Bricks falling... Part 2?

Question

There are positives to him but it seems like when it is good it is great but when it is bad it is horrible. I guess it has been so long since he has said very much positive about me or us I am falling into some kind of hole. I run a 3mil dollar business (not mine) own my own home and live comfortable. When we first met I thought we had the similiar backgrounds. His parents are divorced but I get along with his mom very well. He of course does not for various reasons. I have a high self esteem at my job but can not seem to find the courage or what ever to "kick him to the curb" I am not a model but I do take care of myself. He is several yrs younger but that never seemed to be a big deal. I know I am too nice for the way I am treated. And sometimes wonder if I have to much self confidence because I find myself laughing at the stupidity of some of the things he says and does. I guess I have this romantic notion that the "great" will come to the service. Tnx for advice and leting me vent

Answer 1

The best answer is the shortest. I am of the mind to remove the emotional aspects of such a decision and the answer then becomes clear. Since I have no emotional investment to your situation it is clear to me that if you are thus far in turmoil about him, then its time to move on.

Answer 2

I have a nack of making everyones life successful, but my own at times. I am motivated, have my own business, but have a hard time dealing with what is in front of me. I waited 17 years for the good to come back and I was only 32. It seems if you take a close look at the cycle of life(much like the Lion King) He fit a need during a certain cycle in your life. I got withmy ex when Iwas 16. My parents had 8 kids I was the youngest. They were done raising kids.(And I am ok with that part) My ex and his family "took" me in filled the void where I left my parents behind. My next "family" setting. As time went on, it turned out where I thought it was nurturing, was control. He also sounds like he can detroy things when he gets to close. He did not grow up with the "role" model family unit. It was a divorce situation, kids can rebound great,but if they hear the parents have gone bad they are a product of their environment for how they handle relationships. So this is two parts he was there during a cycle when you needed him and he will reuin a relationship not to get close for it to go bad. Reflect on the big picture and you will figure it out. Good luck and It's a good life:)

Answer 3

Is there a question? You know this is called Yahoo answers... right? The basic principle is you ask a question, and we answer it. I sure would not want you running my company if you could not grasp this simple of a concept.

Good luck.