I have been friends with one of my closest friends for over a year now. After about 6 months of being friends, we started sleeping together. We've never discussed titles, but lately he's been wanting to see me all the time, even if its not for sex. He's introduced me to his best friends, and we all hang out sometimes. When we do, he'll be cute with me, hold my hand, and kiss me in front of them, which is unusual for him because he isn't very affectionate with other people, it takes him a while to warm up. He doesn't introduce me as his girlfriend either though, so I'm just wondering if this friends with benefits, casual dating, what?
I should add that I very much doubt he's seeing other people, considering we're texting or on the phone everyday, all day. Literally, our cell bills are beyond ridiculous.
2007-10-24 13:35:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Could asking him where our relationship stands ruin what we have now?
2007-10-24 13:39:35 · update #1
I would tell him how you feel about the way he is acting. Then ask him if he wants to be more then just FWB but only if you want it to. Good Luck!
2007-10-24 13:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish there were an easier answer, but I think this is a question you should ask him!
Decide what you want and then find an easy situation in which you can talk. Go for a walk together - something relaxed. Tell him what you're feeling and get what you want! Or move on to someone else who will give you what you want...
2007-10-24 20:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by ktkansas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you guys are dating. Its just that you both havent called it that yet. That does not change anything. Just talk to him plain open when in a casual meeting - "I am kinda confused here before I go ahead and assume that you are my boyfriend I would like to know why should I be your girlfriend?" See what that brings out in him and go from there.
To be honest, w/o declaring this I beleive he is in love with you. He wd reather not say it if he can get away with benefits and no commitments. Seems like you both are hitting it off good.
2007-10-24 20:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by harty_2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you guys can be more! Just make sure he wants a relationship too. If your both ok with being fwbs than don't change it. If he doesn't and you do, than seriously consider wats more important...a relationship or phuck buddy. Relationship: move on, phuck buddy: use protection ;)
2007-10-24 20:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's simple: ASK HIM where he wants the relationship to go. But ask him face-to-face, not on the phone or by texting. Look into his eyes when he gives you his answer and you will know everything you need to know.
2007-10-24 20:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋