How do I talk to fat girls?
2007-10-24 20:22:54 · 27 answers · asked by James J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the fact that so many girls are defensive bout this Q. prove= so many fat girls in this site.
2007-10-24 20:31:19 · update #1
I'm Fat. I'll proudly admit it. I'm comfortable in my skin tho. How do you talk to us tho? Like everyone else. We're not special because we've got more to us. Just be careful with the ones that are uneasy about thier weight... if they're not comfortable with it just try not to use the words fat around them.
If you're interested in them because you want a chick with more cushion for the pushin, don't out right tell them you're a chubby chaser. Its a turn off because then we think, "Oh great, he thinks i'm pretty, but still thinks i'm Fat..." Tell her you like her smile or that she's got really great eyes. Anything but her body style til she's comfortable with you.
If its just because you have some friends that are heavy and have no problem but feel uncomfortable talking occasionally... Then just avoid mentioning a body type. Avoid mentioning how good someone looks around them.
If they're like me and they're awesome in thier own skin... call them fat and joke about it all you want.
2007-10-24 20:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by Insomniac Tryin to Help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything under the sun, what makes it different to talk to fat or thin ones? Start a friendship conversation about thier day, current issues, entertainment, pets, and if you want to about food, if they are confident about how they look , it won't bother them at all any topic, except of course for insults, which I think if they are not sport enough will make them pissed off.
2007-10-25 03:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by Krizia ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your usual self.
Remember a gal is gal. So be decent and sincere whether the gal is fat or slim. The person is important and not the physique.
Personally I have found fat ones very pleasant to converse with i.e. if you are real nice.
2007-10-25 03:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by Nitin G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think you have to talk to them any differently to any other girl whether they are tall, short, thin, fat, black, white. I suppose you think you are Mr perfect what about all you fat boys out there how do we talk to you, go up to them and offer them the biggest double burger in the world.
2007-10-25 03:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by doris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a pig if you asked this question just so you could add that.
And how can you even draw such a conclusion?
Just because a girl is fat, doesn't make her a different species!
Ugh.
2007-10-25 04:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by ticklememay0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, thats a hard one...
But if I had to make a guess...
I SUPPOSE LIKE A NORMAL PERSON??
Maybe give that a try...
Instructions:
1) Open your mouth
2) Make a noise
3) Use your tongue to turn those noises into actual words!
With a few years of practice, you should eventually get the hang of it!
2007-10-25 03:27:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same as you talk to the other normal girls........she is fat means you shouldnt talk to her or it makes any difference no na .....she too is like a normal human beig ok treat her in the same way as you treat other girls
2007-10-25 03:30:27 · answer #7 · answered by madhu 4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same as you'd talk to slim girls. Obviously.
2007-10-25 03:25:14 · answer #8 · answered by †100% Angel† 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like any other girl. Big girls aren't a different specious.
2007-10-25 03:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by SnowLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take chocolate cake iwth u. offer her teh cake, and then talk.... she wont say anything cuz she'll be eatinga nd u will have better chance of getting ur point across
2007-10-25 03:35:47 · answer #10 · answered by lirpa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋