Family & Relationships - 24 October 2007

I've been with him 8 years. he's 30. I'm 29. I been trying to get him to quit for years. He is one of the most kind hearted people u'd meet but I know for a fact that his we-d addiction is out of hand the root to all our problems. I left him over it numerous times. He is really sweet to me when he's Hi-h, but when he doesn't have it he is miserable and fights with me till he does have it. We have a business but I can only limit the amount of money I give him because he will blow it all and I have to take care of the bills. I also go to school. He has no-body really, but me and I feel quilty and like I'm sinning when I can't give him money. I don't know what to do. He really stresses me out. I can't take it any more. I can't live with feeling quilty all the time. It causes most our problems. It makes him lazy, mean(when he's out of it), he doesn't have his liscense, doesn't have his GED, and only works in our business, but I take care of EVERYTHING. Should I leave him?

2007-10-24 11:57:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I told my bf on the phone that he can break up with me if he wants to.I said this cuz to me he is acting like he doesn't want to be with me anymore.I love him a lot, but i told him if u want to break up with me then don't keep it to urself.Do it if u want to.Is it ok for a gf to tell her bf this?I mean it doesn't sound bad does it?And it doesn't sound like i don't care about us right?Please yall i need help?!

2007-10-24 11:56:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok this guys name is Alex he is super sweet and nice. I get along with him GREAT. We are always flirting he asked me for my number but I am scared that he will just reject me. PLEASE HELP ME!!

2007-10-24 11:56:42 · 3 answers · asked by Single 23 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, i got a bill of 79 $ for car insurance, i have 3 days to pay it, i dont have a bank account, and my parent are not gonna be here for like 15 days, can i just put the money cash in the letter, and send it thru mail, or can i go to a state farm insurance plave and pay there. i need help quick please!
I kNOW I ASKED THIS QUESTION IN THE WRONG SECTION, BUT IT BECAUSE THER ARE LOT OF PEOPLE HERE

2007-10-24 11:55:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this guy and i really like him and he keeps asking about sex what do i do

2007-10-24 11:54:22 · 22 answers · asked by `Beautiful inside and out~ 2 in Singles & Dating

How many of you feel compelled to marry an Italian? (or if you are married how many of you did marry Italian?)

Or just give a shout out to our nationallity!!
ITALIA!!

any Sicilians like me out there??

2007-10-24 11:52:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

although you have moved on romantically?

2007-10-24 11:52:26 · 11 answers · asked by Lioness 6 in Marriage & Divorce

These are the lyric. To listen to the song go to http://www.broadjam.com/artists/artistindex.asp?artistID=52975

You took away my innocence
Tried to take away my confidence
Tried to take what made me felt I belong
The beatings, treats, vulgarities
The constant hate you threw at me
You thought it would bring me down - you were so wrong

I'm not a victim, I'm a survivor
I'm not a victim, cause I'm a survivor
I'm not a victim - I am a leader
I'm not a victim - I am a fighter
I'm not a victim - I'm a survivor
And I'm moving strong ahead

Many times I came back to you
You’d say all the games were through
That all things I’m to you is beautiful
Then we’d end up in the place
Where you’d caused me much disgrace
But I've been rescued by the love in me

I will not compromise with what will hurt me
For when you can’t use me, you’ll try to bury me
I'm thankful to the one above
Whose fill my heart with so much love
With this my life is resolved

2007-10-24 11:49:34 · 4 answers · asked by izzidaisi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

than they followed me into the library went by some book walked right in front of me and didn't say hi or anything and i know them. the jackasses WTF!! i didn't say hi either but i really don't know what to think.

2007-10-24 11:49:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can you name them please? Thanks the song name and the singer, Ok thanks.

Thankssssssssssssss

2007-10-24 11:48:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If your boyfriend called you stupid then just said Im just kidding (he does it a lot) what would you do?

2007-10-24 11:46:10 · 15 answers · asked by Charlie 2 in Singles & Dating

my best friend and i like this cute guy but he likes this popular girl who thinks she's all that almost all of the boys like her and he just likes her for the looks i mean what guy would not go for the looks and guys who go for the looks are jerks what should i do should i get over him or should i make a move?

2007-10-24 11:43:31 · 3 answers · asked by pretty_sammy 2 in Singles & Dating

girl at work i like shows me many signs that she likes me. However I stopped by my job today and had to buy some wood. I saw her at her register and i know she saw me, but after she saw me she walked away to go talk to some old lady.

I don't get it, if she likes me then why would she walk away when i was just another register ahead of her?

*I know she likes me and she shows alot of those unconscious signs that girls show when they like someone:

Laughs at my jokes
shows palms
comes around to wherever i am (during work)
etc

2007-10-24 11:42:14 · 5 answers · asked by i messed up 2 in Singles & Dating

something that catch you eyes the most....

2007-10-24 11:41:32 · 19 answers · asked by shaffy 2 in Singles & Dating

and after some time in the relationship they just stop saying it back. . .consistantly.

Is it over.

I don't want to keep trying if the effort is wasted.

Tell Matticus he WANTS to KNOW

2007-10-24 11:41:09 · 13 answers · asked by Matticus Kole 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 11:41:01 · 5 answers · asked by kittykat 1 in Family

I need power for music, to keep food warm and lighting... A generator is tooo loud and I dont know what kind of converter to get for a car battery or if thats even a good idea. HELP

2007-10-24 11:36:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

He is sooo cute. he is a nice guy. he is the kind of man you take home to mom. the problems:
He is 5 years younger (i am 24, he is 19).
I think i am too Fat for him also. I think he like skinny little chicks with bib boobs and i am really big. don't get me wrong i have huge boobs but i also have the butt to match it. what should i do. should i tell him i want him or just dream from afar??? any advice please??!!!

2007-10-24 11:35:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friends were talking about going around balltapping guys and I have no idea what their talking about, does anybody know?

2007-10-24 11:34:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

have been dating this guy a month now. I asked him why he still keeps photos of him and his ex girlfriend on myspace and he said because it makes her mad. I'm not sure why he'd care to make her mad he ended the relationship. I found her on myspace and she has no pictures of them and is actually in a new relationship herself. Why does he feel the need to keep these on display? They arnt friends and its a lot of photos of just the two of them.

2007-10-24 11:29:21 · 3 answers · asked by liz 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I know I'm going to get a bunch of answers that say I'm crazy, but so be it. I just don't get why people make such a big deal about a spouse sleeping with someone else. IMO the lies and deceit are the negatives of an affair. But sheer sex is simply physical.

For instance, if my wife wanted to have sex with some guy, I personally wouldn't care. And that doesn't mean I don't love her, in fact I love her with everything that I am. It's just that sex is just physical. She feels the same way. And yes, women can sex without emotion just as well as men.

For those that say, "then why get married". Simple, I love her and want to grow old with her. I just don't see a problem with her sleeping with someone else.

2007-10-24 11:29:10 · 20 answers · asked by Bull in a china shop 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been dear friends for quite a while now. We always count on each other when we have problems and need advice. But I can't go to him for advice on this one... because I think I may honestly be in love with him! I would have told him ages ago... but he has a girlfriend.
HOWEVER- The girlfriend is moving to another, far-off state quite soon. They have geuine feelings for each other, but I believe they have agreed that it was best to see other people once she has left...
Do I tell him?
Am I a horrible person for this? Because I'm so happy that his girlfriend is moving, and taking his happiness with her?
Help?

2007-10-24 11:28:51 · 4 answers · asked by Hayley L 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 20 year old straight guy and worrying about my performance in the bedroom.
I do really enjoy sex but I never seem to last that long? I try and extend the length of time having sex by a lot of foreplay but I get so turned on when it comes to intercourse I end up coming within minutes of starting! The only time I seem to be able to last a bit longer is when I'm drunk!
Also my mates always tell me how they come three sometimes four times in a night and go for a few hours but I just don't understand it? They are a lot older than me and I guess more experienced but surely there are ways of controlling this and being able to come more than once in a night?

2007-10-24 11:28:01 · 11 answers · asked by southernlad 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 11:20:41 · 13 answers · asked by Alex J 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok. Let me first say that my husband and I are extremely old fashioned and believe wives should obey and submit and husbands can discipline and spank thier wives when they feel they need it. So no ABUSE comments or feminist bull!
Ok, so me and my husband were at his friends house and I acted REALLY rude and bitchy the whole time, don't know why, so finally my hubby grabbed my arm, took me inside(we were outside at a bbq) sat on the couch and pulled me over his knee pulled up my skirt and spanked me! I was SOOO embarrased. I mean everyone could hear and the door was wide open so they could see too. He's never spanked me in front of people. I heard people laughing and even the women were saying that I had it coming. But it hurt like heck(well, I guess a spanking should). I mean I KNOW I deserved the spanking, but my question is was he right to handle me there or should he have waited until we got home to deal with me and spank me.

2007-10-24 11:19:50 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was with a guy for a while then got pregnant and then about 3 months later he tells me he is married. Well he didnt tell me his wife called me. She moved back to her home town and her husband was in the army so he stayed here. I had the baby about a year ago. He signed his rights over to my husband now. Well his wife wants our kids to know each other and i dont think that is a bad idea. I want my daughter to know her brothers and the truth. It is funny to me because my daughters real father wants to know my little girl but i know the only reason is because she is a girl and he already has 2 boys and he always wanted a little girl. How do i go about letting my baby see her brothers and not her dad. I dont think he has a right or a reason to see my little girl. He was the one that signed over his rights. Am i wrong for the way i am thinking! My husband dont have a problem with my one year old seeing her brothers but he dont want her around her real dad. And i dont blame him!

2007-10-24 11:18:50 · 14 answers · asked by More then one on this account 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't dance, I mean ever. Neither does my boyfriend. My family doesn't dance at weddings, my boyfriend's family did dance at his sister's wedding, but he and I just sat at the table for the whole reception. Neither of us drink, and our families aren't big drinkers, so as long as I kept it short, could we get away without either? It's not like anyone would be traveling from far away, we live in north eastern connecticut, the farthest someone would be traveling is south eastern massachusetts.

2007-10-24 11:18:33 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I lost mine when I was 20 years old... I tried to wait till marriage but when I finally found a hot guy I just had to attack him like a sl_ut. I got with his friend a week later and we are still together till this day. But I have heard the average is 14. How old were you??? ALSO was it a good or bad experience. That first guy of mine...we didnt finish.....I was like,,,, ugh,,,,,that was horrible!! and walked away without a real experience.....so how was yours ?? :)

2007-10-24 11:15:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He's not supportive in anything i do, he call me stupid, dumb ***,etc...

2007-10-24 11:15:34 · 95 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he hurt me so bad but i don't want to let him go HELP

2007-10-24 11:13:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating