English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

About 3 weeks ago I started talking to this guy online that sings at my church. So we started having a conversation, and then he asked me for my screen name. He IMs me all the time, and we've talked two nights ago for 20 minutes. He goes to my school, and he always walks past my locker before lunch. I tell him to stop and say Hi, but he pretends to not see me and then later online tells me that he didnt see anyone at my locker. It's kind of confusing, but I'm always there talking to a friend or two, so maybe he's too shy to come up to me around them? Last night he told me to call him when I get to school and he would meet me at my locker, I called him.. 3 times.. and he never answered! Thats weird because he told me he usually always has his phone and he had to be expecting my call.. I'm on his top friends, and he still IMs me all the time. We've still have never talked in person. What do you think, is he interested? It's weird, Explain what you think.

2007-10-24 14:00:58 · 9 answers · asked by socccccccer 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

Hes def shy, if you like him maybe u should make the first move

2007-10-24 14:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Either he's just shy or maybe he's not lying when he says that he didn't see you. Maybe he has you confused with someone else. Have you ever had a good conversation face to face with him? One where you reference stuff you chatted on the computer about?
Back when I was in 7th grade a guy thought my friend was me. t was pretty awkward when it all came out, but we ended up dating after that.
If you're sure this is not the case with you guys then go up to him and start a conversation. See how he acts. You'll be able to tell a lot from that.
Good Luck!!

2007-10-24 21:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 6 · 0 0

Maybe he likes talking on line, because he is more relaxed, than in person. He is shy, and doesn't like to talk to you with a lot of other people around. You know girls, giggle, and laugh all the time, and that might make him feel uncomfortable. Let him take the lead, and be patient, he might be a really great guy when he finally opens up.

2007-10-24 21:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0 0

He's probably really shy and isn't ready to talk to you in person. The reason he's making the excuses is because he's probably embarrassed about it and he doesn't want you to know that he's too shy to talk to you.

2007-10-24 21:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by CIWWAF ♥ 4 · 0 0

Why are you focusing on this one guy ??--he just sounds like a guy lacking in self confidence--hiding behind a computer screen---this is all just too silly !! Find a guy with self confidence and enjoy a REAL relationship.

2007-10-24 21:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0 0

he is probably shy adn doesnt wanna know and trys to avoid you bc he is scared that you can tell u like him.

2007-10-24 21:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by rivery 3 · 0 0

sounds like he is trying to get in your pants and doesnt want anyone to know about it.

2007-10-24 21:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

he's probably just nervous or self conscious. he might be afraid that you won't like him in person

2007-10-24 21:07:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

gibe him a little time. He's shy

2007-10-24 21:04:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

fedest.com, questions and answers