well, about 4 years ago, i developed a crush on a friend of mine, unfortunately, im like a troll, and shes like a perfect princess. so obviously i had never told her my secret. we have been great friends since forever, we're always hanging out, going places. but always just as "friends." and im always seeing her go in and out of relationships with "prince" guys that always end in heartbreak. and i was always there to comfort her. so as this year rolled around, i decided to suck in all the courage i could muster and tell her of my true feelings when, of course, my WORST enemy decides to ask her out (he is prince lke too.) and here is the worst part. they are really getting serious. though i can tell that there is doubt in this relationship, and my worst enemy always treats her kinda bad. she loves him and would never break up with him, and he knows he has a prize catch. he would NEVER let her go.
2007-10-24 13:26:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's obviously not worth your attention and pain. Just hold out - when the RIGHT person comes along, you'll know it, believe me.
2007-10-24 13:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by del_icious_manager 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. troll, Not all prince charmings are handsome. She seemed to like you if shes spending time with you. Women are not mind readers, suck up and tell you on one of your friends nights out. Must be face to face. Did you ever think she may be secretly in love with you? A chance to take but how will you ever know? Happened to my best friend. He didn't find out till years later that she really did love him, but he was to shy to ask her out. Now 40 years later after her three divorces and his two they accidentally reconnected via the Internet.and well now they are married and happy.... woo hooo He messed up 40 years of both their lives by being quiet. What do you have to lose man? NOTHING! What have you got to win? Everything, maybe she will break up later with this enemy and you will get your shot, or maybe you will get shot down. but either way you will know and not have to spend 40 years wondering. That really is hell man!
2007-10-24 13:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by D. Scott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
classes found out - flow after what you like or somebody else will. you don't be conscious of until you attempt. There are diffused approaches of understanding if somebody you like and function been friends with for a protracted time will ever see you as something yet a pal with out taking a extensive possibility. attempt doing further and further issues as a pair; deliver vegetation and "questioning approximately You" notes and playing cards; call suddenly and flow to lunch or dinner or a action picture. Be arranged for rejection by utilising telling your self you're taking achievable and then be trouble-free with that guy or woman if it does not paintings out so the friendship can proceed. from time to time that is in basic terms no longer worth risking the friendship in case you think of that is an impossible corporation. Who is familiar with. perhaps sooner or later she'll advance out of her "undesirable boy" area and comprehend she needs a actual relationship with you! P.S. - Leykis objectifies and verbally abuses women human beings. no longer a competent place sort. what number cases has he been married? 4! he's a ask your self jock with no longer something good to assert.
2016-10-13 23:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by staude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!! just be there for her...dont try to break it off or ignore her. if there is doubt then ur time will come, if u still want to tell her, tell her u will wait for her, but c if her reaction is good, if it isnt then saying that will only make the relationship last longer and i can tell u dont want that:) so just keep on being that friend and let het know u like her and will wait.
2007-10-24 13:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by "Sophya Roxy" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGIVE the enemy and move on. However, she was never your girl to begin with. She is a dear friend. That in itself is a blessing. Maybe someday she'll realize all along her prince has been you. But, in the meantime, be her friend. If it's meant to be, it will be. And if it's not, learn from it and take the experience and knowledge with you.
2007-10-24 13:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by Olivia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your a true friend like you say you are... you tell your friend. But say it like your an outsider lookin in. Don't try to come off jealous or anything. Let her know how bad he's treating her and that she deserves better. And if she doesn't listen, tell her:" well I warned you and I'm just doing what's right. I can't tell you how to run your life. I can only suggest."
2007-10-24 13:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by lovelypieces 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he stole her, she was never yours. Sorry. She probably sees you more like a brother than anything. All you can do is be there for her and tell her like it is with her relationship. When things fall apart, you told her so. Until then, find another girl. If you don't you'll be wasting your youth holding out for her.
2007-10-24 13:33:14 · answer #7 · answered by short 'n sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but you missed your chance. And if she's going to stay with a TRUE troll like that, there's literally nothing you can do about it. I don't know if you can remain friends with her, but if you think you can, by all means, be her friend.
As for your worst enemy...well, at least you know why you hate him.
2007-10-24 13:33:58 · answer #8 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this is hard, but u have to be a good friend to her and let her go tell her you concerned but dont be too concerened, shell tellu to get the hell outta her business, comfort her wen she needs you and be the loyal friend u are.
when they finally break up, maybe she'll realize she needs you.
i think..
2007-10-24 13:31:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha stuck on the friends side.
2007-10-24 13:30:49 · answer #10 · answered by thebuii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋