2007-10-24 17:16:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes... When one gets mismatch, it is certainly a tragedy. Look at the tragic lives they lead...
2007-10-24 17:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, mismatching is a tragedy but it is not a great human tragedy. We can see around us a lot of family problems due to mismaching. If the life partners can understand and share each other, they can lead a happy life. So ,before marriage we should understand our life partner's tastes,nature, interests,etc.
2007-10-24 17:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the _expression "the labor of love."
Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it
Takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific
Things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.
Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity),
There are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise
Program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your
Relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... You can "make" love.
Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling.
2007-10-24 23:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe people are unrealistic about who the "right parner" is. Nobody makes the effort that a marriage requires. That's why we have a ridiculously high divorce rate as compared to the past, even after accounting for more respectable reasons for divorce.
The younger generation is already known for being more impetuous, materialistic, and believing in self-entitlement without working hard.
2007-10-24 17:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I think too many people are out there looking for "mr or ms right" not bothering trying to BE "mr or ms right". Every relationship is a matter of give and take. Everyone has their good and bad points. Why else would all the beautiful, rich, famous people in Hollywood change partners so often? If you just marry someone because of their good points, and expect that to be all there is to them, you are already setting yourself up for failure. You are not perfect, I am not perfect. I don't think I am mismatched to my hubby just because we don't see eye to eye on everything, or just because he's gained a few kilos. He's perfect in the most important ways--love, integrity, respect, friendship, intimacy. Shoud we divorce because he leaves his clothes on the floor? Whatever!
2007-10-24 20:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by Linni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its evryones idea of a problem it aint mathemetics
human problems are natural.
May b you just need to
treat others better.thats all.
Now Hifh u smell a your partners
made a pie in the oven for you for this 1 over now.
Can you follow that???
2007-10-24 17:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by Sico 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm,
you have a good point to ask such a question.
i guess that is why i dont believe in marriage!
why do people even do it anymore these days? i dont see what good being married does. you could live with someone and stay faithful and be together forever without being "married" - the only difference being "married" makes is that if you decide you dont want to be together anymore you have to get a "divorce"
marriage these days is a legal thing. it is not about a spiritual, sacramental or fairytale type thing its just paper!
2007-10-24 17:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by miss2sexc 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree...marriage is not natural. Its one of these dang things that religion has brought to our lives and we are still doing it. What an awesome tragedy marriage has been to the history of mankind.
2007-10-25 01:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not made by matches, it is made by
the committment, loving, carring, responsibility,
and communication of two people that care about
each other.
2007-10-24 22:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by RudiA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no one is perfect in this world so its not about who gets right partner and who gets wrong.. its all about how well you gel with partner, how well you accept his/her not so good habits.. if both the partners develop understanding in between them then its above right wrong.. then its all about love.
2007-10-24 17:38:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋