I've been seeing this guy for 2 months. He had a past with crack...and now hes started it again. He did it last night and I was worried all night. Then today he called and said he almost died from doing it. He said he had to go and would call me back later..I tried texting, then called and he barely said 2 words. It is very unusual for him to be like this and I know he's doing it again. So I texted him saying i couldnt do this anymore...but all i can do is worry right now for him. I dont know what to do or how to handle this? serious answers only please
2007-10-24 13:31:35 · 12 answers · asked by summer.babe56 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he needs to be in drug rehab NOW--or he will surely kill himself. If he wont get help, LOSE him before he brings you down with him.
2007-10-24 13:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend was on weed while I was dating him. I talked to him in person, telling him how much I cared about him, how I was scared for him, and how I couldn't take it, and that if he was going to do weed, I couldn't be with him. I was crying, and he took it seriously. He cared about me, and stopped. We've broken up since, but he still knows that I care about him as a friend, and that it would kill me for him to go through that. Just talk to him in person, when he's not high. Tell him how you feel, and give him an ultimatum, if he chooses crack over you, then he's not worth the pain of worrying about him constantly, crying over him at nights, feeling numb when he od's and is in the hospital, always worrying about if this is going to be the last time you see him.
2007-10-24 20:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by The Broken Doll 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dump the crackhead! Nothing but trouble!! Doesnt sound like he is willing to stop and will be more heartache the longer you stick around and worry about him. Dont wait till he starts stealing your belongings to pay for the crack!!
2007-10-24 20:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already did the right thing when you told him "I can't do this anymore." You can let him know you're concerned, but the decision to use or not use is up to him. There's nothing but heartache in it for you if you remain attached to a crack-using boyfriend.
2007-10-24 20:41:39 · answer #4 · answered by vita64 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Advise him to seek help. Provide him with 2 options & allow him to choose. It is up to him to make that change, not you. In the meanwhile, keep him in prayer and carry on with your life. You will have to because you can get dragged into it and it can change your life forever, DRASTICALLY. God bless you.
2007-10-24 20:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by Olivia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
got any jk lol
this is a serious mader. I would wait to he got better to tell him the news because you dont weant himto overdouce. TELL HIM how you fell maybe he will stop. TALK TO HIM
2007-10-24 20:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose his number. As Whitney Houston once said, "Crack is whack."
2007-10-24 20:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by jan c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My gut says...LOSE HIM!!!!!!!!!!
These people are UNPREDICTABLE and will steal you blind...your heart, your head, your money.....ANYTHING that helps them get their fix.
If he gets clean, I would consider, carefully, getting involved with him again.
He does not NEED you to help him!! Only God can help him and God will help if the dude asks.
Honey, protect yourself NOW before you lose it all.
2007-10-24 20:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go and don't think that your love can change him. He got to love himself enough to change.
2007-10-24 20:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by Spirited Virgo 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get as far away from him as you can. Forget him. He is a loser.
2007-10-24 20:53:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋