I was with this guy and he broke up with me around the end of September. I was so heartbroken! Everyday i would cry myself to sleep and depress everyone around me. Up until then i never thought a guy could get me to fall in love him, but he proved me wrong. After he broke up with me his best friend would talk to me and try to make me feel better. Yesturday his best friend told me that he has feelings for me and he asked me to be his girlfriend.. I was shocked and i'm in this position where i don't know if i should date him or not? I mean i was in love with his best friend and what would my ex think of me? If i said yes wouldn't that make me seem like i'm trying to get back at my ex?
I need some good advice....
(btw i do like him.)
2007-10-24 15:31:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take the risk! Seriously, who cares what your ex thinks. He broke your heart. Defiantly don't do it out of revenge, but if you like him and he likes you the maybe something good could come out of a relationship with him... maybe something wayyy better than yours and your exes relationships.
Good luck!
2007-10-24 15:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a pretty slippery slope to try to date your ex-boyfriend's best friend. Because they're such good friends, you're going to have to see your ex sometimes, and that might not make things very easy for the new relationship. The best friend might also feel like he has to choose between you and his best friend. Take a little bit of time to think about it. If it's what you really want, you should go for it.
2007-10-24 15:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by mari 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really do like him, don't let it bother you.
My cousin was with a man for several years before breaking up with him. A friend of his approached her afterwards and told her that he had feelings for her, it was the only reason he had kept up with the friendship. They are now happily married with 3 children.
Her ex did try to make trouble, even telling her he would gatecrash and ruin the wedding - he didn't. It was his fault they broke up he was cheating and had a child with another woman.
2007-10-24 15:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what sort of pal might you be in case you all started relationship a similar guy or woman who broke your pal's heart? it is surely shallow and you'd be dropping a friendship on a boy that doesn't even relatively sound worth it. I surely have a rule to never date every person that my friends have already dated. it relatively is in basic terms off-limits. i'm in basic terms so at a loss for words as to why you would be wanting to date somebody who became "relatively recommend" on your pal. How egocentric are you able to be?
2016-10-13 23:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might seem like you're getting back at him, but if you really like your ex's best friend, then go for it! You only live once and if you let someone who could be your true love slip through your hands, then you wont be happy.
2007-10-24 22:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it.. in the words of Gwen Steffani, take a chance you stupid ho
I remember I asked a question about crying, and you said you had been because someone broke up with you.
2007-10-25 04:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you care what your ex thinks. He broke up with you. His Loss. Do what is in your heart.
2007-10-25 01:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by ravenscardarkhope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him then go out with him. Don't care about what your ex will think, its your life. Just trying to help---ALEX
2007-10-24 15:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you actually like him go for it. It may be awkward at first but then you will get used to it.
2007-10-24 15:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by *Presley!<3* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man if i was you i would go out with him. its been about a month and hes the one who broke up eith you! and you like him!! ahh. yeah say yes!
2007-10-24 16:00:03 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Nothing but the Lies =/ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋