Hi, I met a childhood friend on facebook and we met up to catch up. We are 25. He has my #, but he emailed thru facebook for a 2nd date "are u free this sat? wanna meet up?" which I find impersonal. y didn't he call instead? He is not shy. Does this mean he doesn't want to get to know me over the phone but just interested in sex? So far, we have not talked bout sex. In his profile, it says looking for friends.
On our 1st date, he asked me few questions but not a lot & it didn't seem like he was trying to impress me. He was blunt about his lack of college degree and when i said everyone has diff pace in life, he said "yea right, 7 yr difference in pace." He said his last 7 yrs was partying. So I said u must've gotten it out of your system by now, but he bluntly said nope. It seemed like he didn't want me to see any good qualities in him. But if that was the case, y a 2nd date? How can i test him out on the 2nd date? I have a feeling he doesn't remember me as a child but insisted he does
2007-10-24 13:21:37 · 7 answers · asked by angelgirly111 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
quiz him about more common things like the weather tehn see if he eayses his way into trying to talk you into well you know
2007-10-24 13:29:01 · answer #1 · answered by Braden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is apparent you are barking up the wrong tree here. This guy is being totally honest with you but you seem to think that he just wasn't trying to impress you. That view point appears to be what you want to think or believe.While the lack of a college degree is not an infallible indicator of success, this guy has told you in no uncertain terms that he only wants to major in partying. In spite of all of his bluntness( which I consider rather to be his effort to be honest with you), you chose to still go out with him a second time and I suspect you even harbor a secret desire to date him.If not, why do you want to test him , what difference will that make. The issue is your own motivation, and that is what I think you need to focus on.You have free choice and can elect not to let this issue go further than you want it to.So far, nothing you have written seems to infer that all he wants from you is sexual in nature.Are you sure that is not something you are thinking about and/or want. Do some introspection.
2007-10-24 13:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to get in ur pantss.
hes a party dude and hes obviously not intersted.
ehh kick him to the currrrb.
2007-10-24 13:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOLD HANDS OR something/
2007-10-24 13:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by Isabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is don't give in too easily.
2007-10-24 13:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by erxromancexo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just kiss him.
2007-10-24 13:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it babe
2007-10-24 13:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋