have been dating this guy a month now. I asked him why he still keeps photos of him and his ex girlfriend on myspace and he said because it makes her mad. I'm not sure why he'd care to make her mad he ended the relationship. I found her on myspace and she has no pictures of them and is actually in a new relationship herself. Why does he feel the need to keep these on display? They arnt friends and its a lot of photos of just the two of them.
2007-10-24 11:29:21 · 3 answers · asked by liz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i talked to her actually and she said shes asked him to but he refuses and she doesnt care to try anymore.
2007-10-24 11:32:03 · update #1
Jealousy won't do you much good, nor is it particularly appropriate in this case (since she has clearly moved on), but he DOES have emotional ties to her still, and that is cause to be concerned, if not full-on angry. These things happen periodically on both sides of the gender gap (and I've experienced it before from both perspectives...the one obsessed about, and finally, the one who couldn't let go.) It's not pleasant for anyone, but it's impossible to shake someone out of that phase no matter how vehemently you try.It may be worthwhile just once to explain to him how this makes you feel, and tell him it gives you serious concerns about the future viability of your relationship. This could have some awareness-inspiring impact on him, but be prepared for the denial in him to win out yet again. Then you must decide for yourself if you want to continue with a partner who is still hung up on an ex. Good luck to you.
2007-10-24 11:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always tough to get involved with someone that is fresh out of a relationship. clearly he is into playing games to a point. although it apparently is not directed at you but it still hurts your feelings. not sure what to tell you other than tell him to grow up and get over it. better yet move on as he is not ready to be in another serious relationship tell him to call you when he is... good luck hun!
2007-10-24 18:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by generaldisarray69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is trying to piss her off he is actually just doing sumthin to get her attention which means he still likes her....i'd leave him he prolly wit u jus to be wit somebody til he can get back wit her but who knows
2007-10-24 18:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by Killa Child 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋