Family & Relationships - 24 October 2007

I need help wat to do....my bf's mom is being such a ***** !! i have done absolutely nothing 2 her and she dislikes me for no reason! i've tried my best to impress her and be very respectful to her but nothing is working. she gives me such dirty looks and im fed up with it. his sister is the same way. the only one who actually seems to like me is his dad and hes a preacher. they say their christians but why in the hell are they being so judgemental of me. im about to the point where im about 2 say some mean things b/c even at church they're being rude. what do i do?

2007-10-24 15:55:56 · 9 answers · asked by drummer chic 2 in Family

I want to talk to him he have nothing to say.He feels like I dont have upclass conversation.When we met we use to talk for hours know it like its blank.He not even attrated to me sexually.The only thing he do is complain about everything.He talks to his family more than he talks to me.I cook ,clean, work and take care of the kids and still no love or respect.The good thing is he comes home every night, but some time I wish we can go back in time.

2007-10-24 15:55:46 · 17 answers · asked by Mrs P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so..im getting married in June 2008..
and im excited But i keep feeling like..he doesnt want it anymore..or want to be with me...there are no signs...he works night shifts and is always tired and so i feel like he is mad at me...then its like i feel he has to contantly remind me he isnt going to leave mea nd were really going to get married and i hate the feeling, and i dont know how to control it..and like tonight we had a good talk and he reassured me and it meant alot to me then he left for work and im in a way back to thinking negative....whats wrong with me?

2007-10-24 15:48:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

would you respect a friend more if they loaned you $$ for a crucial thing (like car, house payment) and later made it a gift....

or a friend who loaned you $2000 and asked for you to pay it back slowly?

2007-10-24 15:46:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was with this guy and he broke up with me around the end of September. I was so heartbroken! Everyday i would cry myself to sleep and depress everyone around me. Up until then i never thought a guy could get me to fall in love him, but he proved me wrong. After he broke up with me his best friend would talk to me and try to make me feel better. Yesturday his best friend told me that he has feelings for me and he asked me to be his girlfriend.. I was shocked and i'm in this position where i don't know if i should date him or not? I mean i was in love with his best friend and what would my ex think of me? If i said yes wouldn't that make me seem like i'm trying to get back at my ex?
I need some good advice....
(btw i do like him.)

2007-10-24 15:31:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is expecting me to host his sister, her husband and two boys in two days for a long weekend. I have been working very long days and am tired of all the things that need fixing around here. Am I wrong to ask them to stay at a motel? Her husband won't stay at my father in laws house because it is old and dumpy.

2007-10-24 15:28:50 · 25 answers · asked by Sophiesmama 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I just learned that the twin girls I raised were not mine, I am heart broken. How do I cope? Only positive advice please.

2007-10-24 15:26:21 · 5 answers · asked by Jon 1 in Family

Everytime my wife turn her back her friend messes with me on the sly. Saying sexual comments.

2007-10-24 15:25:09 · 14 answers · asked by nezzy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 15:22:14 · 9 answers · asked by LONITA F 1 in Family

My husband is a salesman with an outgoing talkative personality. He has developed a strong friendship with a client of his that ownes a business two hours away from where we live. My husband talks to this man on the phone several times a week for thiry and forty minutes at a time. This guy calls on weekends too. My husband ussually goes out to lunch with this guys and does special favors as far as business things. Latley they have talked about flipping houses together, going hunting at a camp somewhere and things like that. I have never met this man but my gut tells me that something about him is off. Maybe I'm just over jealouse becasue my husband and I have a very stressed romantic relationship and i rarely get attention and or affection from im in spite of the fact that i am a stay at home mom to our 1 year old, i cook and clean everyday, im hot, I have a good personality but I CAN be a *****...am i over paranoid about him being friends with this guy or am I right to feel neglected.

2007-10-24 15:21:13 · 11 answers · asked by chicwitpurpose 2 in Marriage & Divorce

...for anyone who hasn't heard that in awhile.

2007-10-24 15:20:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My mom was an alcoholic for many years. As a result, we live far from each other, but we now have a relationship "over the phone. " Can anyone recommend some coping mechanisms so that I can continue to be patient with her when she has her emotional break downs?

2007-10-24 15:20:16 · 4 answers · asked by Sister Lourdes 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I love the man- the ring is classy - three small diamonds- but it seems a tad juvenille to have a "promise ring" and it seems like the left hand ring finger should signify that your either engaged or married. Having a ring on that finger seems to immediately spark conversations such as whens the date, etc. Do i just have it sized to fit a different finger?

2007-10-24 15:19:02 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 15:18:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-24 15:17:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I asked my neighbor to drive me home tomorrow and my mom was all pissed about how innapropriate it was and she went to call her to tell her no

2007-10-24 15:13:32 · 10 answers · asked by And For A Moment I Am Happy 6 in Family

Site A

-45 mins away
-large room that can fit up to 300--very nice decor/up-to date
-cocktail hour, open bar, 4-course sit down dinner. Dessert
-Use of bridal suite
-Linens, Flower Centerpieces and Wine at each table is included.
Cost: $70 a person

Site B

-25 mins away
-room fits 150
-cocktail hour, open bar, 2-courses sit down dinner. No Cake provided
-No bridal suite
-Silk Floral Centerpieces included.
-No modern attire (not a horrible place. But, a little early 90's New Jersey style wedding decor)
Cost: $65 a person.

Site A is very well known for it's elegant ambiance and excellent food. It's a big far, but it's a good deal with LOTs for food. I'm just worried if there is any traffic 45min could be over an hour.

Site B is OK if you get to use a large room. We have 130 guests. So, we get the smaller room. I'm worried the food will be thin-especially with only 2-courses. But, it's closer.

Thoughts.

2007-10-24 15:13:00 · 8 answers · asked by J'adore 4 in Weddings

I ran into my ex and the filling I thought was gone came back at full affect.

2007-10-24 15:12:07 · 13 answers · asked by nezzy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i judt found out 5 hours ago i'm pregnant. First person i call is my husband...who i left 3 weeks ago...due to him being an asshole.....the thing is.....hes not exactly a good person...and though i told him...i regret it...what do i do?

2007-10-24 15:11:40 · 8 answers · asked by diva 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just got married and my husband knows that i dont want him to look at porn but when i brought it up he said he wasent allowed and i asked did he want to and he gave me that ya i do look. It's hard for me to take in and makes me feel un attractive and not good enough.it makes me not want to have sex with him. He gets mad when i say it hurts me and i dont agree. is this all ok and normal?what should i do?

2007-10-24 15:11:20 · 14 answers · asked by Mashley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he said i looked like an elf from the lord of the rings, is he making fun of me?my freind said he likes me, but is he just like that, i am from serbia, idk if hes flirting with me like asking me math questions and sometimes brushing up against me when theres enough room to go around he doesnt really talk to me alot when his freinds r around

2007-10-24 15:10:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Of the Doctor and Deliliah? I find myself turning green with envy, I think the Doctor loves Delilah because of her sexy accent, what do you think?

2007-10-24 15:10:40 · 3 answers · asked by Sweet Judy 7 in Singles & Dating

Do you still love that person? And how do you stop your feelings? I mean this hurts like hell you know.

2007-10-24 15:10:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's mom is getting married in 2 weeks and i dont know what to get her.
She has a beautiful house ... everything!!
What kind of gift can i get her??? :(

2007-10-24 15:05:40 · 14 answers · asked by Neka K 1 in Weddings

I have been dating my Special Forces Marine for about a year now and I love him deeply, as of late he has talked about wanting me to be the mother of his children and the only woman in his life ans asked me to move in with him. He has hinted to me that he feels to be to the point of giving me a ring. Here is the thing, I love him very very much and want to be with him with every fiber of my beeing but I am not sure that I am on the same page when it comes to getting engaged (YET) yes I want to in the future marry this man, but I want us to really know one another better before I say yes to spending the rest of my life with him. Again it is not in any way that I do not love him or have secids thoughts, but I am just net ready for this major step YET, how do I tell him YES i want to marry you but I am not ready yet?????

2007-10-24 15:02:25 · 18 answers · asked by one Life to live 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I filed for a divorce over 1 year ago after finding out my wife was seeing another guy. I paid my lawyer $4,000, for the divorce and custody of my 2 sons, whom I've been raising with no help from my wife. To date, I am no closer to getting my divorce or custody of my sons. After keeping our 3 year old son overnite, my wife returned him to me with a blackeye and covered in welts and bruises. I took him to the hospital who called the police & social services. Eventually my wifes boyfriend confessed to beating my son. My wife says everyone is making a big deal over this. I asked my lawyer to get a custody trial for me, and now he says he needs another $1,000 to go to trial. Is there an organization I can contact that will help me ? I am just barely keeping my bills paid. I can't continue feeding my lawyer money, especially when he isn't helping me. He doesn't even return my phone calls. I live in the Pocono, Pa. area, and I would greatly appreciate any suggestions. Thank you

2007-10-24 15:00:17 · 5 answers · asked by alpacamms 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has gone away to think about the issues he has with our marriage. My insecurities with myself and my control on him.
How do i love myself again and trust in my husband.

2007-10-24 15:00:13 · 12 answers · asked by girly girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There are positives to him but it seems like when it is good it is great but when it is bad it is horrible. I guess it has been so long since he has said very much positive about me or us I am falling into some kind of hole. I run a 3mil dollar business (not mine) own my own home and live comfortable. When we first met I thought we had the similiar backgrounds. His parents are divorced but I get along with his mom very well. He of course does not for various reasons. I have a high self esteem at my job but can not seem to find the courage or what ever to "kick him to the curb" I am not a model but I do take care of myself. He is several yrs younger but that never seemed to be a big deal. I know I am too nice for the way I am treated. And sometimes wonder if I have to much self confidence because I find myself laughing at the stupidity of some of the things he says and does. I guess I have this romantic notion that the "great" will come to the service. Tnx for advice and leting me vent

2007-10-24 14:59:36 · 3 answers · asked by Patty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was just wondering if anyone can tell the difference sexually in a womens vagina after she's given birth natrually? I know kegel's work good to help tighten muscles and time heals but I never noticed a difference of feeling looser or anything and sex seems just the same to me but I notice women complaining they dont feel the same down there and I never even gave it a thought till now. Maybe some women return to normal and some don't. So I wonder if guys can tell the difference in a women...

2007-10-24 14:55:43 · 4 answers · asked by Luv4Nevaeh 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm after an Austrlaian based website to help me with wedding plans & ideas so that the resources suggested are more easily available to me..

Thanks!! ♥

2007-10-24 14:55:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings