2007-10-24 10:23:11 · 42 answers · asked by jay dee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's not something you can prove,,, I hear if a person is accusing you of something for no reason,, then they are probably the one doing the cheating,,, tell him that he will just have to trust you then ask him what the hell did he do while you were gone,,, that he is having a hard time believing you,,
2007-10-24 10:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by pumkin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't prove it. He either trusts you or not. If you really were going to cheat you would do it anyway - going on holiday would not be an excuse.
2007-10-24 11:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he prove to you that he didn't cheat on you while he wasn't on holiday with you?
There's not much you can do to prove it to him, other than the words of your friends who were there with you. And that really isn't proof.
2007-10-24 20:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear! I've been in this situation before!! It's not the nicest thing in the world... Just keep telling him the truth. Let him know that you didn't. Don't let him forget that he's who you want, he's your boyfriend. If you wanted someone else then you would have moved on. There is nothing you can do but keep telling him that nothing happened. The whole relationship has to be about trust... He has to trust you.
2007-10-24 10:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did cheat then theres not point in lying to him, so just tell him the truth, and if you really didnt cheat, then he should just be able to trust you, theres no way that you can prove it, how about showing how much your concerned by showing him this? Maybe then he'll believe you.
Hope that helped.
2007-10-24 10:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by ravegirl_x 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to "prove' to your boyfriend that you didn't cheat on him, there are some obvious trust issues with him, and perhaps he should be your boyfriend any more (aka: you need to break up with him).
Also, if he's wanting proof, I'd be more suspicious that he cheated on you while you were away... hmmmm....
2007-10-24 10:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust issues = broken relationship. Very hard to repair.
Do these trust issues exist because ...?
1. You cheated or lied previously or
2. He cheated or lied previously or
3. He's just a jerk?
At any rate, it would be best to break it off and start a new honest relationship with another person.
2007-10-24 10:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by backwardsinheels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm. well if your boyfriend really doesnt believe you and trust you, you are wasting your time trying to prove it to him. otherwise, just explain to him that youd never do that. you could also pull the card that maybe while you were on holiday, he cheated, and hes feeling guilty =)
2007-10-24 10:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by megan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been with him? Surely he should know and trust you by now. There is nothing you can do, I think you need to consider if this relationship is worth it. How many arguements are you going to have, well I would say it is a waste of energy.
2007-10-24 10:30:53 · answer #9 · answered by Tina W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should trust you, Relationships are all about trusting each other if you can't do that maybe your relationship isnt the best it could be. Sit down with him and have a chat, see where all this curiosity is coming from and maybe you7 can sort it out from there.
2007-10-24 10:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋