Family & Relationships - 24 October 2007

I am of age...I can afford it...I am mature enough to...

They were overprotective...and wanted me to go to school for something I didn't want to do...they don't seem to trust me, even though I have never partied or betrayed their trust until starting to move out...I told them last night...and they got so upset that I thought they were going to hit me, so I left...

but now I feel guilty...and irresponsible to have just left, with dumping it on them and leaving...at the time it felt like the right thing to do...but now...I don't know...

Advice? Personal opinions? Options?

2007-10-24 17:35:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

From time to time she will ask me to help her move things that are to heavy for her being that she lives by her self. The only problem is the last incident we had was she knocked on my door with a house coat on, and the only thing that she was wearing under it were boy shorts, and a tank top with no bra. She asked me if I could help her put her curtain up, and the whole time I was distracted by her lack of clothes. Is it safe for me to say that my neibor is trying to get me to notice her, or am I reading into it too much. My wife was very upset that she knocked on our door with her housecoat on with minimum clothes under it. I am confused!!!!! Pls help!!!!!!

2007-10-24 17:34:52 · 28 answers · asked by Boogie27 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My buddy dated a girl for two weeks and then she cheated on him. Now he still follows her around like a puppy. it's so embarrassing. How do I tell him to get over it without hurting his feelings? Everytime we hang out, all he talks about is her. Ughhh...

2007-10-24 17:28:22 · 5 answers · asked by Fresh 1 in Singles & Dating

all the girls dig a holes maniacs jerks and losers? i mean, they always call some asshole guys bad names, but are they just inferior because of moral reasons? what if someone was a complete low down dirty disrespectful scumbag, but still had a superior intelligence? what do you think?

2007-10-24 17:26:19 · 1 answers · asked by Tim M 1 in Singles & Dating

i am an mma fighter and am in great shape. my girlfriend who i have been with for 2 yrs is getting overweight. i love her and will still stay with her no matter what but she needs to work out. i try to have her work out with me but all she does is sleep in every day. when i first started seeing her she was thin as ever. i think she is just very comfortable with me, she doesnt have to worry about work or money cause i take care of her. everything is just better when we were both thin, sex, pictures, etc...what can i do that doesnt hurt her feelings? by the way she has never had a kid if thats what you are thinking.

2007-10-24 17:22:21 · 75 answers · asked by pitmonster 3 in Singles & Dating

I just turn 17 in august I am the only child my mother treats me like a 10 year old. I live in newyork so after skool I want to hang with my friends and walk around in the mall but no I can't I have to stay home. I think that she thinks that I'm irresponable I have not done anything bad that she can't let me go out or hang with my friends . My cuzzin is 14 she gets to go to the mall with her friends ... for example I was at my aunt house and I was at my friend house across the street and she was going to the store she calls me to tell me she wants me to get in the car with her and the store is just up the block. I just want to know what should I say to her.

2007-10-24 17:17:08 · 7 answers · asked by Mz.Single90 1 in Family

2007-10-24 17:16:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After work my husband has beers with his construction coworker guy friend a few times a week but what pisses me off is he wont answer when I call his cell phone! He makes excuses like It was turned off or he didnt have it on him or hear it. Im being cool about letting him stay out with friend but I get so upset when he doesnt answer expecially since Im pregnant and close to due date! Its 9pm and I havent seen him since he left at 5 this morn. I just lectured him 4 not answering earlier he sounded buzzed and he said he was sorry but I just tryed calling again and same ol story, no answer! What can I do to get it through his head that this is wrong and annoying! Should I be worried?

2007-10-24 17:07:54 · 18 answers · asked by Luv4Nevaeh 3 in Marriage & Divorce

There is dis new guy in ma school n hes really cool. i think i lyk him alot n im pretty sure he lyks me too cuz hes always flirting wit me n hes alwasy sayin that he loves to spend time wit me. The problem is my friend lyks him too. ive asked a good friend of mine n dey said i should still go out wit him b/c u i cant do anythin bout it if he lyks me back. but do u think i should wait till ma friend gets over him. Dis paticular friend shes always lyked the same guys i lyk but lyk she really really lyks him n dey always end up lyking me. Shes been askin me if i lyk him n i keep lieing to her. and shes told me that she doesnt want competition in tryin to get him cuz she thinks im goin to get him. WUT SHOULD I DO HELP!!!! Plz try to answer as quick as u can since he is already trying to ask me out.

2007-10-24 17:07:08 · 12 answers · asked by janet556 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf and i have been together for about a year and jsut the other day i found a bag of condoms on the side of his bed even thogh we dont use them..he and i havent kicked it for already 5 saturdays. well last saturday his phone was off all day. he didnt pick up the home phone. he lives real close to me and i walked by and the lights were off but the tv was on....i called him the next day and his phone was still off. i call the house and he picks up being all sweet to me like nothing happend...he said he was home....then why did he charge his phone?why didnt he pick up the homephone? i dunno i talked to him the next day and he still didnt want to c me even tho he always does...on monday he says hes been cheated on and will never do it to me...help me please...he thinks im stupid!!!

2007-10-24 16:57:55 · 19 answers · asked by lovebug 1 in Singles & Dating

Alrigh here's the scoop, I didn't have much of a life growing up and was horrible in school and nobody could figure out why, so i'm not a very smart guy but I know how to treat a woman like a queen, also at age 29 i'm suffering from memory loss and docs cant figure out why, my gf hates it and cant stand my stupidity when most of the time I only mean well in what I do and others i'm just dumb and don't know. I never get a i'm sorry, how was your day, hi when I get home, excuse me etc. I feel like a ghost in the house, what should I do?

2007-10-24 16:52:08 · 20 answers · asked by tuff5469 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents got divorced 18 years! It was a bitter divorce and my mother has resented the fact that I have choosen to have a relationship and get to know my dad as the "new man" and I have a very positive relationship with him! My mom has never even seen him in 18 years, and was pissed when she found out he bought a house for 1/4 million dollars in Colorado!?

My Mother missed my high school graduation, my wedding, my son being born, and my college graudation because my father was there...why do I have to choose...and why is she being so lame...I'm 27 years old now and I've had my own divorce! I walked in on my ex husband sleeping with the neighbor lady after I'd been gone for a week because my sister was dying and wanted to be with her...and I'm still not that angry with him.

I know I can't change her feelings towards my father, but I would really like to figure out how to get her to stop bad mouthing him in front of me and my son. Any ideas? And flat out saying so hasn't helped

2007-10-24 16:51:27 · 11 answers · asked by washington_maverick 3 in Marriage & Divorce

umm i like this guy, he goes to my church school and my regular school, he talks to me smiles to me and actually holding my hand. my friend dared me to come up and hug him, and so i did. i just say, "are you my friend?" he replies, "yeah" and then i was like can i have a hug, and he said, " i dont usually give hugs but ok" then he gave me a hug. we made eye contact and stuff, but i dont know what do you guys think? [i kinda like him too]

2007-10-24 16:50:53 · 18 answers · asked by Lina ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

So, there is the completely wonderful guy I've known for a year or so....the catch is...he has a girlfriend who he's been with what seems like forever. It seems like he's just with her because he feels sorry for her. I mean, they close to never talk. I'm so in love with him, I've never felt this way about someone. I feel like it's the right thing, but people tell me to just stop. It's like you can just stop numb yourself or stop loving someone. I don't know what to do anymore. Help?

2007-10-24 16:48:37 · 31 answers · asked by cfg-osu1@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 16:48:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

As my wife of ten years no longer desires me, I plan on going out to find some piece of a$$ that wants to go at it all night. And before you answer all about never cheat and all that b.s., I don't want to hear it. You haven't been through my hell. I just gave a 40-minute foot rub that put her to sleep, and then she went to bed. No rub back, and I don't mean my feet.

And no, I'm not going to get a divorce before I do this. That would take too long. I don't want that hassle. As a married man, I just want to get laid. So, what I really want to know, and prolly from guys is, should I set some standard? Should I only hook a slap-on-the-back-from-the-guys kinda babe (which obviously might be a little more work), or should I go with a non-ugly kinda cute girl, with nice T&A? Or should I hook up with the first non-male that wants to?

Especially from dudes who've cheated, or just some single guys out there, do you set a standard?

Thanks.

2007-10-24 16:47:31 · 21 answers · asked by lovinglifeina69 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 18 and i was just wondering if some older woman might find that to be too immature and inexpeirenced for them. Hey you can always teach me;)
http://www.agelessfriends.com/blog/badboy2012_/am_i_too_young__61020.html

2007-10-24 16:43:39 · 25 answers · asked by windy w 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean that real love, that love at first sight, that I no your my soulmate.

2007-10-24 16:42:37 · 4 answers · asked by wise d 2 in Singles & Dating

Well right now IDK if I am or not. I guess im being paranoid but Im worried. Im 18 Im still with the same guy and we have been together for almost 6 months. Were planning on getting married. Weve known each other since our 9th grade year in High School. My parents love him (they've NEVER done this with ANYONE else) I love him soo much and I KNOW hell be there for me threw it all but hes worried bc him and my dad got close and he doesnt want to let him down and I dont want to let my daddy or mom down either. And before any1 starts saying IDK what love is then I dont want ur help. I am mature enuf to be doing mature adult things but if u only knew my mom ud be scard too. If i was 30 and moved out id still be scard to tell her. but PLEASE all young mothers and mothers that got PG young PLEASE lemme know sumthing!

2007-10-24 16:42:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a 28 year old male and I still live at home with my family (by choice). We (parents and other adult siblings) all get along great and it doen't cost us (the kids) a dime! A common criticism I hear is that I can't bring a girl home at night. Um, why would I do that, unless I were married. I have no interest in having sex before marriage, so that is clearly not an issue. I have never had a girlfriend yet as it is way to early for relationships ( I didn't get around to that first kiss yet either!). I want to get a better job and finish my MA first. Another thing I hear about my living home is that I probably live in the basement. Um, I live in the house with everyone else and I have my own bedroom. That's enough. Why do people my age, especially women have to be so condescending to me? Could it be because they are extremely jealous of my decision to save money and remain single until ready? What do you think????

2007-10-24 16:39:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 16:37:44 · 5 answers · asked by seafish 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 21 hes 27. we meet on myspace. we only talk on yahoo messenger while he is at work. and all we have are hook ups. when i see him in person its only for a hook up so i don't want to ask him to come over and him think that he is going to get some and end up i just wanted to break up with him. I trust him when i talk to him and i care about him so much but i don't know why but i alway doubt him when i'm not talking to him. maybe deep down i know that he is just playing me but i just don't want to be alone anymore. but hes works all the time, he doesn't have a cell phone or a house phone. I do have trust issues with everyone i don't even trust my family. so i don't really know what to do. Back to my question How bad would it be to break up with him on yahoo messenger? what do you think i should do? any thing would help a lot!! I'm so confuesed.Thank you for any help you give.

2007-10-24 16:35:15 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know if it's right. Everyone always says that they like someONE, but right now I couldn't ever say that and be honest. I actually like a few different guys.... Is that okay? Why is/isn't it okay? When a good friend asks me who I like, how do I explain that to them without getting embarassed? Who should definitely and definitely not know about this?

2007-10-24 16:33:56 · 5 answers · asked by Drinking from a broken glass.... 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom has slept next to every boyfriend she has dated, yet her excuse for me and my boyfriend not being able to sleep next to each other is "Only married people sleep next to each other". My mom has a horrible temper, and it's easy for her to fly off the handle, so I try not to argue with her every time she says no. I love him a lot, and would do anything to wake up next to him once in a while. I'm slightly confused because she let him sleep next to me while she was gone on a trip, but now that she's back, it's a "no-no". I know it has nothing to do with religious views because she isn't religious. If she already knows that we're sleeping together, why can't we sleep next to each other?

2007-10-24 16:32:51 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My roommate never cleans room,and I did it every time.That's enough! why he don't fulfill his duty.the live room is for us.not just only me.

2007-10-24 16:30:44 · 17 answers · asked by Nelly 1 in Friends

i got a bf which is younger than me......

2007-10-24 16:30:18 · 4 answers · asked by syaz 1 in Singles & Dating

By poor social skills, I mean shyness. It's hard for me to open up to people, it takes a while. Guys always seem to notice me, but get turned off by my being quiet.

2007-10-24 16:28:21 · 11 answers · asked by lovebird 3 in Singles & Dating

HI WAS UP MY NAME IS SARA AND IM 18 MY BOYFRIEND IS 20 AND IN THE NAVY HE IS TALKING BOUT GETTING MARRIED I WAS WONDERING WHAT PEOPLE THINK BOUT MARRIGE AT A YOUNG AGE

2007-10-24 16:27:13 · 32 answers · asked by princess10289@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i know many women say, i'd rather they be at home and look at porn than be out screwing around. and i agree with that philosophy but every time i catch he's been doing it, it hurts me. and he knows that, we have talked about it, but he does it anyways. and i've heard, 'well you have to be kinky in the bedroom to keep his attention'. well i used to be when he paid any mind to me at all. now he just takes care of himself and doesn't want to take any effort to have a joint experience. and i'm so pissed with the situation, i don't want to make any effort either so we just don't do it. what do i do? talking does not good in 5 years hasn't change anything.

2007-10-24 16:27:00 · 14 answers · asked by handygirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I think my Husband and my sister in law have a inappropriate relationship. My sister in law is my Husbands brother's wife. The work together talk on the phone, and she is coming over to my house almost ever night to hang out with him. She drinks.... ALOT. Every night. She doesn’t hang out with her own husband or go any where with him, but she will come over and hang out with my Husband. I think she treats him like her husband. She bought him cold medicine when he had a cold, she goes and buys him lunch all the time, and now she’s starting to buy my daughter alot of stuff. It's really starting to bother me. People tell me their relationship is very inappropriate, and I don’t know if im getting mad at nothing, or if threes something to be bad about. Tonight they went 40 miles together to the closest Wal-Mart when I was already planning to go with my friend, but he decided to go with her instead because her husband just broke his leg and couldn’t go. Am I over reacting??

2007-10-24 16:26:19 · 35 answers · asked by randi_jenik 1 in Marriage & Divorce