I was right yet still does nothing small. All he wants to do is sleep and watch tv , sit with me and think about what he wants to buy or travel to.In the beginning he used to tell me to stop being so scared NOW he is scared.!! He pushed and pushed till \I fell deep in love.He says he doesn't know why and that he is in his own head. He never wants to talk about big stuff or do anything for me that is nice or romantic. No more sex really either. He said I need to initiate more and then when I do he turn me down. Is he just not into me ? Should I dum p him? He is 29 me 33

2007-10-24 20:21:34 · 4 answers · asked by vixlc 2 in Singles & Dating

I would never ever ever, but i am just wondering.

2007-10-24 20:18:37 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey (im on my wifes acount thingy) but i was hopping that someone on the website could help us spice up our sex life. the sex is great but its the same old thing over and over. any sugestions

2007-10-24 20:16:45 · 6 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Singles & Dating

bisexual meaning could be man or woman sex partner and can be done at thesame time. im married with two sons and i have sex with this guy who is also married few months back that i discover im bi. whats wrong with it..coz im cheating my wife and he cheating his wife?? that very true but im bi meaning i can have sex with both sexes as long as i do it in deffirent time and discreetly and safely. whats your thoughts about this issue..how cud i be bi if i dont have sex with both sexes??

2007-10-24 20:16:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We don't have a large budget and we're having our reception at a restaurant that has a full bar. They won't allow us to close off the bar so we were thinking about paying $500.00 for the drinks and once that money is used up people will have to pay for their own drinks. What's your thoughts?

P.S. My husband to be, me, his parents and my parents don't even drink!

2007-10-24 20:15:27 · 20 answers · asked by Ash 5 in Weddings

y is is that when i get a new guy my ex talks to me more?? but when he knows weve broken up he dont??

2007-10-24 20:12:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating