Family & Relationships - 24 October 2007

2007-10-24 14:02:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

About 3 weeks ago I started talking to this guy online that sings at my church. So we started having a conversation, and then he asked me for my screen name. He IMs me all the time, and we've talked two nights ago for 20 minutes. He goes to my school, and he always walks past my locker before lunch. I tell him to stop and say Hi, but he pretends to not see me and then later online tells me that he didnt see anyone at my locker. It's kind of confusing, but I'm always there talking to a friend or two, so maybe he's too shy to come up to me around them? Last night he told me to call him when I get to school and he would meet me at my locker, I called him.. 3 times.. and he never answered! Thats weird because he told me he usually always has his phone and he had to be expecting my call.. I'm on his top friends, and he still IMs me all the time. We've still have never talked in person. What do you think, is he interested? It's weird, Explain what you think.

2007-10-24 14:00:58 · 9 answers · asked by socccccccer 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 14:00:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend keeps getting pictures and texts on his mobile off one of those chat and date numbers.Im wondering if he would of had to text it at first for him them to have his number? he's said he's not but i dont know what to think! just wondered if he's lying!!!x

2007-10-24 13:54:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay. My new man is VERY well-endowed. He's both long and girthy and sex is sort of painful because he's so big. Does anyone know any good positions we can try that will make it less uncomfortable?

2007-10-24 13:54:43 · 1 answers · asked by sodamncute 2 in Singles & Dating

So there's this chick that comes to the garage with her BMW. I knows she is single cause she talks about her ex-husband and stuff. Anyways, she's a bit younger (I'm 44 and she's 33) and works at the bank. The guys says I shuldn't aske her out, but I did and she says no!

What gives, I said I'd take her to Ponderosa and then see Saw 4. I mean, she's younger den me but she's also a little chubby (5'4" 120ish). I mean, I'm doin her a favor and she says no!

2007-10-24 13:54:29 · 6 answers · asked by big_dumb_hick 2 in Singles & Dating

i like girls with a funny, nice, shy, and smart personality.

2007-10-24 13:54:13 · 34 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister's friend recently got married and decided that her ring was not good enough soooo...she exchanged it for a diamond that she already had from a previous engagement (don't ask why she did not return it, she didn't) anyway her husband asked her why she changed it and she said that her friend (a jeweler) got a good price on the "new" one. Her husband seemed satisfied with that answer. So now she wears a $20,000 5 Karat ring from her ex fiancee as if her husband gave it to her. Isn't that a lie???

2007-10-24 13:53:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend's ex-wife is doing everything to make my boyfriend's life hell. I had been dating my boyfriend 7 months, he has been divorced over a year. His family tells me, how psychotic she is and the stories of her and her current actions are crazy. My boyfriend even once told me, when we went on vacation, he suggested different hotels, as to not upset her. I got tired of all the drama and his gripes and fights with her and broke up with him 2 days ago. He got upset and called me insecure and I needed to understand that she is the mother of his child and he will always love her. I expect him to put his 10 yr old daughter above me (and I adore her and aways stayed out of their fighting and remained neutral for his daughters sake). Am I wrong to expect him to put our relationship first? Am I right to break up with him?

2007-10-24 13:53:02 · 46 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Singles & Dating

I've seen outgoing people in movies and tv and also heard co-workers talking and seems everybody has friends, and also they have some kind of relation with their cousins.

I'm 27 male. have bunch of cousins in another country, never see them.. cause i dont' travel. Have bunch of cousins in chicago.. never knew them dont talk to them. don't know them.

have cusins in my city in CA and never talk to them, don't really know them. I dont' hate them, just that i'm a quiet person and shy person so i never travel or talk.

People like me never succeed in love?

2007-10-24 13:49:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents have been going through some financial troubles lately. I will give you a brief back story just so you can have more information.

Two years ago my sister lost both of her kids to the Division of Childrens Services. In an effort to keep the kids in the family my mother and step father adopted them. But with all the lawyer fees and having to buy the kids all new things (beds, clothes, etc) they have maxed out all their credit cards and just buried themselves in debt. On top of that my sister has been asking to borrow money so that she can pay rent, electric etc etc.

Ok so now to the question...

My mom's family all make good money. She has NEVER asked them for any money and is too proud to ask now. Would it be ok for me to send them all a letter or something explaining the situation and asking for help or should I just stay out of it. I don't know what to do cause I don't have any extra money to give her or I would. All help is appreciated. Thanks in advance!

2007-10-24 13:49:51 · 8 answers · asked by gofigure 4 in Family

There is this girl i like, lets call her, Ali. Anyways last year i started talking to Ali, and well we hit it off great and she knew i was attracted to her, and we hit it off great flirting and all. Approaching the end of last year we starting talking less and less, on my part kinda shy, till the point of all we said was hi to each other in the hallways. Early into this year i found out she liked me, and now idk if she still does! We still say hi to each other in the hallways but she gives me those looks like she intrested, and she even screamed out in the halls just to say hi to me, lol.

Anyways now when i see her is that i just tend to walk away past her and pretend i dont see her, or try to take another route, dont get me wrong i STILL LIKE HER, its just that im that shy/scared to talk to her again. idk How do i break the ice and get the confidence to talk ot her, and is there a chance she still likes me>?

Also please try to answer all my questions, dont tall me about, "whats the

2007-10-24 13:45:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Next day he avoids me!!!

2007-10-24 13:44:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-24 13:43:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-24 13:41:36 · 49 answers · asked by I like pie 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey guys!
Well, i just gotta tell yall` that I haven`t talked to brendan..
Well iv`e texted em but i`m trying not too.
He doesn`t respond to them and now i`m like whatever!
It`s getting easier for me to forget about em!
Cause i know he doesn`t care or nething.
I still think about em sometimes
Do you think i made the right choice?!!

2007-10-24 13:39:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean, you talked to her for 10-20 minutes, and when done, when saying bye, you put your hand on her back.

2007-10-24 13:39:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

umm... i wuz in a chatroom and sum dude asked me 2 cyber .. but idk what that is...?

2007-10-24 13:36:26 · 3 answers · asked by Michaela W 2 in Friends

I have been friends with one of my closest friends for over a year now. After about 6 months of being friends, we started sleeping together. We've never discussed titles, but lately he's been wanting to see me all the time, even if its not for sex. He's introduced me to his best friends, and we all hang out sometimes. When we do, he'll be cute with me, hold my hand, and kiss me in front of them, which is unusual for him because he isn't very affectionate with other people, it takes him a while to warm up. He doesn't introduce me as his girlfriend either though, so I'm just wondering if this friends with benefits, casual dating, what?

I should add that I very much doubt he's seeing other people, considering we're texting or on the phone everyday, all day. Literally, our cell bills are beyond ridiculous.

2007-10-24 13:35:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 13:33:53 · 3 answers · asked by peaches6 7 in Family

They're so annoying, and plus, i understand that I am at an age where tension between the parents is normal (im 13) But i wanna be a good daughter, and stop back-talking to them. I want to control my anger, and just stop.. but how?

2007-10-24 13:32:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been seeing this guy for 2 months. He had a past with crack...and now hes started it again. He did it last night and I was worried all night. Then today he called and said he almost died from doing it. He said he had to go and would call me back later..I tried texting, then called and he barely said 2 words. It is very unusual for him to be like this and I know he's doing it again. So I texted him saying i couldnt do this anymore...but all i can do is worry right now for him. I dont know what to do or how to handle this? serious answers only please

2007-10-24 13:31:35 · 12 answers · asked by summer.babe56 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 13:30:00 · 3 answers · asked by LA_MEXI_T21 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 13:26:29 · 7 answers · asked by Ziad T. Yousif 1 in Singles & Dating

well, about 4 years ago, i developed a crush on a friend of mine, unfortunately, im like a troll, and shes like a perfect princess. so obviously i had never told her my secret. we have been great friends since forever, we're always hanging out, going places. but always just as "friends." and im always seeing her go in and out of relationships with "prince" guys that always end in heartbreak. and i was always there to comfort her. so as this year rolled around, i decided to suck in all the courage i could muster and tell her of my true feelings when, of course, my WORST enemy decides to ask her out (he is prince lke too.) and here is the worst part. they are really getting serious. though i can tell that there is doubt in this relationship, and my worst enemy always treats her kinda bad. she loves him and would never break up with him, and he knows he has a prize catch. he would NEVER let her go.

2007-10-24 13:26:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 13:24:18 · 22 answers · asked by pocoyolover<3 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband had given up on our marriage a while back and I was still fighting for it. I tried everything I could think of to make things better, marriage therapy, reading millions of books, spending hours researching. I just wanted him to see that there was happiness and could be more happiness if we both just tried. He refused to try and didnt care too. Our marriage has consisted of a lot of things. Immigration issues, how to raise children, online pornography, talking to girls online and making arrangements to meet, etc... Those are bad things but there have been good. So anyway he wanted to seperate, live seperately, so he could have his freedom but not lose the family. I couldnt agree it broke my heart that we were good enough on the side but not all together. We have 2 kids that adore him. The other night after a fight I needed to leave and asked for the keys. He refused. So I took the work keys and called my sister. He called the cops on me for stealing his work keys when...

2007-10-24 13:23:50 · 13 answers · asked by aalshafi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I met a childhood friend on facebook and we met up to catch up. We are 25. He has my #, but he emailed thru facebook for a 2nd date "are u free this sat? wanna meet up?" which I find impersonal. y didn't he call instead? He is not shy. Does this mean he doesn't want to get to know me over the phone but just interested in sex? So far, we have not talked bout sex. In his profile, it says looking for friends.
On our 1st date, he asked me few questions but not a lot & it didn't seem like he was trying to impress me. He was blunt about his lack of college degree and when i said everyone has diff pace in life, he said "yea right, 7 yr difference in pace." He said his last 7 yrs was partying. So I said u must've gotten it out of your system by now, but he bluntly said nope. It seemed like he didn't want me to see any good qualities in him. But if that was the case, y a 2nd date? How can i test him out on the 2nd date? I have a feeling he doesn't remember me as a child but insisted he does

2007-10-24 13:21:37 · 7 answers · asked by angelgirly111 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this roommate...she is, let's say...very open about sex. She's constantly bringing her boyfriend over to have sex, and honestly...they don't care where they do the deed. I'll come home, and they're getting it on in the living room or something, and it's just quite nasty! What should I do about the situation?

2007-10-24 13:21:18 · 29 answers · asked by Jewlz 1 in Friends

Im @ work bored and jus wondered do my pix & avatar kinda look alike?
http://i17.photobucket.com/albums/b75/Pink408/meeeeeeeee.jpg



http://i17.photobucket.com/albums/b75/Pink408/meah.jpg

2007-10-24 13:20:00 · 11 answers · asked by Confused 3 in Singles & Dating