Okay to have feelings for more than one person?

Question

I don't know if it's right. Everyone always says that they like someONE, but right now I couldn't ever say that and be honest. I actually like a few different guys.... Is that okay? Why is/isn't it okay? When a good friend asks me who I like, how do I explain that to them without getting embarassed? Who should definitely and definitely not know about this?

Answer 1

yea its ok as long as your not dating more than one person at the same time ( =

Answer 2

Of course its ok. I like alot of different guys right now... it's becuase i like some things about one and different things about the others. there's nothing wrong with that, cuz that is how you're going to find "the ONE" is by getting to know lots of guys. It's only natural to be attracted to them!

Answer 3

You have to think about which one you could see yourself with don't be embarrassed its normal to have multiple crushes try spending more time with each one of them that you like and see which one you have more fun with and who seems the most interested in things that you like as well. I wouldn't tell any one at the moment if someone asks you about it just tell them that you have someone in mind but your not sure if its the right time to tell yet because your not sure of all of this! Hope it helps :-)

Answer 4

There's nothing wrong with this, especially at the stage and age I suspect you are.

Even monogamous marriage does not require that you have "feelings" for only one person; it does, however, require that you ACT OUT sexual feelings for only the person to whom you have committed yourself.

Answer 5

I see nothing wrong with it, as long as you aren't committed to any of them. You're keeping your options open.