Family & Relationships - 24 October 2007

Why did you end your relationship without a explanation? How long was it?

2007-10-24 10:28:01 · 10 answers · asked by lilly l 6 in Marriage & Divorce

So here's the deal. I was dating this guy for two years. We were supposed to get married in December. We broke up about 3 months ago b/c of my mom (can be overbearing) he says and if we were meant to be we will end up back together....w/e...

Ever since he and I broke up, he's been calling me about the most random things (i.e. Are you going to homecoming (we both graduated from the same university), how's your mom, did I leave something at your apartment---he did leave a whole bunch of crap in my apartment like dvd's, clothes, etc.

He asks me why I don't call him, do I still love him, blah blah blah... I got a call today, and he said he's been dating someone else...However, he claims that he doesn't want to date her and he really wants to get married and have kids...He asked me, if still being in love with me and missing me counts for anything. I said no...

Tell me ...what do you think is his angle/what do you think about the situation and how would you handle it...?

2007-10-24 10:27:42 · 27 answers · asked by Nemos Mom 2.2.10 3 in Singles & Dating

Would you have liked your dad as David Becham, or Robbie Williams, or Harry Potter as your brother?!!?
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2007-10-24 10:26:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

-I like this girl and was going to ask her out

-everyone is telling me not to ask her because she is a $LUT

-its true, she has been with a lot of guys and done it with em

-but i still like her a lot and want to be with her

-i have no idea if she likes me or not

-should i ask her out or not? why or why not

2007-10-24 10:25:36 · 16 answers · asked by The Great One 4 in Singles & Dating

The girl is beautiful but only this is she's bald. Do you still find her attractive ?

2007-10-24 10:24:32 · 10 answers · asked by mixedcurlyfries 3 in Singles & Dating

im a girl n this guy i know has been texting me.i dont fancy him.(hes older than me bt very imature)..he asked me if i wanted more footie training(it was a peace offering).we met up twice 4trainin.we were going to meet up for training and then he txtd me2say he couldnt go (hes been doing this for a while) a couple of hrs later he said he cud-but it would have been 2 late for me to get ready.. (he was probably only covering himself)..anyway- i didnt reply to either of those texts as i was annoyed..the other day, he texted me with a dirty joke.(was this 2 get n2 my good books again??).i ignored that txt 2can you please explain his behavoiur?!!.i would completely ignore him but i want more training and he knows this. hes also v v good.could he be doing this to put me off from doing ne more training.messn with my head or could he fancy me? he also told me he was h0rny in 1text. but i brushed it off as a joke as hes a bit of a charmer.plz tell me wot u think and WHY! thanks

2007-10-24 10:23:53 · 1 answers · asked by jaffacakesaresogood 3 in Friends

It looks like he's getting cold feet and ready to back out of this. I don't want him to leave me at the alter so should I just call off the wedding?

2007-10-24 10:23:31 · 16 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Weddings

2007-10-24 10:23:11 · 42 answers · asked by jay dee 1 in Singles & Dating

... left anonymous notes in your locker, giving you clues as to who she was? would you go out with her when you figured it out ... or it is just stupid?

2007-10-24 10:22:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 10:20:56 · 9 answers · asked by kay 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 10:20:05 · 41 answers · asked by wildblu62 1 in Family

My fiance always wanted a beach wedding and we live in SoCal so I said why not. However, we have no idea where we should be looking, what permits might be required, et cetera. Iwould appreciate some info or weblinks that may lead us to our answer.

2007-10-24 10:18:37 · 5 answers · asked by graemelemle 2 in Weddings

3.5 years and now the relationship is strained again. He goes to counseling for his anger issues, he's nice for a few months, then he's short-fused again and we bicker every night. Yelling at my son for normal activities, fighting with my 9 year old like he's 9 himself, fighting with me for getting mad at him for fighting with my son....constant circle. I'm walking on eggshells again - can't say anything without him getting mad.

2007-10-24 10:18:01 · 20 answers · asked by jcsmom1998 1 in Marriage & Divorce

calls me hun everytime i talk to her and smiles at me .i try to tslk to her every other day.it was in a leadership class i had last yr. when it was the last day of sophomore yr. she just smiled.is she happy to see me?

2007-10-24 10:17:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We got married at the JPs office in February. We are having a wedding/reception in Feb 08 and I can't figure out how we want to do the ceremony. Any ideas?

2007-10-24 10:14:28 · 9 answers · asked by megaggie2002 1 in Weddings

I've been with my boyfriend (Greg) for 11 months (almost 12). Sometimes I'm really unsure if he loves me or not. Of course we hug and kiss and stuff but theres just certain things that I question. Like in school, he can be a total jerk without even realizing it. Maybe I just over-worry too much? I do second-guess a lot too. But I hate when he flirts with other girls or refuses to set things straight with me and his dad (his dad hates me because he thinks I'm a satanist). It's a very confusing life and I need some answers or advice FAST. Anyone?

2007-10-24 10:09:50 · 2 answers · asked by hxckidd 1 in Singles & Dating

OK this girl that i kinda have a crush on asks me out. But like an idiot i got nervous and said "i don know.... maybe". but now i completely regret that i said that cause i should have said yes. Also a lot of my friends don like her (but shes really hot) and im afraid that they wont be my friends no more. i need help big time.

2007-10-24 10:08:01 · 58 answers · asked by asdfghjkl 1 in Singles & Dating

someone please tell my friend here what small talk is and/or things you could say to start small talking with someone- she wants to see what people other me and her think.

2007-10-24 10:06:02 · 6 answers · asked by Julia G 2 in Singles & Dating

have you evr screwed up in ur life....especially ur lov life?

i have and i need some advice: i wanted a guys number and now i have it

the bad part is: my freind showed me to him and i looked really ugly when she quikly showed me to him!!!!

now what shud i do?

also share ur stories...it'll make me feel better!

thanks...i need it!

2007-10-24 10:05:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Were planning a formal vow renewal for march of 2011. It's going to be a formal event. With just close family and a few friends.

The problem: My hubby's sister hates me. We don't get along at all. Ive done my best to be civil and cordial to no avail. My hubby wants his sister thereI don't. You can't invite my mil without my sil to an event like this. The other problem is she wanted to be MY moh, and I've chosen someone else in my family (brothers wife). This also added fuel to the fire. I told my husband WHY would I want to have his sister as my moh if she hates me? That makes no sense. He said "to keep the peace". What peace I thought. She's been rude and hateful to me since the day after our wedding. Hubby witnessed it all. He stands by me.

What can I do to make this event drama free other then discluding my husbands sister? SHe is his family. I want him to be happy to.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

2007-10-24 10:05:52 · 13 answers · asked by dietitian4u 2 in Weddings

I just discovered that my wife has accumulated about $40,000 in debt, which she had been hiding from me. I was tipped off to take a closer look at things, when some of our bills were not getting paid, like the house payment (She always mails the bills from her office). When I confronted her she came clean, but she handed me a stack off bills she never mailed....the checks I wrote out were still in the envelopes. I drained our saving trying to get caught up on the bills. I am so pissed.
She refuses to tell me what and where all the money went.

2007-10-24 10:05:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I honestly have not. I would think it would be easier for a woman than a man. Anyone?

2007-10-24 10:03:33 · 16 answers · asked by SuperDude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What would be your first move?

2007-10-24 10:02:42 · 24 answers · asked by ɐuıʇsıɹɔ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

They've been yelling at me everyday to bring my math grade up, which is a B, and I just got a D+ on the mideterm, that might bring me down to a C. How do I tell my parents?? Our report cards are coming next week, they'll kill me!

2007-10-24 10:02:21 · 3 answers · asked by Janis 2 in Family

so we became friend and i new he liked me and he would call me walk me to my classes be so nice and then he stoped likeing me and we barely talk. i mean i get it he doesnt like me as anything more then a friend but that doesnt mean that we cant just be friends and talk im not asking him to go and act exactly the same way but atleast be normal i have guy friends who i only like as friends and i still talk to them and hang out with them he's so wiard!!!

2007-10-24 10:02:16 · 12 answers · asked by lalcutiepie 1 in Friends

be 100% honest ladies

2007-10-24 10:01:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm narsistic and have a hard time showing feelings and empithy. Our marrage is in trouble. I love her very much and don't want to loose her. Thanks

2007-10-24 10:00:11 · 20 answers · asked by Seaesta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin is 17 and is planning on getting married around her 18th birthday to her boyfriend, 21, this December. Nobody knew about this until a few weeks ago. Now she wants me to help her plan the wedding and go with her to her fiancee's hometown for the wedding. HELP!

2007-10-24 09:56:29 · 6 answers · asked by texasqueensteph 2 in Marriage & Divorce

am goin to see ma girlfriend on saturday who lives quite a bit away and i thot i should get her somethin?? wat tho??
shes 14 by the way

2007-10-24 09:55:36 · 33 answers · asked by Pilot_93 1 in Singles & Dating

On the 13 of November is My Wedding Anniversary and at the same time it's a First Birthday for our Second Daughter which i can celebrate first since i'm on Loveless Marriage.

2007-10-24 09:53:11 · 9 answers · asked by Mrs Diesel 2 in Marriage & Divorce